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Nate

We still didn't get to having sex together, so there's no point for him to release me more often. We'll see how this develops in the future.

My parents allowed me to relieve myself once a month during cleaning, and my bf continued with that at first. There are no breaks, I always went straight back to the cage after that. By less frequent releases, I mean this is now happening only once per two months.

Shrop

When I was 15 and was locked for the first time, I only agreed to it because I knew it was probably needed. However, I really hated it and wanted to masturbate. I even tried to pull off the cage several times, but it wouldn't come off. My parents always found this and punished me. I only got used to wearing it after a year or so, but still.

I'm still playing floorball (well, when it's covid-safe) but now under uni class. My friend Robin is here too (since he's just in different faculty). I also go to the gym 2-3x a week with my boyfriend, and Jake sometimes joins too. When I'm really horny, I feel a lot more aggressive on the field and it makes me workout harder.

Actually, Robin has the metal version of CB, because his parents wanted to and he wasn't given a choice. He's filling the cage entirely, and he said it's maybe a little too small. I think it's better a little bit too small, rather than way too big.

Max9

Yeah, I agree with you - after all, Jake and I still wear HolyTrainers. My parents have given me a choice to switch my cage when I was 17, but I didn't really want to. When Jake was locked before moving to study, he said he wanted to have the same cage a me. Unfortunately, my friend Robin wasn't given any choice.

Max9

Nate no point for him to release me more often.

there anyway was no point in it even if he wanted to have sex... I mean ... you're a gay couple and a cage doesn't stop him fromhaving sex with you.

Shrop

Nate

How did your parents punish you when you tried to remove the cage. Did Jake want to copy his big brother and be locked as well? Did you warn him not to get into a masturbation habit and leave his dick alone. Is Robin ever allowed relief? I hope you and Jake will both want to stop getting relief, the earlier you stop the better. I think you and your bf are being sensible in not having early sex. Is your BF the same age as you, I'd hope that he will also want to abstain from sexual activity until you are both able have sex when you have passed your courses.

Angelina

Nate We still didn't get to having sex together, so there's no point for him to release me more often. We'll see how this develops in the future.

My parents allowed me to relieve myself once a month during cleaning, and my bf continued with that at first. There are no breaks, I always went straight back to the cage after that. By less frequent releases, I mean this is now happening only once per two months.

thanks for the clarification, due to the splitting of the posts i did not understand the connection at first, but now i understand it 🙂

Vanessa

Nate He allows me to orgasm once a month or two, but not more.

Good you have some breaks!

Nate The first few months they didn't allow me to relief at all

Why?

Nate He was locked for the same reason

Is he still locked?

Nate the releases are now less frequent

Sorry for you;any reason for it?

Nate My parents always found this and punished me

Unfair,it is normal to fight it.

Nate Don't you (all) think it's still too early to have sex together?

I think it's far from too early!😉

Nate we're fine with how it is.

That's the most important.

Nate at the end of each semester

Very rare.

Nate The problem is when the masturbation starts to interfere with your normal activities

Yes,but the belt/cage is a help,not a solution.

Nate

Max9

I moved on campus at the end of August last year and I first met him beginning November.
Don't you (all) think it's still too early to have sex together?

Of course we want it in the future, but right now, we're fine with how it is.
Btw, just to be clear: I don't consider the once a month unlocks to relieve myself as sex, even when he's there.

Max9

Nate Idk... 🤷‍♂️ is it? I have no ides about that.

Nate

Shrop

They spanked me, like they always did when we misbehaved. I also wasn't allowed any release until they were sure I was "not addicted to masturbation anymore".

Neither Jake or I wanted to be locked. I agreed just because I knew that I needed it. Of course, since I shared a room with Jake at home, he could see that I'm locked and knew very well he would end like me if he masturbated too much.

Unfortunately for him, given his relationships with girls, our parents wouldn't allow him to move out to study elsewhere unless he was caged.

Robin once mentioned that he was allowed at the end of each semester, but that was more than a year ago. Although we talk about our cages sometimes, we don't discuss that at all.

At least for me and Jake, it's not about being denied any relief completely. After all, normal masturbation is not unhealthy. The problem is when the masturbation starts to interfere with your normal activities or there's possibility that you could have sex. That's why we're caged. But maybe you have different opinion this?

My bf is a year older, he's 20. He isn't caged and I'm fine with that just like he's fine (and actually helps me) with me staying locked.

Shrop

Nate

Had you been trying to reduce your frequency of masturbation before you were locked? I assume that you had been told that your rate was excessive. What rate did your parent think was normal, Once a week, once a month, Once a year ? How long did you go before you were not addicted anymore?

