your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Angelina

Ines when I started to date with my boyfriend he never had any problem.

well, i think it depends on the character of the partner and also how you explain the situation to him or her.

Ines

Yes, but I mean that it is not an automatic rejection. In my case, even, the most we talk about it, he is most happy and accepting it.

Angelina

Ines Yes, but I mean that it is not an automatic rejection. In my case, even, the most we talk about it, he is most happy and accepting it.

I am happy for you, I think you can explain your situation very well. I wish you both all the best for the future. 🙂

Joh

Ines he is most happy and accepting it.

Does he like it if you continue wear the belt after your wedding?

Ines

Joh

I think he will not give me a choice. 😅

Joh

Ines I hope he will be a good key-holder and husband. Regarding the key-holder responsibility he can ask your father and uncle 😉

Angelina

Ines I think he will not give me a choice. 😅

he to you, or you to him?
sorry to ask, but what would happen if he didn't want you to keep wearing the belt and if he didn't want to be your key holder after the wedding?

Ines

Joh

Yes, but he will have to await some years. 😅

Joh

Ines If he is the right one, he will have no problems waiting. And apart from that, I got the impression from your post that you are not unhappy if it continues like this.

Ines

Joh

I would be disappointed if he gives me a choice... 😑😂

Joh

Ines 😄 👍️

Ines

Angelina

😂😂😂

I would be a much more strict keyholder than him, so, for sure, the best for him is take that dammit key.
😂

Angelina

Ines I would be a much more strict keyholder than him, so, for sure, the best for him is take that dammit key.

well, if you were the better key holder, that wouldn't really be a good precondition. has your boyfriend actually said whether he would be willing to take over the keys?

Kate2

Saturday night was not the first time I wore the belt, but it was the first time I wore it overnight. It was harder than I thought it was going to be. Previously I had just worn it around the house for a few hours each night, trying to get used to it. My sister has been wearing one all night, every night for some time, so she helped calm me down.

I know it is going to get harder before it gets easier. It's weird having to learn to do things differently. My sister said I will learn to adjust to it.

Angelina

Kate2

thanks for your update, yes sleeping is a big challenge and i am positively surprised that it worked the first time, not everyone can do that. nice that @Susan supports you so strongly 🙂
Have you tried putting a pillow between your legs? That makes it more comfortable. Otherwise you should try to find a fixed position, your body will then get used to it and automatically adopt this position subconsciously.

C-B

Kate2 don´t worry ... it takes time but you will learn ...

toad

I believe your sister is right. You're lucky to have someone so close to share with.

Susan

toad as you probably know we are very close and watching her Saturday night was hard. There were some tears for sure, but AJ and I helped Kate through it. This whole thing is not easy, it took me some time to get used to it, but my sister is tough and I will support her every step of the way.

Joh

Susan I'm sure your support is a very big help for them. On the one hand, through your practical experience of what she can do better to sleep, and on the other hand, the emotional support because you know exactly what it all means.
Have you tried a pillow between the legs?

Susan

Joh Yes Joh, she is my sister and I will support her at all times. I think it was easier for me then it will be for her. She struggles and fights with the belt more than I did. Now I just accept it and try not to let it bother me. I will be there for her no matter what.

Kate2

Angelina It did not work the first time and I barely got much sleep. My sister was there, and she has gotten used to it. We did go on Sunday to buy some new pillows to test out.

Kate2

C-B I know, it is hard though. AJ wants me to wear it all weekend coming up, including both nights. I have to wear it from the time I get home Friday until Monday morning. I don't have to wear it on days I run, but I days I don't she wants me in it.

Joh

Susan Now I just accept it and try not to let it bother me.

It will be a great help for @Kate2 and your way to accept it as well. If you can not change it why should you spent your time with fighting. You can do nice thing instead.

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