your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Mr-TM

I think that's a good arrangement. But aren't two weeks a bit short? You can easily stick to your opinion for two weeks to get out without really cooling down.

Susan

Mr-TM Originally AJ wanted a month, but agreed to 2 weeks. I have not asked to have it removed yet, but I have been tempted 😀

Joh

Susan We should look at the whole situation. AJ had many and long discussions about the CB, why it is necessary, why she expects it and how it should protect her. Susan certainly understood fully.
When AJ says and means if she will still take the CB off after the two weeks it means the The responsibility is in Susan's hands and Not hers anymore.

I think that's just consequent

Mr-TM

Susan Originally AJ wanted a month, but agreed to 2 weeks.

And you are sure that within the 2 weeks you can calmly and without bias make a good decision on such an important matter? Even if you are in love and want to be intimate with your boyfriend?

Susan

Joh I am not really sure what you mean here. We did have many conversations at the beginning. I was shocked when she first got a belt and said she told me she wanted me to wear it. We talked about it almost every day and every day when I got home I had to put it on. I knew what I was getting into and I agreed to wear it. I know she will be extremely disappointed if I request to take it off.

EngineeringEmily

Susan if I were you I would say I want it off now and in 2 weeks your free.

Joh

Susan

Susan What I mean is in the Last sentence. After the 2 weeks you will be responsible for your life. AJ doesn't fell to be responsible.

Susan

EngineeringEmily I could, but that would be extremely disappointing to my aunt and my relationship with her is too important to me.

Susan

Joh I see what you meant now. Essentially I can ask to have the belt removed, it is my right to do so. If I do so there will be no going back. I love AJ and I am not ready to deal with that.

Angelina

EngineeringEmily

I am so sorry that you felt this way and still feel this way. I wouldn't have broken up with your boyfriend though. If he really loves you and knows your situation (also that you are doing it for financial reasons) he would certainly have understood. I hope you have a lot of success in your studies and later in your job, so that at some point you can say that it was worth it

Susan I think it was @Angelina that originally suggested it.

no, that wasn't me. i don't think much of cooling off periods, when you make such an important decision, you should think about it before you say it

Susan

Angelina no, that wasn't me. i don't think much of cooling off periods, when you make such an important decision, you should think about it before you say it

Sorry Angelina, I know it was on one of these posts and assumed it was you. AJ liked the idea so she decided to draw something up based on that post.

Joh

Susan It is your life and you decide Nobody else. Do what feels right.

Susan

Joh I will Joh and thank you. Alot of people don't understand why my sister and me would do this. It's hard and it definitely has caused us to make some lifestyle changes. It has helped me not make bad decisions when I have been incredibly tempted. AJ is pretty strict about it for sure, but the more I wear it, the more I understand why if that makes sense.

Susan

Mr-TM We agreed to one month, as I mentioned in another post. I have been as intimate as I can be, it is hard for sure when he (mostly) gets what he wants and I can't. When he goes back to school next month it will be easier...

Joh

Susan Should this mean you Accept it better as before and it is easier to wear it and go through difficult situation?

Joh

Susan I have been as intimate as I can be, it is hard for sure when he (mostly) gets what he wants and I can't.

Even if you don't get what you want, are you at least happy that he gets something from you?

Angelina

Susan We agreed to one month, as I mentioned in another post. I have been as intimate as I can be, it is hard for sure when he (mostly) gets what he wants and I can't. When he goes back to school next month it will be easier...

From a sexual point of view that's true, but hopefully not in other respects. you should enjoy seeing your boyfriend and not suffer from it. So now the phase should be one month? is actually irrelevant, because the problem remains the same. you know how important it is for your aunt, if you don't want to wear the belt anymore, you should think about it beforehand. you can curse and scold about the belt as you like, but a clear no must be considered and should then be implemented as soon as possible

Susan

Joh Yes I accept it, but it is hard when we are together. I have learned to deal with it.

Susan

Joh Yes, making him happy makes me happy.

Joh

Susan This is nice. Does he make you happy?

Joh

Susan You Like my question but is he able to make you happy in one or other way?

Angelina

Susan Yes, making him happy makes me happy.

does he care about you when you are frustrated if you make him happy or does he only think about his own happiness?

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