your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Steffi

Hi, had today my first experience to wear an belt. It was a very big mix of feelings!

My friend should allowed visited me today, first. But then my parents had to leave our house for some hours because of an problem in family.

I should go with my parents but was not happy about them. There was an discussion and at the end i got the choice to go with my parents or to use an old belt from my oldest sister.

So, my mom put me this belt on. First i feel scared in the belt. Knowing it would stay some hours on me. I had this belt on, one hour then my parents have to leave.
My feeling was an bit scared and angry as one. But it was the deal, if i would stay at home, i have to wear it.

I decided it to wear them, because i would have some time with my friend.

My other sister was also at home. In an urgend case, i should tell her and there was an immergency key in the house if there any problems.

The belt is now off from me 🙂 The belt from my sister is an bit to large, told my mom. But it was ok in her mind for today.

Hope, that this feelings would not be same next time in such an belt, hope this will be more "normal" in next times.

Ines

Steffi There was an discussion and at the end i got the choice to go with my parents or to use an old belt from my oldest sister.

Of course, Well, it is quite logical what happened, I certainly would not be allowed to stay with my boyfriend without a chastity belt either.
You have been lucky that your parents have settled for a belt that does not fit perfectly.
You can see that they give quite a lot of freedom.

Steffi My other sister was also at home. In an urgend case, i should tell her and there was an immergency key in the house if there any problems.

Emergency key is a must.

Steffi The belt is now off from me 🙂 The belt from my sister is an bit to large, told my mom. But it was ok in her mind for today.

You have told us that your belt will come with accessories.
Are you going to have breaks allowed?
What is the regime of use of your accessories?
You must not tolerate abuses.

Angelina

Steffi

was this the first time you wore a belt in general? has your belt already been ordered and if so, when will it arrive? what does your boyfriend say about all this?
sorry for all the questions, but i think it's interesting to know all this to be able to give you tips afterwards 🙂

Steffi

Ines You must not tolerate abuses.

I dont feel abused 😉 Would not tell that i am happy about and it was not my wish, but i accept it. Not easy to explain, but i am not forced. I could decide also not to use such an belt but then some things would not be same or possible/allowed.

Ines What is the regime of use of your accessories?

think would be same as for my sisters. The have them at night or if parents are not at home. Sometimes the have also on wen they have cheatet family rules or they are not well behaved.

Ines Are you going to have breaks allowed?

How do you mean break? Break time from the belt itself? No not when permanently wearing starts.

Ines You can see that they give quite a lot of freedom.

This could be a point of view 😉

Ines You have been lucky that your parents have settled for a belt that does not fit perfectly

Hmmm, think this was more an spontan reaction from my mum, but not shure.

Angelina was this the first time you wore a belt in general?

Yes was the absolutely first time. It was kinda weird but also this beld has give me an chance never had before.

Angelina has your belt already been ordere

I was measured last weekend two weeks ago. My parents told me that it was ordered at same tim.

Angelina when will it arrive?

Could not tell you, but my parents are awaiting them each day.

Angelina what does your boyfriend say about all this?

He dont know it at moment. I was not able to tell him yesterday. It was all confuse in my had, i did not have the courage to tell him yesterday.

Angelina

Steffi I could decide also not to use such an belt but then some things would not be same or possible/allowed.

may i ask what the consequences would be if you refused to wear the belt ?

Steffi No not when permanently wearing starts

how should your training look like? so the time until you are at 24/7?

Steffi He dont know it at moment. I was not able to tell him yesterday. It was all confuse in my had, i did not have the courage to tell him yesterday.

but he will have to know, it looks like you will spend a few years with the belt, he has to be informed about it, he should not discover it by accident.

Ines

Steffi I could decide also not to use such an belt but then some things would not be same or possible/allowed.

It sounds very familiar to me

Steffi think would be same as for my sisters. The have them at night or if parents are not at home. Sometimes the have also on wen they have cheatet family rules or they are not well behaved.

It is fair. Does your mother have same regime?

Steffi How do you mean break?

Well, I mean time without the belt, for classes, or sporting, hygiene or even time for yourself without the belt.

Steffi He dont know it at moment. I was not able to tell him yesterday. It was all confuse in my had, i did not have the courage to tell him yesterday.

Do not be afraid, even if I was a bit older when I started to date with my boyfriend he never had any problem.

Angelina

Ines when I started to date with my boyfriend he never had any problem.

well, i think it depends on the character of the partner and also how you explain the situation to him or her.

Ines

Angelina

Yes, but I mean that it is not an automatic rejection. In my case, even, the most we talk about it, he is most happy and accepting it.

Angelina

Ines Yes, but I mean that it is not an automatic rejection. In my case, even, the most we talk about it, he is most happy and accepting it.

I am happy for you, I think you can explain your situation very well. I wish you both all the best for the future. 🙂

Joh

Ines he is most happy and accepting it.

Does he like it if you continue wear the belt after your wedding?

Ines

Joh

I think he will not give me a choice. 😅

Joh

Ines I hope he will be a good key-holder and husband. Regarding the key-holder responsibility he can ask your father and uncle 😉

Angelina

Ines I think he will not give me a choice. 😅

he to you, or you to him?
sorry to ask, but what would happen if he didn't want you to keep wearing the belt and if he didn't want to be your key holder after the wedding?

Ines

Joh

Yes, but he will have to await some years. 😅

Joh

Ines If he is the right one, he will have no problems waiting. And apart from that, I got the impression from your post that you are not unhappy if it continues like this.

Ines

Joh

I would be disappointed if he gives me a choice... 😑😂

Joh

Ines 😄 👍️

Ines

Angelina

😂😂😂

I would be a much more strict keyholder than him, so, for sure, the best for him is take that dammit key.
😂

Angelina

Ines I would be a much more strict keyholder than him, so, for sure, the best for him is take that dammit key.

well, if you were the better key holder, that wouldn't really be a good precondition. has your boyfriend actually said whether he would be willing to take over the keys?

Kate2

Saturday night was not the first time I wore the belt, but it was the first time I wore it overnight. It was harder than I thought it was going to be. Previously I had just worn it around the house for a few hours each night, trying to get used to it. My sister has been wearing one all night, every night for some time, so she helped calm me down.

I know it is going to get harder before it gets easier. It's weird having to learn to do things differently. My sister said I will learn to adjust to it.

Angelina

Kate2

thanks for your update, yes sleeping is a big challenge and i am positively surprised that it worked the first time, not everyone can do that. nice that @Susan supports you so strongly 🙂
Have you tried putting a pillow between your legs? That makes it more comfortable. Otherwise you should try to find a fixed position, your body will then get used to it and automatically adopt this position subconsciously.

C-B

Kate2 don´t worry ... it takes time but you will learn ...

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