Damien Ah, a friendly old pervert with an established reputation!! I understand. Thanks for being so clear. I've one more question then, if you wouldn't mind..
What do you get out of the keyholding? I get that it may tickle your fancy, but then so does wearing a belt, for many.
But does it mean anything more to you to keep others' keys? For example I find wearing my belt satisfies a deep personal need and can produce both peace and calm, and a load of interesting life-situations and intense feelings. I'd go as far as to say that it makes me feel more alive even. My belt also primarily helps me to achieve my goals and to patch up my weak spots making me (I think) a better man. Wearing is often uncomfortable, but overall a joy.
I wonder, do your carry your key-codes, or at least the thought of them, wherever you go ...as I carry my belt? Does the knowledge bring you satisfaction? Without judgement, is your keyholding more self-less or selfish? Do you get a kick out of keyholding beyond kink?
This is where I always make reference to Tobbe. When writing here (Where you at @Tobbe?!) he always appears so full of glee and sparkle when talking about the subject. He seems to love the way that a chastity belt is designed to "outsmart" the wearer by repeatedly blocking all their attempts to cheat... Eg:
🤔 .oO( "OK. Can I slip the belt off...?" Aw no! It's too tight around my waist!)
🥺 .oO( "OK. Can I open my legs wide...?" Aw no! The shield somehow remains firmly in place!!)
😬 .oO( "OK F*** this! Can I remove the belt...?" Aw no! It's locked and the shackle is guarded!!!)
😳 .oO( "OK. Can I masturbate through the belt...?" Aw no! There's a secondary shield!!!!)
😲 .oO( "OK. Can I reach from the sides...?" Aw no! The shield widens at this point!!!!!)
😵 .oO( "OK. Can I wait until the belt has to come off...?" Aw no! It's designed to be worn long-term!!!!!!)
🤯 .oO( "OK. Can I cut the belt off...?" Aw no! I agreed consequences for tampering with my keyholder!!!!!!!)
It seems to me that a keyholder who loves keyholding and a wearer who loves wearing are a really positive match! Why? Because in full consent, the "cheating" here is cheating the wearer's own cold light of day choice to live in chastity. The only enforcement is the re-enforcement of their own will. The only trickery here is from the body and all its attempts to circumvent the wearers decision and get sex and masturbation to happen.
It's clear that chastity can be done wrongly, very wrongly, but I think it can also be done right. It's clear you take your responsibilities seriously, but I hope you have a really positive experience being a keyholder too.
