Nate We still didn't get to having sex together, so there's no point for him to release me more often. We'll see how this develops in the future.

My parents allowed me to relieve myself once a month during cleaning, and my bf continued with that at first. There are no breaks, I always went straight back to the cage after that. By less frequent releases, I mean this is now happening only once per two months.

thanks for the clarification, due to the splitting of the posts i did not understand the connection at first, but now i understand it 🙂

    Nate

    Had you been trying to reduce your frequency of masturbation before you were locked? I assume that you had been told that your rate was excessive. What rate did your parent think was normal, Once a week, once a month, Once a year ? How long did you go before you were not addicted anymore?

    How often did Jake masturbate?, How did he manage not to be accused of excessive masturbation? Why did he want to study elsewhere (near you)? What was he doing with girls that made your parents want him locked? Do you have any more younger male relatives?

    How long are your semesters? I think you ought talk to Robin, Jake and your bf about you all cutting yourself induced orgasms down more. ideally to none and see if you wet dream. As you see I do have a different opinion. Young virgin teenager about once a week, otherwise only with your partner. mature teenage less than once a month idealy none No partner or an adult no orgasms.

    I assume that your bf is a gay virgin man, and should therefore be aiming not to masturbate any more. Like@Lukas ans @karsten

        Max9

        Okay, I understand it's probably too subjective.

        Shrop

        Well, to be honest, although my parents told me that's too much several times, I wasn't really doing anything with it. That's why they decided to put me in the cage. When I started masturbating, it was about once a week and they didn't object, so I think that's it.

        I ended up staying almost half a year without any relief, and I was going absolutely crazy at that point, given it was my first time being locked. After that I never tried to pull off the cage again and my parents allowed me once a month during cleaning.

        I don't know about Jake, but at least I haven't seen him masturbating too much. On the other hand, girls liked him quite a lot, and he enjoyed being with them. Nothing bad happened, but it would be late to lock him once it did. He moved to study because of the school specialization. I don't have any other siblings.

        Our semesters are half a year (Sept. - end of Jan, and Feb - end of June). We're not trying to cut down orgasms beyond the once a month point, at least for now. But I think we could talk about it (without Robin, as it's his parent's decision). However, I can't even image that I wouldn't be able to masturbate at all; how can Lukas manage this 😯?

            Nate He allows me to orgasm once a month or two, but not more.

            Good you have some breaks!

            Nate The first few months they didn't allow me to relief at all

            Why?

            Nate He was locked for the same reason

            Is he still locked?

            Nate the releases are now less frequent

            Sorry for you;any reason for it?

            Nate My parents always found this and punished me

            Unfair,it is normal to fight it.

            Nate Don't you (all) think it's still too early to have sex together?

            I think it's far from too early!😉

            Nate we're fine with how it is.

            That's the most important.

            Nate at the end of each semester

            Very rare.

            Nate The problem is when the masturbation starts to interfere with your normal activities

            Yes,but the belt/cage is a help,not a solution.

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                                Vanessa

                                Yeah, I am very thankful I have at least some breaks! The first months when I wasn't allowed at all were tough. It was because I tried to pull off the cage, so my parents punished me and they also wanted to break my masturbation addiction. I pretty much understand them; although I agree it's normal to fight it, they needed to make sure I would remain locked.

                                The releases are now less frequent because my boyfriend showed me that I can "milk" myself anally using prostate and he lets me to do that quite a lot. By this, I can empty my balls (which is needed for health) without having an orgasm.

                                Robin's parents locked him for the first time when he was just 13 and he's still locked (we're both 19 now). His parents are very strict, compared to mine.

                                    Shrop Young virgin teenager about once a week, otherwise only with your partner. mature teenage less than once a month idealy none No partner or an adult no orgasms.

                                    I see it different. Once per day is ok and no problems to be addicted. And it is a good stress relief 😁

                                        Joh Once per day is ok

                                        But only as long as it does not have a bad influence on other areas. 😉

                                            Joh

                                            Yeah, if it was quickly once a day, I wouldn't personally see it as a problem. However, in my case, it was more than that and actually, it wasn't quick either.

                                            It's true it can be a good stress relief, but workout can be too ... and since I'm locked, I have now some free time I can use 😉.

                                            • Joh replied to this.

                                                Max9
                                                Sorry, I don't understand your question.

                                                  Nate it wasn't quick

                                                  Because it was too often

                                                    Max9 How may it do that?

                                                    If you masturbate so often that you can no longer do other important things or you can no longer concentrate on other important things because you are only thinking about the next time.

                                                    Joh sure and everyone has to decide it is a problem or not.

                                                    That's right, I just want to say it.

                                                        Nate It was because I tried to pull off the cage

                                                        It was logical to try it.

                                                        Nate although I agree it's normal to fight it

                                                        Totally.

                                                        Nate they needed to make sure I would remain locked.

                                                        I think it is secure enough,even if you fight it.

                                                        Nate The releases are now less frequent because my boyfriend showed me that I can "milk" myself anally using prostate and he lets me to do that quite a lot. By this, I can empty my balls (which is needed for health) without having an orgasm.

                                                        Why does he want to prevent you to have an orgasm?

                                                        Nate His parents are very strict, compared to mine.

                                                        I think your parents are already pretty severe.

                                                        Angelina

                                                        Not likely,in this case.

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                                                                      Vanessa

                                                                      Yeah, I was just a matter of time until I eventually tried it. Well, I lasted exactly 5 days from when I was locked until I tried to pull it off for the first time. I was so stupid to try it maybe two or three more times with always the same result: the cage stayed on and I got spanked.

                                                                      My boyfriend says that I'm a lot nicer and more motivated when I stay without orgasm longer. Since he showed me how to milk the prostate, there's no need to give me full orgasms every time.

                                                                      I don't think they are, in my case - they had a reason for it, didn't force me in the cage, allowed to relieve myself every month and even gave the key to my boyfriend. Jake's case might too harsh, as they locked him just because he was popular with the girls and was moving out to study.

                                                                          Nate Yeah, I was just a matter of time until I eventually tried it. Well, I lasted exactly 5 days from when I was locked until I tried to pull it off for the first time. I was so stupid to try it maybe two or three more times with always the same result: the cage stayed on and I got spanked.

                                                                          We all try,even willingly wearer.Not fair you got spanked for it...

                                                                          Nate My boyfriend says that I'm a lot nicer and more motivated when I stay without orgasm longer. Since he showed me how to milk the prostate, there's no need to give me full orgasms every time.

                                                                          Sorry for you...

                                                                          Nate didn't force me in the cage, allowed to relieve myself every month and even gave the key to my boyfriend

                                                                          These parts are good,yes.

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                                                                                2 months later

                                                                                @Nate May I ask you some further questions?

                                                                                1. How did your parents persuade you into wearing a chastity cage?
                                                                                2. What was the most embarrassing moment connected to your chastity device?
                                                                                3. How often do you release your brother?
                                                                                4. Which device does he wear?

                                                                                Thank you a lot in advance