Sasha My chastity and rules I live under aren’t going to be part of that discussion. Both because I feel it’s inappropriate and not relevant to the discussion. And it absolutely would present the wrong message, agree entirely.
Good. I would not have expected you would do that anyway. Seems like a rather intimate thing to share with people unfamiliar with the concept, after all.
Sasha and would not have the link between the bands while interacting with groups on that subject. As mentioned would portray a weakness and a potential safety issue
Good. That is all I was concerned about, that the bands would be too restrictive to let you look like a happy and well-adjusted girl to such an audience. I did not think you would be wearing bands without chains, but I guess this is both a compromise that keeps the reminder in place while respecting the circumstances, and makes changing into and out of the restrictions easier.
Sasha I actually was able to get on a call with my therapist today and we discussed this for about a solid hour.
Great that you are in contact with mental health issues that give you an opportunity to discuss this openly.
Sasha I should mention she is rather knowledgeable about kink and such.
I feel like kink might not be really applicable to your situation, but aside from the gear you wear having uses in kink, I feel like some of the values that a good kink community emphasizes also fit your situation quite well. The importance of trust and emotional care among them.
Sasha That whatever rules/restrictions I have don’t interfere with daily life and growth
That the line of communication between mom and I remains open and bilateral as adults
That there is a plan to “age out” of these restrictions
And that it is and remains voluntary
All very good points. Please especially keep an eye on the aging out part, you need to keep that in mind when at the moment, you seem more interested in adding more restrictions.
