Thighbands

Max9

Angelina abstinence belt,

Where's actually the difference betwern an abstinence belt and a chastity belt?

Angelina

Max9 Where's actually the difference betwern an abstinence belt and a chastity belt?

with a abstinence belt only sex is prevented, but mastubation is allowed. a chastity belt prevents both

Max9 have many advantages for women and girls

apparently you read in a different forum than I did 😂

Max9 What I wonder is whether it is actually possible to put a finger under the belt when you spread the legs far enough. Is it?

short answer it is possible, but usually impossible with tighbands

Max9

HHelen From what I read the tightbands have many advantages for women and girls. Having to wear skirts or dresses only andsafety for the hymen - the most important thing about it.

What I wonder is whether it is actually possible to put a finger under the belt when you spread the legs far enough. Is it?

Renita

Katie And mom removes them today.

She might change her mind due the new information 😃

HHelen I think my daughter will need it.

Go ahead and order and you will be the first 😃

Max9 whether it is actually possible to put a finger under the belt when you spread the legs far enough.

I can't.

HHelen

Angelina for an abstinence belt, you don't need tighbands

Why? I just want to make sure her hymen is intact.

Max9 andsafety for the hymen - the most important thing about it.

I didn't know about such important function before.

shinydiamond77

Max9 What I wonder is whether it is actually possible to put a finger under the belt when you spread the legs far enough. Is it?

It's impossible if the belt is adjusted properly - there are no gaps between the shield and body.

Katie

Angelina short answer it is possible, but usually impossible with tighbands

Can’t get a finger under in any position, but mine is tight. Believe me, I’ve done vertical splits, legs behind head, one up on down, no luck

Max9

Angelina with a abstinence belt only sex is prevented, but mastubation is allowed. a chastity belt prevents both

But is there a difference in the design?

Katie Can’t get a finger under in any position

Well, it's a good think you can't.

Vanessa

Katie

Even if we can't have much self control,we may do it less often.Even when free and single,I didn't do it so often.

Max9 they might be even mire in need of a chastity belt thab someone who isn't

Sure(but they should ask for it).

Max9 when you are not able to masturbate you will habe to get used to it.

Not exactly...

Angelina your statement is not 100% correct, there can be big problems. I once reported when camryn and I made a trip to a monument and I could not go up the steps

Right,but generally,it seems manageable.

Angelina

Yes,it is more used than I thought.

Katie The belt by itself prevents sex.

Right.

Katie mom removes them today.

Good;it was not too long!

Laura

If we consider too non-permanent wearers,no!😉

HHelen This itself is not bad.

You don't like women wearing pants?

HHelen I think my daughter will need it.

You plan to buy thigh bands for you daughter?For permanent wearing,or "only" during some circumstances?

Max9 From what I read the tightbands have many advantages for women and girls. Having to wear skirts or dresses only andsafety for the hymen - the most important thing about it.

I don't feel these as an advantage...

Max9 What I wonder is whether it is actually possible to put a finger under the belt when you spread the legs far enough. Is it?

No,especially if the belt fits well.Some thin objects(like a flat ruler)work a bit better,but not enough to reach orgasm.

Angelina apparently you read in a different forum than I did 😂

🤣

Angelina short answer it is possible, but usually impossible with tighbands

You could put a finger under it before you had the thigh bands on?

Katie

Sorry for you;I know it,I did,and still do,the same,trying many positions,but it doesn't help...

Max9 But is there a difference in the design?

No,generally it only means there is no secondary shield on it.

Max9 Well, it's a good think you can't.

I doubt she thinks like you about it!

HHelen Why? I just want to make sure her hymen is intact.

The abstinence belt should be enough.

Angelina i have never claimed that i can rub my vagina, only that i can "push" a finger under the belt

As,this way,yes,it is possible,but far from reaching the vagina.And so,not very useful.

Sara2001 Saturday we went to a swimming lake nearby and I had to wait at the border of the lake the whole time. It is so hot.

