Thighbands

Sasha

Maija We are keeping the link as it is. Provides just enough restriction to effectively remind me that behavior is inappropriate and prevents it. But doesn’t cause me to much trouble in daily life

Angelina

Sasha I’ll gain that over things like the link chain and being able to have more me time.
I already have access to the bra and link keys if needed, which is a big step in itself.

the example is perhaps not really good because you have only recently added the bra and the bands as an additional measure

Spork

For those of you who have worn thigh bands, how much additional restriction are they if they aren't connected together with anything? Are the bands themselves cumbersome? Specifically, I'm wondering whether it would work to connect them together using a piece of string or something similar that could be cut intentionally but that wouldn't break accidentally.

Joh

Spork I'm wondering whether it would work to connect them together using a piece of string or something similar that could be cut intentionally but that wouldn't break accidentally.

Sure it is possible and already done. But it is depended on the wearer and which tool you have. It the wearer is caution it will not break a plastic security seal with unique number.. If you use a steel string a bolt cutters will open it.

Spork

Joh Sure it is possible and already done. But it is depended on the wearer and which tool you have. It the wearer is caution it will not break a plastic security seal with unique number.. If you use a steel string a bolt cutters will open it.

Right, so for us, we don't need inescapable, but we do need "easy to remove in an emergency", and "obvious if it's been tampered with". We're looking for devices that are secure enough to prevent secret cheating, or at least that make it risky enough that neither of us will try it for fear of the punishment if caught.

youdontknowme

How about a chain with a carabiner hook and a security seal that is slightly longer than the carabiner? The purpose of the hook being to avoid tension on the seal wire that prevents accidental ripping

Spork

youdontknowme How about a chain with a carabiner hook and a security seal that is slightly longer than the carabiner? The purpose of the hook being to avoid tension on the seal wire that prevents accidental ripping

I think my worry with that is how noisy it might be. Worth a try, though.

Joh

Spork I think my worry with that is how noisy it might be. Worth a try, though.

Use instead a stainless steel wire of 1.5mm diameter. It is strong enough not to break and makes no noise.

Ines

Spork

Hello.
It will depend if Chan can slide across the D rings. In mi case chain links are welded and do no slide, I mean, it is a line of chain and no an "O".
If you lock the " O" with a padlock, it will rumble even more due to the weight and you feel the padlock weight and finally your tendency is to close the legs when you walk because the padlock pulls of the chain.
Cable, at the end, it is the same, cable has a stiffness that forces your walking way.

I hope I could explain me rightly.

Angelina

Spork I think my worry with that is how noisy it might be.

my father wrapped the chain in rubber, so it was barely audible, if that's your concern

pestulens

Or take a carabiner, drill a hole through the tong and groves where the latch meets the frame, and then run a security seel through that.

WriterAlexis

Angelina

my father wrapped the chain in rubber

Was it silicone tubing, dip, spray, or something else?

Ines

However to wrap it, increases the rigidity of the chain. The best option is coated links chain. Less rattling, and it holds the comfortability of the chain.

Angelina

Ines However to wrap it, increases the rigidity of the chain. The best option is coated links chain. Less rattling, and it holds the comfortability of the chain.

it always depends on which material is used. in my case it was a very soft rubber which didn't really make the chain any stiffer than if i had worn it without rubber

Spork

Thanks, that's good to know. I guess we'll need to experiment to find out what the right level of restrictive and inconvenient is.

Angelina

WriterAlexis Was it silicone tubing, dip, spray, or something else?

frankly I don't know, I think something like PVC or something like that

Ines

The best chance is the coated links, rattling in close to 0 and it is less disturbing even if only are used in home.

Xander

Maija I'd love to talk about the subject in email if you'd like. My email is in my profile 😀

Spork

Well, I'm getting to try out thighbands for myself for the long weekend, because apparently it's only fair I know what they're like if I'm going to make my girlfriend wear them. Today has been... Hard work doing a lot of things. I'm not looking forward to sleeping in them either, since I like to sprawl to avoid overheating.

Angelina

Spork

quick question: I always thought you were a man? what use are thighbands supposed to have for a man?

Maija

Angelina I think he just means to know what they feel like, probably not many uses per se

Spork

Angelina Yes, Maija is right: it's just so I know what it's like for my girlfriend, not because it will prevent me from doing anything.

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