Thighbands

Alma05

BikelockFugitive
Even if I open it, wouldn't that damage it? It would be noticeable

Joh

Alma05 It is only for practice to get the feeling how you pick a lock. For picking you lock on your belt by a picking tool. If you not use brute force it is not visible.

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 Nope. These padlocks are really stable, not that easy to do damage to them. If you want to be extra save but an actual lock pick. Then you do not run the risk of it breaking off inside the lock.

Joh

Angelina I disagree, I agree with your general answer, but that was the only point where the mother is right.

I think if she does it during lectures the lecture is boring and should be improved.
When you grow, you expand your experience and make mistakes. From the mistakes we learn to improve. If you block it, you are shut off from the change to grow on this subject.
Instead to slap it in her face she should talk about and find an agreement both are fine with it.

Angelina

Alma05 I can't basically move my legs on their own. In order to spread them apart, I have to grab each one and move them with my hands. That's what the thighbands are not allowing me to do.

ah ok, so you are generally able to spread your legs wide enough (even if not without the help of your arms), then of course it makes at least limited sense.

Joh When you grow, you expand your experience and make mistakes. From the mistakes we learn to improve. If you block it, you are shut off from the change to grow on this subject.
Instead to slap it in her face she should talk about and find an agreement both are fine with it.

there is nothing wrong with what you write, but frankly I don't see the problem, sorry but as a mother I would probably have said exactly the same thing and that has nothing to do with the subject of chastity belts, but with the fact that I expect a certain respect from my daughter towards others, masturbating during lessons is an absolute no-go whether with or without a belt and should be clearly addressed (just my opinion).

Avery but the few times I tried the belts it was really uncomfortable.

why did you buy thighbands? i don't really understand your reason

Alma05

Joh
Sorry I meant that I could damage the real padlock trying to pick it even after practicing with another one. However, for now I'm not going that far, I'm actually trying to "embrace" the abstinence.

Joh

Alma05 Sorry I meant that I could damage the real padlock trying to pick it even after practicing with another one. However, for now I'm not going that far, I'm actually trying to "embrace" the abstinence.

No problem I understood you well and my answer was regarding your concern. Look picking is a skill you need to get use to it. Like other skill as cooking. It is not complicated but needs practise.

Alma05

BikelockFugitive
Looks like you know what you're talking about haha. I'll let you know if I finally surrender

BikelockFugitive

Alma05 Oh you are not surrendering, you are declaring war!
Nothing wrong with that!

Vanessa

Angelina I don't think that will happen

Not even trying it as a game?

Alma05

Do you think your mother guessed it and wanted to use thigh bands to prevent it?

Angelina at least with the thighbands almost everything is made impossible.

And not much more without.

Joh Look picking is a skill you need to get use to it. Like other skill as cooking. It is not complicated but needs practise.

It seems harder,and more unusual,than cooking,however!😉

Avery

So,not wearing it anymore,

Was it your choice to try these?

Avery Of course I tried the thighbands and bra just because I had them and couldn't resist trying them out.

Do you still wear the chastity bra?

Avery

Foxies Thigh bands are probably worse than a chastity belt for most wearers.

I'm glad you wrote that. I don't really mind the belt but the few times I tried the belts it was really uncomfortable. Not the feel of the belts on my legs but the restriction of movement, the sudden surprise when I needed/wanted to part my legs and couldn't, the anxious feeling that I was really a prisoner. Hated it.

Jen

Avery the anxious feeling that I was really a prisoner. Hated it.

I get that enough just from the belt but can sort of calm thinking yeah it's there but it's not a problem it's there and just sort of let it be. But bands yeah they sound like really a problem and if they keep reminding you yikes no not for me

Avery

Angelina why did you buy thighbands? i don't really understand your reason

I started using a belt my mother had which for her was used for fetish play so she had the whole nine yards, belt, bands, bra. I only needed the belt for my purpose but when they (my parents) bought me my own equipment (for Christmas) they bought the whole set-up. I'm not sure why, perhaps they hoped I might eventually want a full set, perhaps they didn't want to cheap out. None of us really knew what we were doing, it's just they wanted me to have protection and her belt was handy from their own bedroom activities so I started wearing it out. Of course I tried the thighbands and bra just because I had them and couldn't resist trying them out. I admit we are amateurs here.

Joh

Angelina but with the fact that I expect a certain respect from my daughter towards others, masturbating during lessons is an absolute no-go whether with or without a belt and should be clearly addressed (just my opinion).

