Sara2001 I imagine it would be no different to when you play sport. Does your father follow you into the change room?

      Sin I imagine it would be no different to when you play sport. Does your father follow you into the change room?

      No, I am not allowed to do sports without my equipment.

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          Sara2001 No, I am not allowed to do sports without my equipment.

          This makes me very sad :-(

            Sara2001 Does he has in mind to drive you their unlock you and waiting in his car?
            Are you able to take off the belt in the car that nobody would see it? 🤔

                Joh Are you able to take off the belt in the car that nobody would see it? 🤔

                This is how we normally do it, but he doesn't feel comfortable with letting me being alone in the Praxis where I could theoretically go to the toilet and do things I am strictly forbidden to do.

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                    Sara2001
                    Sorry, he has a problem he should solve.

                    You committed to the same kind of relationship and he still not trust you.
                    What else do you have to do until he will trust your word?

                        Sara2001 Now it's forbidden to bring a second person to the doctor

                        Interesting I was at a two doctors and they didn't care if you bring a second person. But I think that is the choice of the doctor, if you could bring a second person or not.

                        And even if you couldn't bring a second person it should also be easy possible to surveillance you, so you don't do something "wrong". I already have two solutions, but don't want to share them. It is like Joh said: "He has a problem he should solve.".

                              Joh Sorry, he has a problem he should solve.

                              You committed to the same kind of relationship and he still not trust you.

                              I talk about my father, not Daniel.

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                                  Kurt Interesting I was at a two doctors and they didn't care if you bring a second person. But I think that is the choice of the doctor, if you could bring a second person or not.

                                  Maybe it's a German thing.

                                    Sara2001

                                    so i have been to the doctor 3 times since the beginning of the corona situation (twice for check-ups and once for vaccinations), my doctor has a very small practice and for me it was usual that we were only allowed in alone for a short time to register and then had to wait outside in front of the practice until we were called and allowed in to see the doctor. my father waited outside with me and as soon as i was allowed in i went straight to the doctor.

                                    what is the spatial situation like at your doctor's ?

                                        Angelina I normally have to wait there,. sometimes only a few minutes, sometimes more then an hour. You never know it before.

                                            Sara2001 I normally have to wait there,. sometimes only a few minutes, sometimes more then an hour. You never know it before.

                                            I meant whether you have to wait in the practice, or because of corona in front of the practice? then your father could probably wait with you

                                                Angelina I meant whether you have to wait in the practice, or because of corona in front of the practice? then your father could probably wait with you

                                                They have a big waiting area inside.

                                                    Sara2001 They have a big waiting area inside.

                                                    This sounds like a hospital. All doctors I have been had a waiting area for some people. Maybe including the hallway for 20 but not more.

                                                        Joh This sounds like a hospital. All doctors I have been had a waiting area for some people. Maybe including the hallway for 20 but not more.

                                                        It's even less then 20. It's 6 or 7, but it took a few minutes per person. I have never stopped the time, but I would say 5-10 minutes. So it's round about 45 unsupervised minutes and my father can't proof if I still wait or if I visit the toilet to play with myself.

                                                        Has no one here experiences? My appointment is tomorrow.

                                                            In this situation dad would have no other option but to trust me. He would not unlock me until as late as possible and relock me as soon as possible.
                                                            Is it possible I will masturbate there, sure and if i was caught somehow i would be punished severely but dad would unlock me t see a doctor

                                                              Sara2001
                                                              Does your father wear overalls with suspenders and a belt just to make sure his pants don't slip down?

                                                              Sorry. He is ridicules.

                                                                Sara2001 They have a big waiting area inside.

                                                                hmm... ok that's different from me, maybe you could turn on your smartphone while you're waiting and talk to your dad per video call, then he can watch you

                                                                Sara2001 Has no one here experiences? My appointment is tomorrow.

                                                                i wrote an idea in the first part of the post, but i'll be honest now. your father is the one who wants to monitor you, so he has to find a solution for this, not you.