your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

curious

Renita It happened few times already. The belt stayed on.

But would you not consider yourself an involuntary wearer then? I mean, when you have no longer consent but are still locked..?

Jonas

Renita I tried to wear one when I was around 20, but given up. This time I did everything properly.

This is my experience too.

Renita "No longer want the belt" is not a reason for termination.

Yeah, I ended up considering my belt to be a need, not a mere want.

curious But would you not consider yourself an involuntary wearer then? I mean, when you have no longer consent but are still locked..?

Sorry, don't mean to barge in, but I think @Renita gave made her choice in such a way that authority now rests with her mom. This is very clever because her mom isn't subject to her sex drive. This means that the decision to unlock will always be made by someone with a clear head with her interests and values at heart.

Kaja

Damien The best post what I read there.

Renita

Jonas This means that the decision to unlock will always be made by someone with a clear head with her interests and values at heart.

I couldn't say it better than you did. She cares about my chastity great. No "incidents" happened.

Elsa

Damien End opinion 🙂

Damien Your body must surely be protesting by now

Of course the urges increase! Of course, there are moments when I would like to throw everything away

Damien but do your heart and mind celebrate your chastity?

Yes I do. When some moments are over, I'm glad that the belt was there and gave protection..

Damien How exactly does it feel to leave your future sexual self determination with your aunt and uncle, now that you are officially an adult?

So everything is somehow based on my wish too. Of course they are slowly implementing the whole thing more and more strictly, but they only ensure that the actual goal is achieved. That's why it feels right.

Damien You do not owe anyone.

Thats right!

Damien State your right to earn breaks and choose your conditions. Prove your purity to yourself, don't just give away more freedom than you need gone.

The path that was taken is the path that I also think is right, including no breaks for self pleasure.

Angelina

Elsa The next long-term attempt just started now. Until Friday morning is now the goal.

good luck for that too, even if i have to say that it all happens very quickly, there were not even 24 hours between the two long-term tests

Elsa Without bands she was more likely to run up the stairs (2 steps at a time). With bands it was much slower and step by step. So I could see it well 😉

"Sister, were you bad again or why are you walking up the stairs so slowly?" haha, sorry I just have to imagine that 😂

Alena-CB congratulation to first belted weekend

nice to see you back on the forum, how are you doing now? are you in the belt 24/7 now? 🙂

Elsa Of course they are slowly implementing the whole thing more and more strictly, but they only ensure that the actual goal is achieved. That's why it feels right.

I think the question is rather, are you doing this for others, or do you believe in the values of chastity yourself and think that it's right for you?

Damien

Elsa The path that was taken is the path that I also think is right, including no breaks for self pleasure.

This determination is even more admirable coming after five days belted (and banded?) in a row, a typical timespan where some of your brothers and sisters in spirit might stumble on the verge of nervous breakdown. Please continue to keep us posted on the little quirks, challenges, peculiarities, pride and crisis of your chaste journey.

Elsa

Angelina or do you believe in the values of chastity yourself and think that it's right for you?

Yes i do and so its right for me.

Alena-CB

Angelina yes alredy longer time I have 24/7, I think that I wrote it here already but I´m not sure

Renita

MissBlossom Are you saying that you are not allowed to withdraw consent and stop wearing the belt entirely?

Sure, I can. Nobody can force me to wear a belt against my will.

MissBlossom Or is it more like you changed your mind before your waiting period expired?

Until I calm down.

MissBlossom Or were you not trying to withdraw consent entirely, but requesting a break, and it was denied?

Emotions. Coming from an argument if she refuses to take the belt off.

MissBlossom

Renita
Thank you for explaining.

Laura

Renita Coming from an argument if she refuses to take the belt off.

What was that argument about?

Jonas

Damien Please continue to keep us posted on the little quirks, challenges, peculiarities, pride and crisis of your chaste journey.

And, without breaking any confidences, can you tell us more about the challenges wearers have reported to you? And overall, is chastity bringing them happiness and peace and satisfaction (though obv not in a sexual sense!)?

Elsa

Damien Please continue to keep us posted on the little quirks, challenges, peculiarities, pride and crisis of your chaste journey.

