Your Mom's Thigh Bands

Angelina

that's right, the way it is formulated is crucial 😂

Joh

Angelina it is usually due to the fact that we did not communicate well enough with each other.

I agree too often the communication is not sufficient. But with some problems you can't solve it with communication. You can come the a conclusion which leads to a separation because it is the best.

Angelina whether the ideas of life fit together,

Sadly you can't predict everything in the beginning. You can not foresee in which direction each of you will develop but your approach will reduce the risk to fail.

Vanessa working in other countries,

Work in other countries are usual in Germany. I met many young people in other countries. They did it before they started studying.

Sin I think international travel will take a long time to recover. :-(

I see it too ☹️

Sin Travelled to a developing country, significantly invested in the local economy, learnt some of the Bahasa-Indonesian language, undertook extensive Indo-Australian negotiations, taught self defence to an underprivileged community group, did a research project into the Indonesian incarceration system"

Great. :-))

Vanessa

Sara2001 Everything evolved slowly and will continue to evolve slowly.

But almost always by getting stricter.

Angelina i might do that too, i think my father would agree

Do you consider doing it,so?

Angelina travelling to discover foreign cultures is of course more meaningful than travelling to get drunk and party.

Of course.

Sin

🤣

Joh Work in other countries are usual in Germany. I met many young people in other countries. They did it before they started studying.

Not that common in France,especially before studying.

Angelina

Joh I agree too often the communication is not sufficient. But with some problems you can't solve it with communication. You can come the a conclusion which leads to a separation because it is the best.

of course, when nothing else helps, only separation helps, but mostly couples separate too quickly, that's the point

Joh but your approach will reduce the risk to fail.

and that is the goal 0 risk of course does not exist

Vanessa Do you consider doing it,so?

I don't know yet, there is still sooo much time until then. 😉

Joh

Vanessa But almost always by getting stricter.

She want it.

Sara2001

Vanessa But almost always by getting stricter.

Isn't that logical when you are working on the rules for a man led relationship? Because we talk a lot and make small changes on a regular basis and because we use the experiences of our families, we have a very good chance, that we only try things that work for us. But of course there are things that we don't continue that give me more freedom. Not everything is practically.

Joh

Sara2001 Do you can sh

Sara2001 Not everything is practically.

Can you share an example?

Vanessa

Sara2001 Isn't that logical when you are working on the rules for a man led relationship?

Not especially.The changes could be done to make less strict rules,even in this sort of relationship.

Sara2001

Vanessa Not especially.The changes could be done to make less strict rules,even in this sort of relationship.

They become less strinct if they make me unhappy. But so far, this is almost never the case, because we talk prior to a rule becoming a rule and he knows what I like, what I can accept and what makes me unhappy.

For example my communication rules became less strict after we tried some stricter rules. They where just not practically.

Joh

Sara2001
👍️

Vanessa

Sara2001

Ok,if it happens it can be less strict if necessary,it's very good!🙂

Mr-TM

Sin Incidentally, the only people who seem to travel as much as Aussies are Germans! No matter how far off the beaten track I go there's always Germans! I bump into them in the weirdest places.

We are also travel world champions

Mr-TM

Joh If you look how many first relationship working over long time you will see most of the time they fail.

Yes, I can confirm that. That's exactly what happened to me. However, I did not end this relationship/marriage lightly. After all, we were together for 10 years.
However, I have the feeling (correct me if I'm wrong) that it runs a little differently with cb wearers.
For one thing, until the wedding, it's mainly about the relationship and not about sex. And until a wedding, which is not concluded lightly and quickly, you can get to know your partner well enough.
On the other hand, it takes a lot of trust in the partner for the wearer to reveal the special underwear to him.

Know and trust the partner. For me, this is the basis for a good relationship.

Angelina

Mr-TM

you are right then, if the goal of the chastity belt is achieved, but it can also go quite differently. it can also happen that a girl marries hastily because she wants to get out of the belt as quickly as possible. i love my girlfriend, but i would not say that the belt did not play a role in the decision to marry so young (even if only a small one)

Joh and the usual views and beliefs of society.

i would disagree, at least i would not let a legal method of education be forbidden just because a majority thinks it is not right, it is none of other people's business how i educate my children as long as everything is legal.

curious

Foxies Lifestyle choices should be just that: choices freely made when a child reaches adulthood and has enough information to make their own choices.

That sounds nice in theory and from an adult's perspective. But in reality part of raising children is actually instilling values etc into the children. And of course these values typically reflect those of the parents.
Probably not the best example but I believe a valid one nevertheless:
If a father settles disputes with physical violence, gets into fist fights, etc, children who see this learn from his role model and might replicate that behaviour.
So not influencing children with your own lifestyle choices is rather difficult, because you would have to completely isolate the children from certain aspects of your life. And even if you do that, you create a unnatural vacuum of role modelling in that area and the child will probably naturally fill that vacuum by looking for other examples (peers, grandparents, etc). For these reasons I think it is not realistic to wait for children until they are adults and make up their own minds.

Joh

curious And of course these values typically reflect those of the parents.

That's right, and you as a parent need to think about what that should be. The framework within which you can operate is set by the law and the usual views and beliefs of society.
When it comes to sexuality, I think the options are further limited as to what parents are allowed to do. Sexuality develops as part of everyone and is as important as speaking, walking, reading, eating, etc. One's views and values should be conveyed to them, but the direction in which it develops is entirely up to the child.

Mr-TM

Angelina girl marries hastily because she wants to get out of the belt

From what I have read here, I got the impression that none of you would marry in a hurry. All of those I know have a relationship of several years before it comes to marriage. Since this time was not about sexual things, but only about the relationship. I see such a partnership as stable.
Furthermore, the parents probably still have a lot to say as keyholders. I think @Vanessa mentioned that she would have to end a relationship that her parents don't think is good.

Christine

What are you talking about?

Angelina

Christine

what do you not understand?

« Previous Page Next Page »