A Fundamental question

Laura

Vanessa It is very easy to be free of the belt,the consequences are harder to manage

But no reason

Vanessa

Laura

To be more free.

Even if you have some more possibilities than many of us,it seems!😉

gwen

Renita Marriage, of course.

And at that point, do you think you will prefer to be free, or become a belted wife?

Renita

Saintprudence for the reason of “I no longer feel like wearing it?”

But I don't have such a reason yet.

Vanessa So,if you truly want to quit it,you can.

I think as anybody else.

gwen And at that point, do you think you will prefer to be free, or become a belted wife?

A belted wife.

Vanessa

Renita I think as anybody else.

Several of us would have bad consequences to manage if we stop.

Renita A belted wife.

So,you would be ready to wear it all your life?

Angelina it depends, the main reason for the belt is to concentrate on the more important things in life, maybe my father would set a maximum age someday

If it is(as often)to prevent masturbation,and sex before marriage,I doubt it.

HHelen

Ah,I don't remember that.

Renita sometimes I snapped the lock later.

Some cheating on it.

Renita Before I tried to quit.

I've to say I've troubles to understand your situation what you did and when about quitting or not,wanting to quit or not...

gwen

Renita A belted wife.

I'm not surprised to hear this 😛

Angelina

Renita But she didn't do it before, so it's new for me.

interesting, i thought it was a general standard 😉

Vanessa But,if you haven't met your girlfriend,it could have happened to you,too!😉

probably yes 🙁

Vanessa Or would you have decided to stop wearing it at some point,even knowing the consequences?

it depends, the main reason for the belt is to concentrate on the more important things in life, maybe my father would set a maximum age someday

Renita

Angelina interesting, i thought it was a general standard

I was trusted more before.

HHelen

Vanessa Why?

Because she wanted the belt off for a date.

Laura

Renita But she didn't do it before, so it's new for me.

Therefore you can't avoid the belt without letting your mom know

Renita I was trusted more before

Did you abuse your trust?

Angelina

Renita I was trusted more before.

before what? what happened that changed it, did you seriously try to cheat the belt?

Renita

Laura Did you abuse your trust?

I don't think I abused, sometimes I snapped the lock later.

Angelina before what?

Before I tried to quit.

Angelina

Renita Before I tried to quit.

but there have been no real consequences. you write yourself that nothing bad will happen if you try to quit., so .....what?

Vanessa If it is(as often)to prevent masturbation,and sex before marriage,I doubt it.

me too, but since i'm probably not unmarried at 30 anymore, hopefully i won't find out 😉

Vanessa I've to say I've troubles to understand your situation what you did and when about quitting or not,wanting to quit or not...

Yes, me too

HHelen

Vanessa Ah,I don't remember that.

That was my guess.

Renita sometimes I snapped the lock later

To have time to pleasure yourself?

Renita

Vanessa Several of us would have bad consequences to manage if we stop.

Not in my case.

Vanessa So,you would be ready to wear it all your life?

Yes, why not?

Vanessa I've to say I've troubles to understand your situation what you did and when about quitting or not,wanting to quit or not...

I can't believe you never talked to your parents such an emotional way.

gwen I'm not surprised to hear this

Especially since I wrote it already 😃

Angelina nothing bad will happen if you try to quit., so .....what?

I don't want to.

Vanessa

Angelina me too, but since i'm probably not unmarried at 30 anymore, hopefully i won't find out 😉

Let's hope,yes!🙂

Renita Not in my case.

You're lucky!

Renita Yes, why not?

It's not easy and frustrating.

Renita I can't believe you never talked to your parents such an emotional way.

Not at all related to what I wrote.

HHelen To have time to pleasure yourself?

I guess so.

gwen

Renita Especially since I wrote it already 😃

Oh sorry! I missed your previous mention.

Rina

Renita Yes, why not?

What if your partner don't want you to wear a belt after marriage? After getting married and in healthy relationship, mutual agreement does matter a lot...

Angelina

Renita I don't want to.

but you wanted to? that's why you found out you couldn't "quit".

Renita

gwen If you filter based on those who are open to keeping you belted

It's not a requirement.

Vanessa It's not easy and frustrating.

No, if you have a relief.

Vanessa Not at all related to what I wrote.

I meant about your belt, of course. Like "I will not wear this thing anymore".

HHelen To have time to pleasure yourself?

I didn't try to do it.

Renita

Rina What if your partner don't want you to wear a belt after marriage?

The question was about my preference only.

gwen

Renita The question was about my preference only.

And you do have the ability to filter for partners that (at least) tolerate your desire to wear a belt. 🙂

Renita

Angelina but you wanted to?

I have changed my mind.

gwen And you do have the ability to filter for partners that (at least) tolerate your desire to wear a belt

You mean he has no choice? 😃

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