Thighbands

Maija

Angelina ask your father for a padlock for the thighbands and a connecting chain for the bra, this way we can be coordinated 😃

curious

Maija

Does that mean you are locked not only in a belt but you also wear a bra (connected with chains to the belt) and thighbands with only a padlock in between rather than a chain?
Do you wear all of that 24/7 or just temporarily (e. g. night time)?

Angelina

curious All a matter of getting used to things. We humans are amazing in the ways we can adopt to whatever is necessary - often far more than we think we can outselves.

that's true, but the habit is gone now, so it's very bad for me. well, i'll get it off on tuesday morning before i drive to university

Amira my thoughts are with you! hopefully you'll get out of them on Tuesday!

thank you, i don't need to hope for that, there are clear rules for that with us 🙂

Maija ask your father for a padlock for the thighbands and a connecting chain for the bra, this way we can be coordinated 😃

uh... no, forget it! 😂

Amira

Angelina thank you, i don't need to hope for that, there are clear rules for that with us

so you're out of them by now?

carg

Angelina I only see a problem when it comes to the hymen. you could wear the thighbands for 23 hours (theoretically) and yet in the one free hour your hymen could tear through a clumsy movement, i would just like to say that, good luck for the future

Exactly. I know @Amira made her decision now, but I can't say I understand it. From what I understand from other posters, almost the only times your hymen might get damaged while wearing the belt is when you do things like sports, where you can't wear thighbands, or even a belt, anyway. Assuming Amira is not doing the splits or other wild exercises at other times, I hardly see any added value of wearing these rather limiting devices at those times.

Angelina

carg

that's right, i see it the same way, maybe @Amira can explain it a bit more. i think that maybe there is a difference between the physical facts and the psychological feeling, i.e. that she feels more protected or something like that. but let her say that herself.

Amira

carg Assuming Amira is not doing the splits or other wild exercises at other times, I hardly see any added value of wearing these rather limiting devices at those times.

I have to agree with you that from the practical side there's not much of a benefit, but it feels right to me. And it helps that there's no need at all to think about moving something wrong or too hard because with the bands there's not any need to worry and... which helps as well is that I hear quite often that my Mom and Dad are proud of me.

Maija

Amira protecting a girl's hymen is very important, even when she isn't doing anything that would tear it. For this reason wearing thighbands is very important, even if we girls don't like them very much.

A thing popped into mind: have you @Amira considered wearing a chastity bra? It would help achieving overpowering denial

Angelina

Now you're teasing us 🤣

Angelina

Amira so you're out of them by now?

yes, i am. it feels so good to have free legs (and breasts) again. 😃

Angelina

Maija For this reason wearing thighbands is very important, even if we girls don't like them very much.

but only if the thighbands are worn 24/7, otherwise it doesn't help at all in this point and @Amira has ruled that out. i have said before that even if she wears the bands for 23 hours, the hymen can tear in the remaining hour.

Maija Now you're teasing us 🤣

was not my intention, but now that you say it 😂

Kaja

Maija Why is hymen important for you? Hymen doenst means virginity. You can loose it before sex or had it after sex.

I can accept that you want to be pure and virgin. But what the hell it has no connection to hymen brake during sport, gyno visit, tampon using, ..
Or you want to be virgin mother and born a new Jesus 😉?

Amira

Maija It would help achieving overpowering denial

I don't understand what that may mean. Could you please explain? I have never considered a bra so far.

Laura

Maija For this reason wearing thighbands is very important, even if we girls don't like them very much.

Luckily my parents don't think so 😂

Ines

Kaja Why is hymen important for you?

Because it is the symbol of our virginity.
Of course a girl without him can be a virgin, but an important element is lost.

Kaja Or you want to be virgin mother and born a new Jesus 😉

Kaja...

Kaja

Ines It is the same like saying that if you will broke your hand, you will be never pure again.

OMG...

curious

Amira I don't understand what that may mean. Could you please explain? I have never considered a bra so far.

I think what Maija wanted to say is, that when you feel like you are especially desperate from being denied any stimulation down there because of your belt, you might feel tempted to play with your breasts / nipples instead, so a chastity bra would actually help you to stay in complete chastity (if that is what you want).

Ines

Kaja It is the same like saying that if you will broke your hand, you will be never pure again.

OMG...

No, you did not understand me, I said it is a symbol, I did not say that a girl that break it accidentally is not a virgin, but for sure she prefers to have her hymen for her husband.

Amira

Ines but for sure she prefers to have her hymen for her husband.

I want to have it for myself for feeling whole (or is wholesome a better word maybe?)

Kaja She IS virgin

I agree about that point, but not about it being hazardous nonsense.

curious you might feel tempted to play with your breasts / nipples instead, so a chastity bra would actually help you to stay in complete chastity (if that is what you want).

ah, thank you for the explanation. No, I think I still need my regular breaks and time for myself. and I think the level of discomfort of a bra isn't worth it and due to the lack of size of my breasts a bra wouldn't be necessary at all.

Kaja

It is totally absurd for me. She IS virgin so why she torture herself with someting with no conection to purity?

Nonsence. Hazardous nonsence.

curious

Amira I think I still need my regular breaks and time for myself

Others have mentioned that before:
If you are not in belt and thighbands 24/7 without any breaks, there is no guarantee you will not accidentally damage your hymen when you are free.
In other words: It is not logical to go through the discomfort of wearing thighbands for most of the time when you still risk not to achieve your goal. If you really want to have your hymen 100% protected, then you should be in belt with thighbands locked 24/7 - no exceptions at all.
Or you can decide the hymen is not all that important and continue without thighbands and have your regular time off from belt.
Unfortunately a middle ground makes absolutely no sense from a logical point of view.

curious

Amira due to the lack of size of my breasts a bra wouldn't be necessary at all

Well, the chastity bra is less about supporting your breasts but to make sure you cannot reach your nipples and get any kind of stimulation there that you might find exciting / pleasurable. For that aspect, the size of your breasts is actually completely irrelevant.

Angelina

Amira ah, thank you for the explanation. No, I think I still need my regular breaks and time for myself. and I think the level of discomfort of a bra isn't worth it and due to the lack of size of my breasts a bra wouldn't be necessary at all.

i agree with the first part but not the second, it's not the size of the boobs that matters but what you do with them haha 😂

curious Unfortunately a middle ground makes absolutely no sense from a logical point of view.

You're right, but I wouldn't recommend 24/7 to anyone, not even voluntarily. I think @Amira will just have to live with the risk. (Like we all)

Foxies

a very valuable post, like many from you in the past. nice to read from you again. 🙂

curious Because as far as I am aware, there is no study about thigh and wearing and effects on health, neither to the positive nor to the negative.

well, i don't have to study medicine (and @Ines does) to think that it's not particularly healthy to have your thighs chained together all day.

curious And I am a fully trained and qualified physician, not just a student.

ok, then without wanting to interfere any further i will ask @Foxies what she thinks about it. if i remember correctly she was a professor in the medical field, so i think she is qualified enough for an opinion.

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