Angelina the topic of the forum is a rather discreet one, we don't write about the weather here and of course one can slip into difficult s'discussions. so what would you do differently?
I would only make the three points as I made before. 1) Don't collect detailed information about young women just to collect it. It doesn't feed good intentions. 2) Don't give out your email, it establishes a bad precedent. This is not a place to groom young women. If you want that go to reddit. 3) Don't respond positively to approaches like "so what are your fetishes?" Again, go to reddit.
As I said before in another discussion we had if you want the last word please take it. I am done with this. Further discussion is harmful to the group and, believe it or not, I'm trying to help the group.