Thighbands

Laura

Alma05 She said she wants me to try them too, though I have the final say about them as well.

She should try on herself first

Alma05

Laura
Yea, I asked her why she's not wearing them. I kinda lost that battle when she replied like "I'm not the one who mast*rbate during class", and I started crying....

Foxies
I have mobility issues with my lower body, that's why I don't know how am I gonna feel with them on. Almost 100% of the time, while sitting or laying down I have my legs closed (not crossed). Maybe I won't feel the thighbands at all and maybe they will only serve their purpose to prevent me from spreading the legs and accessing the zone... I don't know. Anyways, even if they end up not being that bad, the way she told me about them at the last moment feels like a stab in the back.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I am not sure how deep his relationship is. I don't think they will marry.

In this case,it is understandable it is hidden.

Sara2001 Of course, but I am also happy for them,

Understandable.

Sara2001 We are allowed to spend our night together, too.

Which can be great too!🙂

Sara2001 I am happy for them and they are happy for me

So,good!🙂

Sara2001

Maybe they just want to have some fun,without deciding right now if they want it to be more serious or not.

Foxies would say never less than a couple of times a day.

Pretty often,so!😉

Foxies I will say that a part of me really enjoys it when she locks them back up.

😉

Foxies The sound of a clicking lock!

Very symbolic,yes.

Foxies For most of you locked against your wills, I imagine that most of what I said above makes no sense.

Not the same feelings,but it is still symbolic too,even if less nice than for you.

Angelina

You express well what I meant!😉

Alma05 I have the final say about them as well.

Good.

These are very restrictive.

Laura

Right!

Alma05 I started crying....

Understandable,she was not very nice...

Foxies

Alma05
I am so sorry to hear this.. Thigh bands are probably worse than a chastity belt for most wearers. Stretching your thighs apart is something you never think about until you can't. If you are even mildly reluctant, then I would consider it abuse.

Avery

Foxies Thigh bands are probably worse than a chastity belt for most wearers.

I'm glad you wrote that. I don't really mind the belt but the few times I tried the belts it was really uncomfortable. Not the feel of the belts on my legs but the restriction of movement, the sudden surprise when I needed/wanted to part my legs and couldn't, the anxious feeling that I was really a prisoner. Hated it.

Laura

Alma05 she replied like "I'm not the one who mast*rbate during class"

But she is. Everybody does it 😂

Angelina

Foxies whether it is you doing the clicking or your GF clicking it on you - smiles

I don't think that will happen, but as I said, I am happy for everyone for whom it is a nice noise. 🙂

Alma05

on the one hand I agree with @Laura, she should only suggest it if she also wears thighbands herself and on the other hand.... I don't want to be too indiscreet, but I don't see the benefit of thighbands because of your physical situation.

Alma05 Maybe I won't feel the thighbands at all and maybe they will only serve their purpose to prevent me from spreading the legs and accessing the zone... I don't know

that's the point, they may not be as restrictive for you as they are for others but they are much more useless than they are for others.

Joh

Alma05 I kinda lost that battle when she replied like "I'm not the one who mast*rbate during class", and I started crying....

That was a punch below the belt. A mother should not say that to her daughter, even if she disagree about when and where to satisfy yourself. She doesn't have to impose what she thinks is right on you.

Alma05

Angelina
Don't worry about indiscretion. I actually like to talk transparent about my condition (something that usually face to face makes people uncomfortable). From today's experience, I can say they prevented me from spreading the legs. If not, I think it would have been easier for me to access the crotch from the side and maybe try to insert something between me and the belt itself. Or try to stretch the outer skin from the sides to get some movement... I've thought a lot of plans to cheat haha, but didn't actually tried them seriously. Mainly because they were not working at all 🤣

Vanessa

Angelina I don't think that will happen

Not even trying it as a game?

Alma05

Do you think your mother guessed it and wanted to use thigh bands to prevent it?

Angelina at least with the thighbands almost everything is made impossible.

And not much more without.

Joh Look picking is a skill you need to get use to it. Like other skill as cooking. It is not complicated but needs practise.

It seems harder,and more unusual,than cooking,however!😉

Avery

So,not wearing it anymore,

Was it your choice to try these?

Avery Of course I tried the thighbands and bra just because I had them and couldn't resist trying them out.

Do you still wear the chastity bra?

Angelina

Alma05 Mainly because they were not working at all 🤣

unfortunately that's true, i haven't found a way either, at least with the thighbands almost everything is made impossible. i asked this because i would like to know how mobile you are despite your restriction, because if you are too immobile the belt would effectively suffice.

Joh That was a punch below the belt

I disagree, I agree with your general answer, but that was the only point where the mother is right.

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 If you buy a cheap padlock you can practice picking it with a screwdriver and a hairpin. I am just saying, that always works.

Alma05

Angelina i would like to know how mobile you are despite your restriction

I can't basically move my legs on their own. In order to spread them apart, I have to grab each one and move them with my hands. That's what the thighbands are not allowing me to do.

Joh

Angelina I disagree, I agree with your general answer, but that was the only point where the mother is right.

I think if she does it during lectures the lecture is boring and should be improved.
When you grow, you expand your experience and make mistakes. From the mistakes we learn to improve. If you block it, you are shut off from the change to grow on this subject.
Instead to slap it in her face she should talk about and find an agreement both are fine with it.

Angelina

Alma05 I can't basically move my legs on their own. In order to spread them apart, I have to grab each one and move them with my hands. That's what the thighbands are not allowing me to do.

ah ok, so you are generally able to spread your legs wide enough (even if not without the help of your arms), then of course it makes at least limited sense.

Joh When you grow, you expand your experience and make mistakes. From the mistakes we learn to improve. If you block it, you are shut off from the change to grow on this subject.
Instead to slap it in her face she should talk about and find an agreement both are fine with it.

there is nothing wrong with what you write, but frankly I don't see the problem, sorry but as a mother I would probably have said exactly the same thing and that has nothing to do with the subject of chastity belts, but with the fact that I expect a certain respect from my daughter towards others, masturbating during lessons is an absolute no-go whether with or without a belt and should be clearly addressed (just my opinion).

Avery but the few times I tried the belts it was really uncomfortable.

why did you buy thighbands? i don't really understand your reason

Alma05

BikelockFugitive
Even if I open it, wouldn't that damage it? It would be noticeable

Joh

Alma05 It is only for practice to get the feeling how you pick a lock. For picking you lock on your belt by a picking tool. If you not use brute force it is not visible.

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 Nope. These padlocks are really stable, not that easy to do damage to them. If you want to be extra save but an actual lock pick. Then you do not run the risk of it breaking off inside the lock.

Alma05

Joh
Sorry I meant that I could damage the real padlock trying to pick it even after practicing with another one. However, for now I'm not going that far, I'm actually trying to "embrace" the abstinence.

Joh

Alma05 Sorry I meant that I could damage the real padlock trying to pick it even after practicing with another one. However, for now I'm not going that far, I'm actually trying to "embrace" the abstinence.

No problem I understood you well and my answer was regarding your concern. Look picking is a skill you need to get use to it. Like other skill as cooking. It is not complicated but needs practise.

Alma05

BikelockFugitive
Looks like you know what you're talking about haha. I'll let you know if I finally surrender

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 Oh you are not surrendering, you are declaring war!
Nothing wrong with that!

Jen

Avery the anxious feeling that I was really a prisoner. Hated it.

I get that enough just from the belt but can sort of calm thinking yeah it's there but it's not a problem it's there and just sort of let it be. But bands yeah they sound like really a problem and if they keep reminding you yikes no not for me

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