Laura
You put me between the sword and the wall!
To see, as a girl, I recognize that bands are not exactly the part of our equipment that is most comfortable to carry, but they add a huge amount of positive things to our status:
First of all there is the fact of our protection, I know as a mother and as a user, that with the bands, the protection of me and my daughters is absolutely assured.
As a mother, I assume that, ironically, one of the band's functions is to be open. That is, the girl, integrates her keyholder into her world, making him participate in her needs, intentions, feelings. The bond, in two sense is strengthened, and confidence increases (later I reflect on this).
It is the best way for us to notice while using the presence of those who care for us, even if it is far away. The happy woman, it is only possible, and many times I have talked about this with my daughters and in this even the little one agrees, if she gives herself fully, and she notices that this surrender is accepted. The bands allow us to surrender, and feel like the other side, accepts our surrender and treats us like a princess.
The self-discipline and frustration management that teaches us, tries to go down to buy the bread with 5 minutes to the bakery to close!
And allow me to end up talking about trust, when a girl, exposes her guadian the need to be released for some reason, she must listen, and, if the girl is right, to release her as soon as possible. If, on the other hand, the request is a little capricious, you should talk and make him see why in this case the bands will continue in their place. Without swearing or anger, since when she asked, she thought it was an honest request. This was taught to me by my husband once I asked to be released for an ice cream with my friends. I ended up going to the ice cream parlor, happy and in a long dress.
If the user's reasonable requests are never addressed, it will cause a break in the tie of trust, and that more and more things will be kept in the heart, why, so that tell them if you do not mind? And if a girl with a belt feels like she doesn't care about her guardian, she feels like dying inside her.
But.... girls, if we always listen to you and in the face of the slightest discomfort or need that you raise in us we give up and open the bands, the carrier feels that she has control of her belt, and the sense of security and dependence offered by the belt disappears if we feel that we're in control.
I wrote so much. Sorry girls.
