Belt fitting

Angelina

Lana See for yourself, most women who wear for long term have waist style belt here in this forum.

Lana en don't be weak and compromise easily, if your parents wants you to wear 24/7, demand them to get you a comfortable, well measured belt. Do not compromise comfort. Serious damage can be done to your bones and your posture in the long run if you use a bad chastity belt. If they don't buy a new one, just don't agree to wear a chastity belt. Simple.

i can only agree with you 100%, no deal in the world is worth a girl wearing a belt that doesn't fit. for long term use a waiststyle belt is more comfortable, i have no experience with hipstyle but what i read from @Jen mirrors my fears about a hipstyle belt 1 to 1. and no matter what, comfort should not be a problem and certainly comfort should not be to blame for @Jen not sleeping

carg I think some people use a hair dryer to blow the area dry after cleaning

yes, when i shower with the belt i always use a hair dryer afterwards and yes it is important to make sure that everything is dry, i didn't pay attention to that at the beginning and got slight skin problems

Ines

@Megan said it some days ago, and probably she was totally right.

Angelina comfort should not be a problem and certainly comfort should not be to blame for @Jen not sleeping.

Any belt is more important than a good resting. In my case, the block piece, great idea but impractical.

Jen

Ines The fact of "peeing" (Sorry) is different too. You must control the flow, you can not just relax and "let it go".

Yes! I read that😁 it's a good tip, but I waited too long was chaos. Was better the next time

Joh

Jen
If I can't figure out the reason for a problem I start to check everything from beginning. At your case I would do the measurements. At the forum is the link to the video and you can find the instructions at the website of the manufacturer. I would ask your parents for the sent data and compare it. If your dimensions are different you could discuss it with your parents. It makes no sense to get use of the belt when it not fit.
An option is to ask the manufacturer if it possible to correct your belt. I suppose it could cost less than a new one

Angelina

Joh An option is to ask the manufacturer if it possible to correct your belt.

that's a good idea. but if that doesn't work: @Jen you can talk to your parents about it. tell them that the belt doesn't fit 100% and that it gets uncomfortable when worn for a longer time, then you can make a deal, they order a new belt and you give something back (not too much), or they don't order a new belt and you stop wearing it.

Jen

Joh yeah I could but I don't think it's the size anyway. It made more sense once I bent and bent and bent🤔 so it matches my hips - it's wedged against my hip bones and shield/cable but tight both so can't move up or down. I think this is it - I found other people have written the waist anchors there so not as tight on the bones. Wearing a long time at day is getting easier - doesn't really stop any of my moving. So I think it is wrong type not wrong size but thinking of waist is boring - have to stick to boring tops.

Ines do you sleep in your hip one?
Does any girls? I think Catherine did but sounds like hers was looser.

Vanessa I thought you wanted to wear it until married(or,at least,be in a serious relationship);have you changed your mind?

Yep it's annoying, well I didn't or haven't made up my mind really but with the belt like it is I'm like why? Like what's the point well the idea is there but with the belt being difficult you know it's a bit much

Vanessa

Lana I do sometimes

Logical!

Lana So I eventually stopped fighting.

Even if My-Steel are not too bad,I still fight it a lot!

Jen I got lots of time not wearing it for other things😂

🤣

Jen I can't do it school nights don't sleep enough.

Do you think you would never have to wear it every night?

Renita A sport, requiring the belt off? It would look suspicious.

Many sports would be hard with it on.

Angelina then it is a similar situation we are in

Yes,but it is not good.

Angelina then @Jen has to make a decision that i hope she doesn't have to make.

I hope too.

Jen So I can do all day tomorrow no breaks instead which yeah there's issues I haven't done. I've had it on lots in the day but taking it off when needed... I dunno been avoiding it

Not a bad option,even if not easy.

Jen I'd have to try and make it work then.

It should be comfortable,even if it means sending it back to adjust it.

Jen I might just dump it once I've got my license

Ah?

I thought you wanted to wear it until married(or,at least,be in a serious relationship);have you changed your mind?

Lana Do not compromise comfort.

I agree.

Jen so good to have it off now though it's so comfy to just lie down😄

😉

Ines

Good advices.

Angelina @Jen you can talk to your parents about it. tell them that the belt doesn't fit 100% and that it gets uncomfortable when worn for a longer time, then you can make a deal, they order a new belt and you give something back (not too much), or they don't order a new belt and you stop wearing it.

Could be a good idea,yes.

Angelina

Ines In my case, the block piece, great idea but impractical.

Yes, i remember your experience report 😂

Vanessa Yes,but it is not good.

Not good, of course, but unfortunately not completely unrealistic either.

Renita

Vanessa Many sports would be hard with it on.

Then we should do one that allows it on.

carg

Jen Wearing a long time at day is getting easier

That almost sounds like you have worn it again after Sunday? That would mean on a school day - are you following lessons from home, or do you go to school? That would be a big step!

You might have had your third driving lesson by now; do you already know the 'price' of the fourth? 2 nights or days again? Are you still prepared to do an occasional night, or will you stick to days until there is a solution for the discomfort?
I had been thinking about an idea to get more used to wearing it at night: you could first wear it without it being locked, so that you could take it off when it got too bad, or sleep wouldn't come anymore. That might not count as a full night then, but perhaps you could build it up until you did manage a full night without the current 'torture', like you trained for the days.
But if you write that the problems are not getting better, and the belt might be pressing against bone in a bad way, that would probably not work, and might even lead to bone damage, so forget that idea in that case.

