Sexual identity

pestulens

youdontknowme If this keeps up, we might need to do an entire breakout thread on the topic

Angelina

luckily i don't judge anyone because of his/her sexuality, because if that were the case i would have to explain why and for that the whole thing is too complex for me. 😂

MissBlossom

youdontknowme And who is to say that there is not the opposite as well, and there are people who are aromantic allosexuals, who are more attracted to making love than to feeling it.

I think you just described every man who hasn't seen his woman for more than a week! lol

Sasha

pestulens Asexual may not accurately describe me, but being as fluid as these spectrums are I’m not sure.
Before my chastity I had what I’d self assess as a very strong drive, I just wanted sex and orgasms. So physical or romantic attraction wasn’t even a factor in it, just the satisfaction of the desire.
Once I realized how self destructive this behavior was, and agreed to the chastity belt I’ve developed much more interest in romantic and personal relationships, I want to know people now and find myself much more into that aspect.
I value friendships, and personal connections over sexual pleasure now and I’m beyond excited with this change.

Angelina

Sasha

maybe it's a bit tricky with the definitions, but no matter what it is with you right now, it sounds like you've made a good turn 🙂

pestulens

Sasha Thanks, that makes a lot of sense.

I sometimes get lost in the technical language, but it should always take a back seat to what actually makes you happy. It sounds like you found that regardless of what it is called.

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