I'll do it. As long as it doesn't bother anyone, I'm happy to do it 😉

Damien There's mundane challenges, like finding your best cleaning routine.

I had a supervised cleaning break earlier.
That's something I still have to get used to, being watched closely (by my mom) when I take a shower and everything else.

Otherwise, the second long-term test is also going quite well.

Tomorrow there will be another break from morning to evening.

After that comes the big hour tomorrow evening. When the belt is then locked again, wearing starts!

Angelina

Alena-CB yes alredy longer time I have 24/7, I think that I wrote it here already but I´m not sure

does everything work the way you want it to, or are there problems?

Elsa After that comes the big hour tomorrow evening. When the belt is then locked again, wearing starts!

so this is the last hours before you start 24/7? are you nervous?

Renita

Laura I asked her to take the belt off for a date. She refused.

Jonas

Renita Laura I asked her to take the belt off for a date. She refused.

That's great key-holding right there. Buy her a gift in thanks?

Jonas

Elsa I was still shocked about the tightness and the power of pressure where comes from the belt. Knowing I could not get it out without the key.

Even after wearing for so long, I still get this feeling sometimes. I can have completely forgotten that I'm wearing my chastity belt, when suddenly the realisation that I am locked in steel underwear hits me like a freight train. I feel exactly as you describe all at once.

Elsa

Jonas Even after wearing for so long, I still get this feeling sometimes.

It's always like this for me when I take my belt off and then put it back on.

Jonas challenges wearers have reported to you?

Using the toilet is not easy, especially with the bands! That can still be improved.

I still sometimes wonder if anyone will notice the belt.

I'm slowly getting on better and better with the restrictions in the movements.

Jonas And overall, is chastity bringing them happiness and peace and satisfaction

I can now slowly use and enjoy the advantages of the belt.

I no longer have to ask if I can go out and I don't have to stick to any times.

Peace, yes you could say there are fewer discussions due to the advantages of the belt 😃

Damien

Jonas There's mundane challenges, like finding your best cleaning routine. One lady I remotely held keys for caught a vexatious urinary tract infection because she wanted to be belted non stop for three weeks in a row. My mistake, I had recommended, but not insisted on her cleaning breaks. (On the other hand, another long distance acquaintance has proven for almost three years now that she can remain belted for weeks in a row without ever catching a yeast infection or UTI. I guess it depends on the individual vaginal pH, choices of clothing, the cleaning technique when belted, and of course how thoroughly you dry off after bath or shower)
Obviously the reasonable rhythm is to take the belt off for cleaning at least every two days, but I'd be happy to hear from wearers about your experience. Has someone found a safe way to clean belt and female anatomy belted, maybe with little brushes or sponges?

Jonas

Damien Yeah, UTIs are a problem and I understand they can be very persistent. How much these are due to CB use I don't know, but certainly hygiene becomes really important, especially after bowel movements. The usual recommendation here on the forum is to use a squeezable water bottle and to wash regularly. I use a talc (substitute) to keep my Neosteel belt moisture free. Oh, that's a question I'd love to ask... Do your chaste pen-friends tend to have full belts from Neosteel, Mysteel etc or do they use others? The former belts are expensive.

Damien

Jonas "chaste pen friends", I like that 🙂 Three my-steels, one Neosteel, one Fancy Steel currently (on and off, I cannot keyhold responsibly for five persons at the same time of course, but only two are permanent wearers, and one of them is so proficient with her belt, her safe codes and reports that she does not often need my support.)
I recommend to keep a cheap chinese cable belt (the one with perforated secondary shield and just cable in the back, no ring, worn low on the hips) in reserve, for swimming or sports or when skin or bones need a break from the main belt. That works fine for most, but one girl complained about "cheese grating" her poor labia in this cable belt. And of course, a cable belt has to be a lot tighter than a my-steel to be as safe.

Damien

Elsa I can now slowly use and enjoy the advantages of the belt.

Dear Elsa, have you enjoyed your new found freedom of going out in your belt yet? Please tell us how was it - can you do la bise (the kiss,kiss hello embrace) with your friends without them noticing something is different? Can you relax? Have you bought new outfits better tailored to your new needs?

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