A Fundamental question

Angelina

Renita But then she has found it useful.

of course, but i don't think any (good) keyholder cares if we want to stop wearing the belt. whether volunteers or involuntary, no one owns the key for fun.

Renita

Angelina no one owns the key for fun

Not for fun, but just being asked.

Ines I think that a keyholder must know that the wearing of the belt is in own best interest.

I also have heard it "in my best interest" 😃

Vanessa

Ines

You explain it well and I mainly agree with you!🙂

Jen 🙈 just wow like i keep finding bits about how belts are changing people long term hmm

Not sure it is very related to chastity belts.

Jen

Swallow...Pun intended?😉

Renita Yes, I don't want to be against her.

There would be an argument if you decide to stop?

Renita Unfortunately. And mom takes care about it.

Sorry for you...

Renita And you never said "I don't want to wear it NOW"?

Sometimes,but useless.

Angelina i certainly don't think about months or ca years, or? 😂

Sure,a few days(maximum)is way enough!😉

Angelina

I think you're right,yes.

Ines our virginity

What if not virgin when starting to wear it?

Ines

Angelina
I have to agree totally with you.
I do not believe in forced chastity, but it is obvious that our virginity has to be a first goal for our keyholder.
I think that a keyholder must know that the wearing of the belt is in own best interest.
So, even if we ask to be released, it is obvious that our keyholders should try to convince us.
I think I can not trust a keyholder that does not believe in the advantages of wear a chastity belt.

Angelina

Ines I think I can not trust a keyholder that does not believe in the advantages of wear a chastity belt.

right and it should be someone who is fully committed, i wouldn't give the key to someone who doesn't care if i wear a belt or not

Renita Not for fun, but just being asked.

see my answer above to @Ines

Vanessa What if not virgin when starting to wear it?

maybe the purity, we have already written about calling someone like you a second virgin if i remember correctly. 😉

a_father

Renita Who knows your best interrest better than you? If you want to quit you should quit. You are not a teenager.....

Renita

a_father If you want to quit you should quit.

And what's next?

Vanessa There would be an argument if you decide to stop?

A lot.

Vanessa Sometimes,but useless.

Then you understand why I did it.

Angelina i wouldn't give the key to someone who doesn't care if i wear a belt or not

What if you don't have anyone else?

Max9

a_father Who knows your best interrest better than you?

Well, when being horny you can demand a release that you actually don't want. But when the desire to stop chastity lasts longer as a horny phase, then you should be granted to quit

Jen

Vanessa Pun intended

You're terrible and no not even what that's about so no pun

Vanessa

Angelina we have already written about calling someone like you a second virgin if i remember correctly. 😉

Yes!🙂

And it could be used for this purpose,yes.

Renita Then you understand why I did it.

But you can quit it without much consequences,what is not my case.

Max9

We've discussed it,and many of us thought there should be some time between asking to be free,and taking off the belt,to let the(willingly)wearer be sure she doesn't change her mind.

Saintprudence

Renita In that event, it is unlikely she would be belted.

a_father

Renita And what's next?

Then you quit, nothing else. It is always your choice, not your mothers. That should you make clear to her.

Angelina

Renita What if you don't have anyone else?

still not, holding the keys is an extremely high responsibility, not everyone should do that

Max9 Well, when being horny you can demand a release that you actually don't want. But when the desire to stop chastity lasts longer as a horny phase, then you should be granted to quit

i think so too, even voluntary wearers should stop when the desire for redemption is present even in the "cool" times.

Renita

a_father Then you quit, nothing else

That's why I don't. No reason for it yet.

a_father

Renita If you had a reason and your mother wouldn't acccept?
In my opinion 'I don't want to wear it any longer' is reason enough.

Renita

a_father If you had a reason and your mother wouldn't acccept?

I will remain belted.

a_father In my opinion 'I don't want to wear it any longer' is reason enough.

No, it must be due to some reason or change in your life.

Vanessa But you can quit it without much consequences,what is not my case.

I don't think the consequences will be more in your case.

Angelina

Vanessa And it could be used for this purpose,yes.

😉 the question is whether we should perhaps set a time frame, like a statute of limitations for criminal offences. "you are now....years in the belt and are thus reclassified as a virgin".

Vanessa We've discussed it,and many of us thought there should be some time between asking to be free,and taking off the belt,to let the(willingly)wearer be sure she doesn't change her mind.

whereby I prefer a fixed decision day 😉

Renita I don't think the consequences will be more in your case.

where do you get this insight from? you don't seem to have any major consequences, so any harsh consequence would be more than in your situation.

Vanessa

Renita I don't think the consequences will be more in your case.

They are.Loss of financial support,and breaking the relationship with my parents.

I explained it several times...

Angelina 😉 the question is whether we should perhaps set a time frame, like a statute of limitations for criminal offences. "you are now....years in the belt and are thus reclassified as a virgin".

It could work!😉

With Emilie,we think about both wearing it permanently during a few days/weeks before getting married.

Angelina whereby I prefer a fixed decision day 😉

I doubt we could agree on it!😉

Angelina you don't seem to have any major consequences, so any harsh consequence would be more than in your situation.

Right.

Angelina

Would the duration depends on how we acted?

For example,someone like me who had several partners,including some one night stand and masturbated would have to stay longer in it before being considered virgin again than someone who only masturbated and had one partner?

Angelina why should male chastity not exist? there are belts for men and men can also have the need to restrain their sexual desires.

I agree.And chastity cages are far more widespread,I think.

youdontknowme

Angelina I would have imagined it more as a "sentence served" than a statute of limitations. But that suggests you would be free afterwards. Well, maybe you gain back a few privileges once your honor as a virgin is restored, but you still need to submit to measures against reoffending under a sort of parole system.

Renita

Angelina where do you get this insight from?

From her social profile.

Angelina you don't seem to have any major consequences

Neither she.

Angelina

youdontknowme

i am not completely serious but it would be an idea in this forum for all those who are no longer virgins but would like to be and wear the belt. 😉

Christopher17

My parents put me in a steel chastity cage when I was 13 because I was masturbating too much, they caught me a few times and after being told many times not to I was caught in the pool with my penis in the water jet, it felt so good and I was in serious trouble. I have only been out since to have supervised showers with my dad there or to have the cage adjusted as I grew.

The only times I get to cum are during wet dreams (3-4 times a week) or when I can sneak a shower alone and use a finger in my butt to make me cum, but it doesn't feel as good because I can't get hard or touch my penis and I seriously cry about this all the time, I so desperately want that feeling of tension release in my penis. They keep promising to let me out if my school results improve but I'm constantly at the top of my year and it's never good enough.

markules

Christopher17 Hey Christopher, may I ask you a few questions?

What does a wet dream feel like?
Do you know the model of the device you wear?
How do your parents call your device?
Who knows about it?
Do you find prostate massages relieving?
When did you start masturbating?
Thank you!

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