Belt fitting

Joh

carg But since even non-members can read all the posts here

In this thread yes. But if it has the member tag only members can read it.

Angelina but always be careful that you continue to set the conditions for further steps.

I agree. You should set it.

Vanessa

Megan There should be a $ back guarantee for poor fit or poor function @Jen @Foxies

Which could be hard to prove,however.

Jen Not like actually all the time🤯

So only have it on when alone?

What if alone outside?

And for events like parties?

Jen how do you know where it should sit?

They should have taken care to know more about it before ordering one for you.

Jen I like how dashes make a line😆

🤣

It works!😉

Jen Dad got me to put some thick cardboard under the band at my back so I'm lying on it for a while now and later we can see where it is squashed more

Good idea.

youdontknowme

I agree.

Jen They're more sane now at least.

Good.

Maybe because they're happy to notice you're wearing it willingly...

Jen Really committing to the belt is huge

Sure!

Jen But haven't earned the forth😐

Still related to when you wear your chastity belt?

Renita

Right...🙁

Jen I'm wearing it tonight again but it's ok on my back now🤗.

Good and congratulations!🙂

Jen He confirmed it's COMFORT ACTIV (cable back)

This one: https://www.my-steel.de/comfort-chastity-belt-system-in-activ-style-for-women ?

carg a schedule of a lesson per week.

It would be good,yes.

Angelina i think it's not a bad idea

I agree.

Jen Last night was better - slept at least - I want to get it off and see how my skin looks, mostly feels ok.

Good,so!🙂

Jen I'm horny like haven't really had this much with the belt.

Logical!

Jen

You worn it night and day in a row?

Jen Oh sorry I deleted most of it

Too bad,it would be interesting...

Christine Most likely, she would leave me in the waist belt instead.

Not very good nor fair...

Christine Most of the time.

Allowed sometimes?

Surprising she let you free during nights,even if rarely.

Christine

Angelina maybe, but you can ask her if she would agree

I don't want to risk.

Vanessa Surprising she let you free during nights,even if rarely.

I meant the hips belt most of the time.

Jen

LazyGoat BTW, accoding to My-Steel, the "correct" spot where the hip band should sit, is over the upper arch of the hip bone. Whether that is the place where it should sit for you, is another question.

Yeah so it is the "correct" spot. I've got curvy hips though - no hip dip 😁- so it would be secure lower and more padding there. Meh lots of things could be different - I'm not sure about the convex shield either.

Joh

Jen I'm not sure about the convex shield either.

Why not?

Jen

carg hi not never but maybe not for a while, the butt cable got really annoying by afternoon. And I worried about going out locked, I was trapped in the house - well felt that way - might not have gone out anyway.

Joh just what megan said - thinking if flat is better for going to the loo she seems to really not have any problems i mean I'm ok but need a little water rinse

carg

Jen
So, what are your conclusions with the 24-hour stretch? During the day you mentioned no problems with the belt, but high frustration levels. Did the physical discomfort stay away the whole time, or did you have some sore spots after all when it was finally taken off again? And is this something you would consider again - getting it all over at once instead of a separate day and night, or do you now feel like 'never again'? (Of course the 'never again' is not an option if you continue on your current path, but it might still feel that way at the moment.)

LazyGoat

Jen flat is better for going to the loo

I would thinks it's just the opposite, convex shield cups you enabling the best possible fit.
But I have to admit, I'm not an expert on how a female belt fits "down there". (Is there a pun... 😅)

Jonas

Jen the butt cable got really annoying by afternoon

I found exactly this with my belt, and thought I'd never get used to it, but a week in and it was a total non-issue. I am not sure how the body actually adapts and changes to a chastity belt, but it really does. The only way to keep this advantage however is to wear pretty much continuously.

Joh

Jen just what megan said - thinking if flat is better for going to the loo she seems to really not have any problems i mean I'm ok but need a little water rinse

It looks like it is difficult to find out.
It seems that for some something is a problem where others have none. Whether flat would be better in your case, you can only find out if you had it. It would also be good to try it out for a while to get used to it before making a judgement.

Vanessa

Jen hi not never but maybe not for a while

As always,you should go at your own pace,and don't try wearing it a whole day and night again before you feel ready for another try.

Have you tried wearing it outside a bit more often?

Christine I meant the hips belt most of the time.

Oh,ok.

Angelina

Christine I don't want to risk.

you can try it, the risk is not that high. you don't cheat on the belt, you just change it regularly.