How often did Jake masturbate?, How did he manage not to be accused of excessive masturbation? Why did he want to study elsewhere (near you)? What was he doing with girls that made your parents want him locked? Do you have any more younger male relatives?

How long are your semesters? I think you ought talk to Robin, Jake and your bf about you all cutting yourself induced orgasms down more. ideally to none and see if you wet dream. As you see I do have a different opinion. Young virgin teenager about once a week, otherwise only with your partner. mature teenage less than once a month idealy none No partner or an adult no orgasms.

I assume that your bf is a gay virgin man, and should therefore be aiming not to masturbate any more. Like@Lukas ans @karsten

Nate

Max9

Okay, I understand it's probably too subjective.

Shrop

Well, to be honest, although my parents told me that's too much several times, I wasn't really doing anything with it. That's why they decided to put me in the cage. When I started masturbating, it was about once a week and they didn't object, so I think that's it.

I ended up staying almost half a year without any relief, and I was going absolutely crazy at that point, given it was my first time being locked. After that I never tried to pull off the cage again and my parents allowed me once a month during cleaning.

I don't know about Jake, but at least I haven't seen him masturbating too much. On the other hand, girls liked him quite a lot, and he enjoyed being with them. Nothing bad happened, but it would be late to lock him once it did. He moved to study because of the school specialization. I don't have any other siblings.

Our semesters are half a year (Sept. - end of Jan, and Feb - end of June). We're not trying to cut down orgasms beyond the once a month point, at least for now. But I think we could talk about it (without Robin, as it's his parent's decision). However, I can't even image that I wouldn't be able to masturbate at all; how can Lukas manage this 😯?

Joh

Shrop Young virgin teenager about once a week, otherwise only with your partner. mature teenage less than once a month idealy none No partner or an adult no orgasms.

I see it different. Once per day is ok and no problems to be addicted. And it is a good stress relief 😁

Nate

Vanessa

Yeah, I am very thankful I have at least some breaks! The first months when I wasn't allowed at all were tough. It was because I tried to pull off the cage, so my parents punished me and they also wanted to break my masturbation addiction. I pretty much understand them; although I agree it's normal to fight it, they needed to make sure I would remain locked.

The releases are now less frequent because my boyfriend showed me that I can "milk" myself anally using prostate and he lets me to do that quite a lot. By this, I can empty my balls (which is needed for health) without having an orgasm.

Robin's parents locked him for the first time when he was just 13 and he's still locked (we're both 19 now). His parents are very strict, compared to mine.

Vanessa

Nate It was because I tried to pull off the cage

It was logical to try it.

Nate although I agree it's normal to fight it

Totally.

Nate they needed to make sure I would remain locked.

I think it is secure enough,even if you fight it.

Nate The releases are now less frequent because my boyfriend showed me that I can "milk" myself anally using prostate and he lets me to do that quite a lot. By this, I can empty my balls (which is needed for health) without having an orgasm.

Why does he want to prevent you to have an orgasm?

Nate His parents are very strict, compared to mine.

I think your parents are already pretty severe.

Angelina

Not likely,in this case.

Angelina

Joh Once per day is ok

But only as long as it does not have a bad influence on other areas. 😉

Nate

Joh

Yeah, if it was quickly once a day, I wouldn't personally see it as a problem. However, in my case, it was more than that and actually, it wasn't quick either.

It's true it can be a good stress relief, but workout can be too ... and since I'm locked, I have now some free time I can use 😉.

Max9

Angelina How may it do that?

Joh

Angelina sure and everyone has to decide it is a problem or not.

Joh

Max9
Sorry, I don't understand your question.

Angelina

Max9 How may it do that?

If you masturbate so often that you can no longer do other important things or you can no longer concentrate on other important things because you are only thinking about the next time.

Joh sure and everyone has to decide it is a problem or not.

That's right, I just want to say it.

Joh

Nate it wasn't quick

Because it was too often

Nate

Vanessa

Yeah, I was just a matter of time until I eventually tried it. Well, I lasted exactly 5 days from when I was locked until I tried to pull it off for the first time. I was so stupid to try it maybe two or three more times with always the same result: the cage stayed on and I got spanked.

My boyfriend says that I'm a lot nicer and more motivated when I stay without orgasm longer. Since he showed me how to milk the prostate, there's no need to give me full orgasms every time.

I don't think they are, in my case - they had a reason for it, didn't force me in the cage, allowed to relieve myself every month and even gave the key to my boyfriend. Jake's case might too harsh, as they locked him just because he was popular with the girls and was moving out to study.

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