Thighbands

Angelina

Vanessa I agree,but for them,having both is even better.

I understand, but what is the point of clothing if there is nothing underneath that allows sexual touching? 😂

Vanessa Not easy to think about it,I know it too...

right, although as far as the topic is concerned, 2020 was easier than 2019. 😉

Tobbe

well, I have 6 cm and anything below that is already very extreme

Ines

Angelina well, I have 6 cm and anything below that is already very extreme

5-10 cm (depending on highness of the band I think is the optimal length).
But shorter chain I do not call it extreme, since with a chain of 3 cm I can manage perfectly the things that I have to do when I have to wear bands.
Extreme is a padlock, not only for short but for being not articulated, or my block piece.

Vanessa

Tobbe

It seems it is the most common lengths,yes.

Ines

3 cm seem very short!

Angelina I understand, but what is the point of clothing if there is nothing underneath that allows sexual touching? 😂

They still think it is indecent,even if I agree that it is not very logical(even if I don't wear the chastity bra at night,generally).

Angelina right, although as far as the topic is concerned, 2020 was easier than 2019. 😉

Why?

Angelina

Ines

well, i don't really know if it would make a difference to me whether i wear a 3 cm chain or a padlock, i would have to test that. i agree only a padlock is very restrictive

and yes i stick to the word extreme

Ines

Angelina
Yes, simply for the articulation of links. Better movement than a padlock.

Angelina

Ines . Better movement than a padlock.

i admit i can't judge the effect of a padlock compared to your block piece. 😂

Angelina

Vanessa ,even if I agree that it is not very logical(even if I don't wear the chastity bra at night,generally).

well, since you have already said that your parents do not change their mind even if you wear the bra at night, i can only say that it is completely illogical.

Vanessa Why?

I have a much better relationship with my father again. 🙂

Ines

Vanessa 3 cm seem very short!

It is the price of to have a "lighter" belt 😅. It is wearable, but yes, it is a bit strict. However, they make the belt secure enough when I should wear them.

Vanessa

Angelina I have a much better relationship with my father again. 🙂

Good;due to the fact you manage the chastity belt better?

Ines

So,3 cm between the thigh bands is only used with the Fancysteel belt?

Foxies

I measured my chain - it is 6cm which effectively gives me 8 cm thigh band to thigh band. The padlock at night gives me 3 cm , thigh band to thigh band. The latter is very restrictive but I am managing to sleep with it so don't mind too much. It is nice though in the morning when she removes the padlock and I go back to just the chain.

I suppose it is like banging your head against a wall ... it's lovely when you stop! 🤣

Ines

Vanessa So,3 cm between the thigh bands is only used with the Fancysteel belt?

Yes, 3cm and the rings. For the other belt, I use my usual 6 cm connection.

Angelina

Vanessa Good;due to the fact you manage the chastity belt better?

a little bit, but i think it's more because on the one hand i understand his reasons better than in the beginning and on the other hand i'm in a relationship now and i know at least approximately when i will be free again. 🙂

Vanessa can make walking a bit harder than usual.

according to mathematical principle, exactly twice as hard 😉

Vanessa

Ines

Better,so,even if 3 cm chain for thigh bands when going out with this belt and the thigh bands can make walking a bit harder than usual.

Ines

Vanessa
Well I thought the same, but, truly, 3 cm are enough for most of situations. However, I usually do not use thigh bands when I go out.
Use it for going to have a coffee, is easy, 3 cm allows walk as any other girl, but I use it outdoor very rarely.
Thigh bands are not intended for it.

Vanessa

Angelina a little bit, but i think it's more because on the one hand i understand his reasons better than in the beginning and on the other hand i'm in a relationship now and i know at least approximately when i will be free again. 🙂

Even if you disagree with him,knowing his reasons help you to not be too angry?

And,the longer time while frustrated doesn't make you more angry?

I think it is easier to manage it,when in a relationship,and know you've good chances to be free in some years...When single,it is harder,not knowing when we would be able to date someone who accept our situation...

Angelina according to mathematical principle, exactly twice as hard 😉

😉

Angelina

Vanessa Even if you disagree with him,knowing his reasons help you to not be too angry?

exactly, i don't share his opinion, but i can better accept his opinion if he justifies it. 🙂

Vanessa And,the longer time while frustrated doesn't make you more angry?

frankly, it's getting better with time. in the beginning i was more frustrated than now. the feeling doesn't go away, but it's getting less

Vanessa I think it is easier to manage it,when in a relationship,and know you've good chances to be free in some years.

this will probably also be an important factor why it is better now 😉

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, i don't share his opinion, but i can better accept his opinion if he justifies it. 🙂

Understandable.It seems more unfair if we don't know the reasons(even if we disagree with these).

Angelina frankly, it's getting better with time. in the beginning i was more frustrated than now. the feeling doesn't go away, but it's getting less

In my case,I'm still extremely frustrated due to my chastity belt.But maybe because I was more sexually active,and more longer,before I had to wear it permanently.

Angelina this will probably also be an important factor why it is better now 😉

I think so,too.

Angelina

Vanessa It seems more unfair if we don't know the reasons(even if we disagree with these).

of course it is a serious invasion of my privacy and i think i can expect a good justification

Vanessa .But maybe because I was more sexually active,and more longer,before I had to wear it permanently.

probably, i think it's like smoking. quitting after 20 cigarettes a day is harder than quitting after 5 cigarettes a day.

Vanessa

Angelina of course it is a serious invasion of my privacy and i think i can expect a good justification

But it seems you need some time to accept his justification,right?

Angelina probably, i think it's like smoking. quitting after 20 cigarettes a day is harder than quitting after 5 cigarettes a day.

Good comparison,I think it is similar,yes.

Angelina

Vanessa But it seems you need some time to accept his justification,right?

of course, as i said, it is a huge invasion of my privacy, it took me a long time to at least understand his reasons.

Vanessa

Angelina

Personally,I needed time too to understand my parent's decision,but I still totally disagree with them!

Do you think some of his reasons were right?

Angelina

Vanessa but I still totally disagree with them!

me too, I understand him but I don't agree with him

Vanessa Do you think some of his reasons were right?

yes, but i think there are easier methods for it than a chastity belt 😉

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