Vanessa I don't know maybe Dilly just got an ergonomic waste that comes with it?
Did you speak with them very often in choosing the model? If you ordered online without speaking with them maybe there is just a language gap.
I do not think thigh bands are the best idea I my humble opinion. Maybe some people like them. I don't know

    Vanessa if it wasn't on it at first;and,anyway,they would probably already did it,if they wanted you to wear theses bands.

    I'm pretty sure they never wanted me to wear thighbands, at least they nevre raised this question. But who knows.

    Megan
    No, I wasn't asked for the model at all. I agree that the bands would be too hard!

    I have the super ergonomic waistband and I think I can get used to it completely some day.

      Megan

      No,I've never got an input about the model they choose.

      Dilly

      I agree,the thigh bands are very hard.

      I never was able to get totally used to wearing a chastity belt,even after two years of permanent wearing...But it seems some women can,so let's hope it'll be your case.

      a month later

      I just have learned that my father got an emergency call from work 15 Minutes ago to take the place of a college that got I'll. He will start in a few minutes.

      He will be out until Friday evening. For us this means 3 days with tight bands 24/7. My mother asked him if it would be possible to hand out the keys for the tight bands to my brother, but my father declined. The next days will be super hot and I have to cancel a planned meeting with friends for tomorrow. That's so unfair πŸ™

      After my mum's morning corner time is over we have to make a new plan for the week.

        Sara2001 For us this means 3 days with tight bands 24/7. My mother asked him if it would be possible to hand out the keys for the tight bands to my brother, but my father declined.

        Why hasn't he unlocked your tighbands before leaving? The rules have changed or what?

          Laura Why hasn't he unlocked your tighbands before leaving? The rules have changed or what?

          No, there is no rule changes. The rule says that we have to wear the tight bands when we are on our own in our rooms, especially after dinner.

          Because my father is the one with the keys in the family and he is not at home he decided that because of that we have to wear the bands 24/7.

          Oh, I forgot to write the it is out of town, sorry I was a bit emotional while writing.

            Sara2001 he decided that because of that we have to wear the bands 24/7.

            Including your mom? πŸ™‚

              Vanessa I’m very sorry for you;3 days with thigh bands on while unplanned and it in so hot heat,and having to cancel your meeting with friends was very bad news.I hope it doesn’t happen too often!

              Thanks you so much. Luckily this is a very rare event. Normally my father is at home every evening. It still su..s πŸ™ It's so hot today and we had to finish our leftovers. It feels like my head will explode soon.

              Sara2001 Didn't know it's applied to everybody. I thought she has your and your sister's keys.

                Laura Did know know it's applied to everybody. I thought she has your and your sister's keys.

                Sadly this is not the case. I hope my father will hand them out to my brother in situations like this soon, but I think this will not be in the very near future. My mother is not in charge in our family.

                  Sara2001

                  hi sara I am so sorry for you, I know how it is with the tapes πŸ™

                  but if you have plans with your friends you should implement them anyway, what have you planned ? some things are even possible with the tight bands.

                  I myself was also now already 3 times with the bands in public πŸ˜‰

                    Angelina hi sara I am so sorry for you, I know how it is with the tapes πŸ™

                    but if you have plans with your friends you should implement them anyway, what have you planned ? some things are even possible with the tight bands.

                    I myself was also now already 3 times with the bands in public πŸ˜‰

                    Hi Angelina, as I said there is no chain between my bands, just the locker. Even if my father would allow me to go out like this it would be impossible to hide.

                    The meeting itself was more or less the whole plan. I wanted to met 2 of my friends. Normally we go to a riverside area, with something to eat and to drink and talk about everything and the passing people.

                      Angelina I myself was also now already 3 times with the bands in public πŸ˜‰

                      What have you done? What "challenges" have you passed? I'm curious πŸ˜€

                      Sounds like you get more and more used to it.

                      Sara2001

                      hmm my necklace is only about 6cm long , i don't know how much less freedom of movement you have , but with me it's already very difficult

                      Why wouldn't your father allow you to go out like that? Is he afraid someone might see that?

                        Angelina Why wouldn't your father allow you to go out like that? Is he afraid someone might see that?

                        Yes, that's the main reason. It's a given fact that I never leave our property with the band's on. I didn't even though about asking.

                          Sara2001

                          my father looks at exactly what I'm wearing before I go out and whether everything is nicely covered.
                          if everything is ok he lets me then also out.

                          you should really try it, because your social life you should not have to give up through it.
                          what do you say to your friends ?

                          don't you think it's funny to write a german in english in an english forum too πŸ˜‚

                            Sara2001 How would your mom leave your property since she is locked in the tighbands?

                              Angelina you should really try it, because your social life you should not have to give up through it.
                              what do you say to your friends ?

                              Normally I don't have to go out with tight bands. It's not even used as a punishment. I'm not sure it's a good idea to ask him. Maybe he then come to the clue that I can easily wear them outside. So normally the band's don't interfere with my social life to much.

                              I think I will give them a call tomorrow that I don't feel good because of the heat (which is very close to the truth).