Christine meant the hips belt most of the time.

so no free nights? so still 24/7?

Christine

Angelina you just change it regularly

She might refuse to change.

Angelina so no free nights?

No.

Angelina

Christine She might refuse to change.

Maybe you can make her a counteroffer, something like a deal.

Christine No.

🙁

Vanessa

Angelina Maybe you can make her a counteroffer, something like a deal.

It could work,yes.

Jen

Good news for driving,but harder part with the belt.

However,if you still plan to wear it "semi-permanently" after a while,I think too it would be easier if you consider it more normal.

Jen Yes..I guess.

Good,so!🙂

Jen rewards to encourage

Not exactly the case,as,if you don't wear it,you don't have driving lessons...

Jen

I need to be wearing my belt more - like every afternoon - well I can take a break but then no driving for 4 days. So yeah Susan said I can practice with mum n dad. And we talked about my chastity and yeah I've been a bit all over the place with it and we've agreed to make it more normal - like not an event. Mum said I've got to start thinking having it locked is normal - like yikes that's a struggle to think about. We've agreed I'm only allowed to drive if I've worn it locked the last 4 afternoons - so from straight after school till bedtime - and from 4 on weekends. So yeah the idea is every day - can't get more normal than that - and if I skip a day no driving chances for 4 days.

Joh

Jen
Are you ok with the changing conditions for the same benefit?

carg

Jen

OK, let me see if I can understand what you are saying. You should realize that the rules for driving lessons vary per country, like in the Netherlands you can only practice with an instructor, and not with any other adult until you passed your theory and practice test. There is no limit on how many hours you need to have practiced; if you decide to go up for the practice test with only 1 hour of lesson, and pass (VERY unlikely), that would still be allowed.
Based on your messages, I am assuming the following - please correct me if I'm wrong:

Susan is your driving instructor
now you have her permission, you are also allowed to practice driving in your parent's car while they teach you
actual driving lessons with Susan count 3 times as much as lessons from your parents
you currently have driving lessons with Susan twice a week
you record all lessons in a logbook, and need to complete a certain number of hours before you can take the test
you are not getting driving lessons with Susan unless you have worn your belt for 4 half-days in a row
you don't currently wear the belt at nights at all
wearing the belt every afternoon now feels to you like it is possible, and perhaps easier to get used to than occasionally.
you have freely agreed to this new set of agreements, but are still unsure where it will lead to.
I can find no information on how often your parents agree to practice with you, and if that is included in the 4 half-days continuous.

Angelina

Jen

somehow i am worried. i find it a bit scary that your mother is already talking about it being normal for you and that the rules have become stricter again. please make sure that you keep control.

carg So the price of the lessons hasn't gone up; there were just added extra rewards you can earn.

it seems so, i'm really not sure if i understood everything, but the autralian driving school system alone is very complicated in my opinion. with me it was like with you in the netherlands, i could only drive with a driving instructor and i could take the test when my driving instructor said yes.

Jen

Joh Are you ok with the changing conditions for the same benefit?

Yes..I guess. It's a bit different - it's for practice with Mum or Dad. Lessons are still 2 nights they're good though they count for 3x hours on the logbook😃
I'm thinking more like I can do this like it's feeling better but I've had too long a break.

youdontknowme it should not just be expected of you without further compensation.

Not even no its not payment no they get what I said - rewards to encourage are ok. Yeah I'm doing this well yeah for now at least.

youdontknowme

Agreed, you need to have a discussion about where this is supposed to be headed. Rewards getting less per time spemt belted as you gain more experience is one thing, but by the time you have your license you should still be getting some form of continuous reward from deciding to stay in, it should not just be expected of you without further compensation.

youdontknowme

Jen lots of yesses and nos that make it hard to understand the message. But be careful that they do not use the promise of a reward as leverage to get you to agree to more than what would be fair.

Sin

Jen Not even no its not payment no they get what I said - rewards to encourage are ok. Yeah I'm doing this well yeah for now at least.

Yeah nah oi stop speakin strayan on an innanational forum ya bogan, no one can unnastanya cept me ay. 😋

Jen

carg sorry guess I shouldn't post if not being clear.

Yes Susan is my instructor, I've had 4 lessons, one a week
need 100 hours (there's a logbook app)
need 2 nights to get a lesson
the 4 half days is to practise with parents, like drive to school and stuff. But it's supposed to be worn every afternoon so then driving practise whenever I can. If I skip a day then no driving for 4 days.
I'm happy with it now but well yeah for now is all I can say.

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