your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Sasha

Elsa The showering observation isn’t easy to get used to. My mother and I compromised on watching through the frosted shower door, which is still a bit uncomfortable at first but not as bad. Now it’s not as big a deal.
Between showering and working out we usually have some great conversations about school, work, things we need for the house or whatever.

Angelina

Elsa

congratulations for making it through a week 🙂
i can understand that the supervised showers are not pleasant, it's not nice to be watched naked during a very private thing, but it's probably not feasible to keep you chaste without it. how are you doing psychologically? can you manage the feeling of not being able to touch yourself?

Elsa

Angelina but it's probably not feasible to keep you chaste without it

That's probably true. Just the last few days I've caught myself wishing I could have a brief unobserved moment.

Luckily it's only been admonitions so far, but my mum said I should be a little more careful about what I'm doing.

Angelina how are you doing psychologically? can you manage the feeling of not being able to touch yourself?

There are good times and bad times. the weekend in particular was very hard!
somehow everything is a bit freaky right now. Cold showers help a bit. but I don't want to complain. It's just the way it is at the moment, and I kind of have to get through it now.

Angelina

Elsa Luckily it's only been admonitions so far, but my mum said I should be a little more careful about what I'm doing.

yes, so at least you should not let your mother catch you at such times. 😉

Elsa somehow everything is a bit freaky right now. Cold showers help a bit. but I don't want to complain. It's just the way it is at the moment, and I kind of have to get through it now.

i believe you, you have to get used to the situation, it's really not easy. try to distract yourself and talk to your mother when you're feeling really bad. good luck futhermore 🙂

Elsa

Angelina yes, so at least you should not let your mother catch you at such times. 😉

That's right. But it's easier said than done. It happens to me rather unintentionally, somehow more like a reflex. I really need to think about not doing that.
My mum also said that I should try a little harder. if you can put it that way.

Angelina try to distract yourself and talk to your mother when you're feeling really bad.

My mum comes to me on her own. It's difficult, especially at the beginning, she always says.

Sasha

Angelina For me that distraction has always been exercise. My frustration usually peaks early morning and later in the day, doing a little workout is so great to burn that off. Plus time spent with mom/siblings and out of the belt. Win win right?
Plus can’t argue with the results lol

Joh

Elsa That's right. But it's easier said than done. It happens to me rather unintentionally, somehow more like a reflex. I really need to think about not doing that.
My mum also said that I should try a little harder. if you can put it that way.

The Job of your mother (Key holder) is to Look after you and your Well Bering. She has to Help you in this difficult Situation. To Tell you only to try Harder is Not helpfull.

Angelina

Elsa I really need to think about not doing that.

actually not, because it is exactly because of these reflexes you are wearing the belt. you should just not let your mother give you the impression that you have serious intentions to cheat. 😉

Sasha

i study for distraction for my studies or cook and bake, that helps me a lot, also spending time with friends helps

Elsa

Sasha Plus time spent with mom/siblings and out of the belt. Win win right?

You have breaks when you are with family?

Elsa

Joh To Tell you only to try Harder is Not helpfull.

Maybe I should put this in context.

The procedure is as follows: the belt is unlocked. First I clean the belt. I'll give this to my mum. Then while I'm showering she checks the belt. Before that, however, she once again warns me to be careful when showering.

If I don't pay enough attention when taking a shower, she warns me again. But then she also says that I should be more careful now and make an effort. That's what I meant by try harder.

Joh

Elsa If I don't pay enough attention when taking a shower, she warns me again. But then she also says that I should be more careful now and make an effort. That's what I meant by try harder.

What does this mean?
Do you use showering on purpose to get s nice Feeling or it is only your mothers Imagination?

Renita

Elsa The procedure is as follows: the belt is unlocked. First I clean the belt. I'll give this to my mum. Then while I'm showering she checks the belt. Before that, however, she once again warns me to be careful when showering.

And when does she put it back? In my case it's most important part.

Sasha

Elsa For workouts yes, I’m allowed to be out of my belt and then take a supervised shower. Usually workout with my siblings in the evening and mom in the morning.
It’s a great way for me to spend time with them, have a little time out of the belt and burn off my frustration.

Jen

Damien yikes this is difficult to ignore but like it's not what I actually want like yeah I've been on Reddit and some of that is amazing but I want to do it for real with my guy not online.

MissBlossom

Jen
You are responding to a twelve day old post that wasn't addressed to you.

Are you reading all of @Damien's old posts?

I wonder why you would ever want to do that? Or what it says about what you're thinking about! lol

Damien

Jen I want to do it for real with my guy not online.

I can't argue with that. If the local "guy" of your choice is into the kind of keyholding you like, no need to look any further 🙂

Jen

MissBlossom oh sorry nothing so juicy 😝 that's just where I was up to in this discussion

Sasha

Angelina Having distractions that are enjoyable and beneficial to us is a really great thing

Elsa

Angelina actually not, because it is exactly because of these reflexes you are wearing the belt. you should just not let your mother give you the impression that you have serious intentions to cheat. 😉

That's right 😉 I think that she probably sees it that way, otherwise there would have been consequences.

Renita And when does she put it back? In my case it's most important part.

after both the belt is dry and so am I. Although I also apply cream before.

It's been two weeks today.

Angelina

Sasha

at least this will reduce frustration 😉

Angelina

Elsa That's right 😉 I think that she probably sees it that way, otherwise there would have been consequences.

I hope she sees it that way, anything else would not be good because she would not understand how you feel. PS: Congratulations on two weeks

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