Nobody than only she self was involved because is was an online lessen without camera and sound. I agree with you that this is not the right time to do so but it is a difficult topic which should, from my opinion, be addressed careful.

carg

Avery I only needed the belt for my purpose but when they (my parents) bought me my own equipment (for Christmas) they bought the whole set-up.

Yes, that seems strange. As far as I understand from your introductions, you are fully in control of locking and unlocking the belt, so I assume there is no pressure from your parents to put the belt on more often, or use the thighbands and bra?
By the way, did you already know about your mother's set when you were looking for some protection, or was that a big surprise for you? Many people feel quite uncomfortable being confronted with their parent's bedroom adventures.

Angelina

Avery Of course I tried the thighbands and bra just because I had them and couldn't resist trying them out. I admit we are amateurs here.

ah ok now i understand it better. as long as it's just out of curiosity, it's no problem. but i think for your goal the belt would have been enough too, but the good thing is that you understand our experiences (with thighbands and bra) without having to use it seriously yourself. 🙂

Joh Nobody than only she self was involved because is was an online lessen without camera and sound. I agree with you that this is not the right time to do so but it is a difficult topic which should, from my opinion, be addressed careful.

i might have expressed myself more politely, but i have had online meetings during corona and even without a belt i would never come up with this idea (even if the camera was off)

Vanessa Not even trying it as a game?

no and I think I have already explained many times why 😉

Joh We could ask the organiser. But we would need many because the challenge is who open a particular lock in the shortest time.

good reason for a group meeting 😉

Avery That it's more like a punishment than protection.

definitely, i'm not minimising the idea of protection, but it always feels more like a punishment than a protection.

Joh

Vanessa It seems harder,and more unusual,than cooking,however!

It looks like many people do it if you consider how many videos you can find on youtube: i read in a magazine that here in Germany is a tournament for lock picking from time to time.

Alma05

Vanessa Do you think your mother guessed it and wanted to use thigh bands to prevent it?

She didn't have to guess. She's been watching me my whole life. She knows how I sit, how I lay in bed, and unfortunately, how I access my private parts. So I think for her it was an obvious choice.

Avery

Vanessa So,not wearing it anymore,

Was it your choice to try these?

Yes, they were there and I at least wanted to try them. Remember I had no idea at the time what they were like. I wore them out once with my boyfriend as a joke so he couldn't put his hand up my skirt. Now they are in the top of my closet.

Avery

Vanessa Do you still wear the chastity bra?

Nope. If someone wants to cop a feel on campus they can. Never wore it out of my bedroom.

Vanessa

Joh

I wonder if one of the contest would be to open a chastity belt put on a woman without scratching the lock!😉

Joh

Vanessa I wonder if one of the contest would be to open a chastity belt put on a woman without scratching the lock!

We could ask the organiser. But we would need many because the challenge is who open a particular lock in the shortest time.

carg

Joh LOL, any volunteers here who would like a number of candidates to try and pick their chastity belt lock as quickly as possible? 😮

Vanessa

Joh

It would make the chastity belt use more spread,at least!😉

carg

Most of us,I think!😉

Alma05

Logical she decided immediately to order it,so.

But I still think she should not make you wear these at the start too.

Avery

Good you can avoid it.

Not planning to use it as a game again?

Avery Never wore it out of my bedroom.

Why wearing it in your bedroom?

Avery There was some pressure to wear the belt out on my little job on the farm summers.

But you can still say "No."?

Jen t it's not a problem it's there and just sort of let it be.

You manage it very well!

Avery That it's more like a punishment than protection.

Exactly.

But in my case,it was used as a punishment,at first,so I may feel it differently.

Max9 Seems totally fine to me though 🤷‍♂️

It is different for willingly wearers.

Angelina my wardrobe (for university) looks similar to this 😉

if we wear chastity devices,we must adapt our clothes,sure.

Avery

carg Yes, that seems strange. As far as I understand from your introductions, you are fully in control of locking and unlocking the belt, so I assume there is no pressure from your parents to put the belt on more often, or use the thighbands and bra?
By the way, did you already know about your mother's set when you were looking for some protection, or was that a big surprise for you? Many people feel quite uncomfortable being confronted with their parent's bedroom adventures.

There was some pressure to wear the belt out on my little job on the farm summers. There are men about there, some are transients so who knows. Never a word about the bra and thigh bands. I knew my parents had toys like that and had seen the stuff but never actually seen my mother wearing it.

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