Ines

Jen do you sleep in your hip one?
Does any girls? I think Catherine did but sounds like hers was looser.

Yes. Over my back. Sleep over a side is impossible.

gwen

Jen do you sleep in your hip one?
Does any girls? I think Catherine did but sounds like hers was looser.

I sleep in mine. To be honest, sleeping was never a challenge for me.

I can sleep both on my side and on my back. Given that others struggle with this, I suspect that I wear my belt more like a waist belt. My waist band rests 2 cm above my hip bone. This allows it to be tight enough that when I side-sleep on a firm mattress, there is little pressure on the side of my belt.

Joh

Jen So I think it is wrong type not wrong size but thinking of waist is boring - have to stick to boring tops.

It sounds like it is the wrong type of belt. You have to decide if you want to go this way which includes boring tops or if it not worse to do. If you want to continue you should talk with your parents for changing the belt or otherwise to end it for good.

Jen

carg That would mean on a school day

Not gonna happen na ah not wearing it to school no Sunday was the long day

carg you could first wear it without it being locked, so that you could take it off when it got too bad, or sleep wouldn't come anymore

I did that yes

Ines Yes. Over my back. Sleep over a side is impossible.

Oh yeah I remember you saying I thought you were talking about waist. Yeah side isn't getting better. I'll have to get them to help see why it presses my hips. Without the belt I prefer back maybe the shape is still wrong.

gwen

Renita Then we should do one that allows it on.

Swimming? 🤣

Vanessa

Jen Wearing a long time at day is getting easier - doesn't really stop any of my moving

Good it becomes easier.

Jen have to stick to boring tops.

Yes,not possible to wear top showing your belly or tights tops with these ones....

Jen Yep it's annoying, well I didn't or haven't made up my mind really but with the belt like it is I'm like why? Like what's the point well the idea is there but with the belt being difficult you know it's a bit much

Sure,it can be a nice idea,but harder to stick to it when the belt is on...

Renita Then we should do one that allows it on.

Or be trusted.

Angelina Not good, of course, but unfortunately not completely unrealistic either.

Right...

Jen Not gonna happen na ah not wearing it to school no Sunday was the long day

Even if,in the future,you decide to wear it "permanently"(like @Ines)?

Raziel

And maybe waist one for nights,and hips one for nice tops!😉

Joh

I agree.

Jen

gwen I suspect that I wear my belt more like a waist belt. My waist band rests 2 cm above my hip bone.

You must have a waist belt or was it modded or something?

Renita

gwen Swimming?

What's with it?

Raziel

Jen
Talk to your family about the belt sitting too high. Consider deciding if you want to change the rear cable when you order a second belt. You should try out a second belt, like Ines, so you could swap them to relieve pressure from being too high on your hips with the lower hip style belt. Start saving up for that 2nd belt! 😃

carg

Jen Not gonna happen na ah not wearing it to school

How do you think you can go to 24/7, if that is what you are still considering, if you won't go to school with it?
Edit 15 okt: In the end 24/7 is more than just not being able to masturbate. It also means keeping it hidden always, also at school, on the beach, swimming pool or sports, dealing with sweat and itching during heat waves, messiness during our period, challenges at airports, etc.

Jen I'll have to get them to help see why it presses my hips.

I really hope you can find a good solution that way, because of the cost and raised expectations associated with getting another belt, and because before it arrives you might have to take a break with driving lessons, but if you still want to continue if you can't get it right, I agree with the others here that getting another one is the least bad alternative.

Ines

Jen Yeah side isn't getting better. I'll have to get them to help see why it presses my hips

If I sleep over my side, my hip is a bit sore, and trying to avoid it I bend so much the arm under pillow trying to relief a bit the pressure over the hip having the head a bit higher.
So, finally, I get a sore hip and a numb arm and shoulder.

Jen Oh yeah I remember you saying I thought you were talking about waist.

Waist belt, is not ideal, but, it allows more chances for sleeping.

gwen

Jen You must have a waist belt or was it modded or something?

I ordered it as hip belt with a super ergonomic waist band. The waist band sits exactly where I measured from, which seems to be a bit higher than most people wear their hip belts.

Jen

carg In the end 24/7 is more than just not being able to masturbate. It also means keeping it hidden always, also at school, on the beach, swimming pool or sports...

Hi yeah no that's never what I wanted. If I say wear all the time or anything I mean to block all times I'm alone no pleasuring or sex. Not like actually all the time🤯

Megan ... someone did not plan or measure herself carefully.

Didn't plan at all 🤪 but yeah the measuring could be different but at the time - and i wasn't helping too - but at the time how do you know where it should sit?

I like how dashes make a line😆
Dad got me to put some thick cardboard under the band at my back so I'm lying on it for a while now and later we can see where it is squashed more 🥸 totally Dad idea. It's better already though I feel it pressing more where the cardboard is but less the back of my hips. I think i could get some foam for sleeping might be ok.

Angelina

Ines So, finally, I get a sore hip and a numb arm and shoulder.

that sounds... ouch 😂

sun

As a man,I can't think about something from a woman's point of view,and my wife hates to communicate with me about her feeling,so I still don't know some details of fitting.

Joh

sun As a man,I can't think about something from a woman's point of view,and my wife hates to communicate with me about her feeling,so I still don't know some details of fitting.

I recommend you continue to encourage your wife to talk openly with you about everything. I think that is very important in a relationship and helps it.

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