Thighbands

Angelina

Sara2001

yes, I can only agree, getting on buses is sometimes very difficult.

i always try to say to myself that my legs are not tied, but that my genital area is protected from intruders, so i can deal with it easier. but as sara said, planning a lot of time is very important.

Ines

Angelina

Angelina i always try to say to myself that my legs are not tied, but that my genital area is protected from intruders, so i can deal with it easier

It is a very nice reflection. Inspirating one. And in wider aspect you can apply it to all our chastity in general. I like much my mother capability to say always a good sentence that always is helpful. You sentence is at same highness.

Vanessa

Laura Well, I'm going to try, at least to have own experience for this forum.
But I can't do it with my current belt, so I need a new belt first.

When do you plan to try it? No fear it can backfire on you,if your parents think you should wear it when you have the belt on?

Laura

It's a risk,yes!

Angelina i always try to say to myself that my legs are not tied, but that my genital area is protected from intruders, so i can deal with it easier.

Not easy to think this way,while you feel very restricted.At least,I would have troube to think about it like this.

Renita

Ines Huh? And what about me?

Renita

Sara2001 and for young people the bus drivers don't use the system to lower the bus because they think it's easy for us to enter the bus.

Then take the wand 🙂

Sara2001

Renita Then take the wand 🙂

What do you mean? I don't understand.

Renita

Sara2001 What do you mean? I don't understand.

A stick like a person who has difficulty walking.

Angelina

Vanessa

think optimistically and always see the positive 😉

Laura

Vanessa No fear it can backfire on you,if your parents think you should wear it when you have the belt on?

I hope I'm able to negotiate, because it's not a mandatory thing.

Vanessa

Angelina

Difficult in such case!But I'll give it a try.

Laura

I hope too,but you should try to be sure of it before.

Ines

Laura
Sweetheart,
Are you sure? Our belts itself is totally secure, but bands add us a such giant overprotection that our parents never refuse easily to it.
And I think it is the part of being a belted lady more annoying, it changes your way of walk, of sit, manage of your time, change all for the girl.
It is true that provide to the wearer of a strong feeiling of protection, but anyway for Me is the most difficult part of my life as chastity belt girl, and however I am not 24/7 and my parents make the process the more bearable possible.
When I have to wear belt, I can ask my parents for release bands, and mostly they will do, but I have to ask for it. For them, bands is a part of the belt, same way than secondary shield.
Pin padlocks is almost impossible, so please, think well your decission. Here we Are plenty of girls with differents approach to the belts, and I think that all of us think that the thighs bands suck the most of time.
I am nobody, but please, think well about this. 😐

Sara2001

The tightbands are nothing I can forget or ignore. They are very present and very restrictive. I would not try them if not forced. Once you wear them you will immediately hate these. If there is a risk you can't get rid of them, you should be extremely careful.

Angelina

Sara2001

of course I can't forget or ignore the tighbands either, with every careless movement I am reminded of it and I stumbled more than once.

but we have to come to terms with it, we also have no other choice. that's why i always try to talk positive about things. only when i fight against my chastity the painful side comes out again.

Laura

Ines Thank you for caring about me 🙂
The main reason I don't wear thighbands now is my belt. That's how it was ordered initially.
From another hand it every chastity girl wears them, including you, although your parents seem least restrictive.
So, if I get a new belt it will definitely be capable for tighbands and parents might want to take such opportunity. I suspect they have it mind already. Simply speaking I must be ready for it anyways.

Ines

Laura
As you Know I am mere rooky here and not ever I am not 24/7 wearer and my status is far much more flexible, or I have less strict parents, than most of you , but, please, If you finally have to wear them, talk with your parents in order to use a chain instead a padlock, and for wear them higher possible. There located you will be more, even, protected and less restricted, and anyway they will be restrictive enough. I can not complaining seeing the padlock union of some of our girls, but even my 6 cm chain is a bit small sometimes as go into bus or some step or even turn in the bed, if you can achieve 10 cm that would be great. Make bigger my chain is of the few thinks that my parents dont want even talk.
For sure, rest of the girls here will have better advices for you.

Renita

Laura Wait. You want to change the belt, but you are afraid that thighbands come in it's kit and you will be forced to wear them. And you are trying to convince yourself that this is your choice. Decide what you really want.

Bryan

Laura A few years ago you posted that you might be getting a new belt (perhaps letting you finally join the "thighband club" :-). Did anything ever come of this?

Laura

Ines If you finally have to wear them, talk with your parents in order to use a chain instead a padlock, and for wear them higher possible

No doubts in it. Thighbands are supposed to be with chain (actually double chain) only. Thank you for advice about 10 cm instead 6. Right now I have all input, but as @Vanessa said, they might decide to leave me wearing thighbands later on.

Vanessa

Laura Right now I have all input, but as @Vanessa said, they might decide to leave me wearing thighbands later on.

Maybe you should have a talk before and make them promsie,maybe even write somewhere,you'll never have to wear thighbands if not your choice,including by forcing you to accept it(threatening of bad consequences in your relationship,etc...)

Laura

Renita but you are afraid that thighbands come in it's kit

Belt can be ordered with or without thighbands, or they can be ordered later. Right now it's my extravagance only.

Vanessa Maybe you should have a talk before and make them promsie

They don't consider it seriously.

Ines

Vanessa

Vanessa, maybe "make them promises" could be a little hard. I agree 100% with you that a long conversation is preceptive here, but maybe to "make them see" what suposses for a girl wear bands, phisically and mentally could be better approach.
And then, when Laura explain them her point of wiew, and parents tell her what is their intention about the bands and why they have that thinking, between all take the best decission for our comrade of belting.
Probably if a girl can not "make them see" to her parents either could "make them promise" anything.
I like to be caressed, a lot, but we, the girls not only have right to be heared, but also to be taken in consideration. Our opinión can not be wasted authmatically once go out of our mouths. We are inteligent and very sensitive beings.

Vanessa

Ines

Pretty right,yes.It won't be easy to make them accept to promise such thing.But a talk is definitively needed before.

Laura They don't consider it seriously.

But you?Still wanting to test it?

« Previous Page Next Page »