It’s quite some time since I posted here, mostly because my own interests in chastity devices and stem from different motivations than the majority view here. I realise that my opinions carry no more weight than any other writer on this board and that is good. And to put this post into perspective (for those who haven’t seen my past posts in the past), I am confined in a chastity belt and thigh bands almost 24/7 by my (female) partner with my full consent!
These devices do not make me feel pure or wholesome. I do not wear them to be a good partner. Having been with my partner over 35 years, I have no interest in cheating on her and if I really wanted out of this hardware, which is mildly uncomfortable and a nuiscance from a hygiene point of view, then all I would need to do is tell my partner that I want out, and she would unlock me. I also have sets of key in sealed envelopes that I can use in an emergency.
To be honest, I have long been surprised that there aren’t others on this forum who are interested in this subject for the same reasons as me. The simple fact is that having no access to myself arouses me, and thus feeds the desire for my partner all the more. In fact, the belt alone does this to such an extent that it is almost too powerful. Indeed, the reason I wear the thigh bands is to tone it down. They prevent any attempt for me to get any relief and so I don’t even bother, which is somehow easier for me to manage.
Not that my partner lets me suffer. In fact, the knowledge that I can’t do anything to relieve myself sort of plays on her mind. Perhaps its guilt smiles; but whatever the reason, it keeps her aroused and interested in me too so that in the end, we are far more interested in each other. These “toys” have quite literally improved our lives and happiness together. I am sure that those of you who are also locked by your spouses or partners have noticed this, whether it is consensual or not.
And while I don’t often disagree with Innes, I honestly don’t believe that thigh bands are particularly dangerous. Of course, the connecting chain is removed when we go hiking and involve ourselves in other strenuous activities that might risk me tripping or falling. I think I have been wearing them for about two years and they really haven’t caused me any problems. It is true that my partner removes the connecting chain two or three times each day to allow me stretching breaks – usually about ten minutes each, and of course the belt and thigh bands come off when we play and when we shower together each night. Otherwise, my belt and thigh bands are locked on the rest of the time. To be honest, I am so used to them I have come to feel a little funny when they are not there.
On balance I imagine they do provide protection against hymen rupture though in my humble opinion I think if forced to wear them for that reason I would be quite upset. Fortunately, my hymen went many, many years ago – smiles.
