Thighbands

Ines

Vanessa 3 cm seem very short!

It is the price of to have a "lighter" belt 😅. It is wearable, but yes, it is a bit strict. However, they make the belt secure enough when I should wear them.

Vanessa

Angelina I have a much better relationship with my father again. 🙂

Good;due to the fact you manage the chastity belt better?

Ines

So,3 cm between the thigh bands is only used with the Fancysteel belt?

Foxies

I measured my chain - it is 6cm which effectively gives me 8 cm thigh band to thigh band. The padlock at night gives me 3 cm , thigh band to thigh band. The latter is very restrictive but I am managing to sleep with it so don't mind too much. It is nice though in the morning when she removes the padlock and I go back to just the chain.

I suppose it is like banging your head against a wall ... it's lovely when you stop! 🤣

Ines

Vanessa So,3 cm between the thigh bands is only used with the Fancysteel belt?

Yes, 3cm and the rings. For the other belt, I use my usual 6 cm connection.

Angelina

Vanessa Good;due to the fact you manage the chastity belt better?

a little bit, but i think it's more because on the one hand i understand his reasons better than in the beginning and on the other hand i'm in a relationship now and i know at least approximately when i will be free again. 🙂

Vanessa can make walking a bit harder than usual.

according to mathematical principle, exactly twice as hard 😉

Vanessa

Ines

Better,so,even if 3 cm chain for thigh bands when going out with this belt and the thigh bands can make walking a bit harder than usual.

Ines

Vanessa
Well I thought the same, but, truly, 3 cm are enough for most of situations. However, I usually do not use thigh bands when I go out.
Use it for going to have a coffee, is easy, 3 cm allows walk as any other girl, but I use it outdoor very rarely.
Thigh bands are not intended for it.

Vanessa

Angelina a little bit, but i think it's more because on the one hand i understand his reasons better than in the beginning and on the other hand i'm in a relationship now and i know at least approximately when i will be free again. 🙂

Even if you disagree with him,knowing his reasons help you to not be too angry?

And,the longer time while frustrated doesn't make you more angry?

I think it is easier to manage it,when in a relationship,and know you've good chances to be free in some years...When single,it is harder,not knowing when we would be able to date someone who accept our situation...

Angelina according to mathematical principle, exactly twice as hard 😉

😉

Angelina

Vanessa Even if you disagree with him,knowing his reasons help you to not be too angry?

exactly, i don't share his opinion, but i can better accept his opinion if he justifies it. 🙂

Vanessa And,the longer time while frustrated doesn't make you more angry?

frankly, it's getting better with time. in the beginning i was more frustrated than now. the feeling doesn't go away, but it's getting less

Vanessa I think it is easier to manage it,when in a relationship,and know you've good chances to be free in some years.

this will probably also be an important factor why it is better now 😉

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, i don't share his opinion, but i can better accept his opinion if he justifies it. 🙂

Understandable.It seems more unfair if we don't know the reasons(even if we disagree with these).

Angelina frankly, it's getting better with time. in the beginning i was more frustrated than now. the feeling doesn't go away, but it's getting less

In my case,I'm still extremely frustrated due to my chastity belt.But maybe because I was more sexually active,and more longer,before I had to wear it permanently.

Angelina this will probably also be an important factor why it is better now 😉

I think so,too.

Angelina

Vanessa It seems more unfair if we don't know the reasons(even if we disagree with these).

of course it is a serious invasion of my privacy and i think i can expect a good justification

Vanessa .But maybe because I was more sexually active,and more longer,before I had to wear it permanently.

probably, i think it's like smoking. quitting after 20 cigarettes a day is harder than quitting after 5 cigarettes a day.

Vanessa

Angelina of course it is a serious invasion of my privacy and i think i can expect a good justification

But it seems you need some time to accept his justification,right?

Angelina probably, i think it's like smoking. quitting after 20 cigarettes a day is harder than quitting after 5 cigarettes a day.

Good comparison,I think it is similar,yes.

Angelina

Vanessa But it seems you need some time to accept his justification,right?

of course, as i said, it is a huge invasion of my privacy, it took me a long time to at least understand his reasons.

Vanessa

Angelina

Personally,I needed time too to understand my parent's decision,but I still totally disagree with them!

Do you think some of his reasons were right?

Angelina

Vanessa but I still totally disagree with them!

me too, I understand him but I don't agree with him

Vanessa Do you think some of his reasons were right?

yes, but i think there are easier methods for it than a chastity belt 😉

Ines

Angelina yes, but i think there are easier methods for it than a chastity belt

Only a chastity belt makes the job of a chastity belt. 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina yes, but i think there are easier methods for it than a chastity belt 😉

Similar for me.

Ines

But we can use chastity without having a belt forcing us to act this way.

Even,if my case,I wouldn't use chastity willingly,if free!😉

Angelina i think there are more pleasant ways to achieve it. 🙂

Sure!

Angelina

Ines

that's true, but i'll give you an example. my father claims that girls who wear a belt behave more politely, i agree that it's a good and important goal, but i think there are more pleasant ways to achieve it. 🙂

Ines

Vanessa But we can use chastity without having a belt forcing us to act this way.

Even,if my case,I wouldn't use chastity willingly,if free!😉

A chastity belt, rightly used, this is not forcing anyone, not only is a blocking piece, but also it is a reminder about how we should behave.

Angelina

Ines but also it is a reminder about how we should behave.

don't you think there are simpler methods? like a piece of paper with all the rules that we stick on our door?

Vanessa

Ines

If willingly,and to protect our virginity,I think we can feel it this way too,yes.

Angelina

I think it more a question of feelings than only knowing how to act.

Ines However, I usually do not use thigh bands when I go out.

Even with the more classical belt(with 6 cm chain,so)?

Ines 3 cm allows walk as any other girl

I doubt it is possible to walk like any other women if my thighs are retrained...

Ines I think that 24/7 usage is not the intended purpose.

It seems it is often used this way,for many of us here...

Angelina

The fact it is willingly probably help a lot.

Ines

Angelina
🤣

No, I think this is special. A piece of paper will not arise any feeling.
A belt is much more powerful. However, I talk always from my point of view

Angelina

Ines A piece of paper will not arise any feeling.

interesting, i didn't really mean anything as a joke, but it makes me happy to make you laugh 😂

well, of course a note doesn't arise feelings, but it can remind us of the values we want to represent. 🙂

Ines but, truly, 3 cm are enough for most of situations.

At most for sleeping 😂

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