Very hard!🙁

Angelina

Katie

well i can get a finger under the shield (without tighbands) but it's not enough for an orgasm 🙁

Max9 But is there a difference in the design?

that's not necessary. if you wear a abstinence belt, you don't wear the belt permanently

HHelen Why? I just want to make sure her hymen is intact.

because tighbands are supposed to make masturbation attempts more difficult, which is allowed with the abstinence belt

Max9 Or doesn't that work because of the angle?

it doesn't work because of the angle and besides you can't get in deep enough

Max9

HHelen I mean if you are possible to stick a finger or pencil under the cahe you might be able to break the hymen I imagine. Or doesn't that work because of the angle?

Katie

shinydiamond77 It's impossible if the belt is adjusted properly - there are no gaps between the shield and body.

I’ve tried splits where legs were on chairs so my my waist was level with my feet. I still couldn’t get under. I’m guessing others belts arnt as tight

Angelina

shinydiamond77

if i press my skin down, it is possible. if the belt were any tighter, it could be a health hazard

Katie

maybe we also have different definitions of: getting a finger under the shield

i have never claimed that i can rub my vagina, only that i can "push" a finger under the belt (and only without tighbands)

Ines

Angelina if the belt were any tighter, it could be a health hazard

Obviously. You are right.
As a wearer knows, a very tight belt, for continuous usage will hurt in the waist or hips, further probable issues in a more private area.
And in a normal usage, you can slide a point of finger under belt, even if it ends a bit smacked!

shinydiamond77

Angelina if i press my skin down, it is possible. if the belt were any tighter, it could be a health hazard

For my daughter it is possible to press the skin down a little, but the created space isn't enough to fit a finger, maybe just a tip. Everything under the shield is impossible to reach.

Ines As a wearer knows, a very tight belt, for continuous usage will hurt in the waist or hips, further probable issues in a more private area.

It's important to me that the belt doesn't cause any harm to my daughter there, so I always watch out for rashes or irritations.
Keep in mind that unlike your belt's shield which goes all the way, hers is smaller and attached by cables, so the pressure is applied differently.

bismarck

Sara2001 Now the weather is very hot outside, have you made air holes to your metal bra?

Sara2001

bismarck Now the weather is very hot outside, have you made air holes to your metal bra?

Yes, my bf made air holes in my bra. I really hate the hot weather, especially when every man around you goes swimming or is only wearing shorts while I have to wear my full equipment and the clothes to hide it completely. Saturday we went to a swimming lake nearby and I had to wait at the border of the lake the whole time. It is so hot.

Angelina

Ines And in a normal usage, you can slide a point of finger under belt, even if it ends a bit smacked!

that's exactly what i mean, but some seem to wear the belt too tight (not good for the health)

Sara2001 It is so hot.

that's right, that's why i stay at home with my air conditioning most of the time, it's so damn hot and my psyche is extremely unstable at the moment

Ines

Vanessa The abstinence belt should be enough.

No, without secondary shield someone could use objects, and tear so delicate membrane.

Angelina

Vanessa ,but generally,it seems manageable.

yes, but it's still difficult

Vanessa You could put a finger under it

yes, but i still can't really reach my vagina because it gets too tight. but if i press my skin strongly, i can do it

Vanessa The abstinence belt should be enough.

and you don't need tighbands for an abstinence belt

Vanessa And so,not very useful.

that's what I mean, I didn't say anything of use to me except that it's possible

Ines

but then i would prefer the secondary shield over the tighbands 😉

HHelen

Vanessa You don't like women wearing pants?

Not women, but young girls.

Vanessa You plan to buy thigh bands for you daughter?

Yes, to avoid risk of breaking her hymen.

Vanessa For permanent wearing,or "only" during some circumstances?

I don't think it's possible to wear them permanently.

Ines No, without secondary shield someone could use objects, and tear so delicate membrane.

Is it really possible? This slit seems too narrow for it.

Ines it is sorpresive the change of abstinence to thigh bands

I'm not going to change, but add.

Vanessa

Ines

But not sure much would like to lose their virginity this way.

Angelina yes, but it's still difficult

I don't doubt it...

Angelina and you don't need tighbands for an abstinence belt

I agree.

Angelina that's what I mean, I didn't say anything of use to me except that it's possible

And frustrating.

Ines I can not understand the concept of abstinence belt if we can wear a chastity belt

Useful if the purpose is to prevent her to have sex or lose her virginity with her boyfriend,but doesn't want to prevent her to orgasm.And it would make it way easier for her to accept it,as she's not a a willingly wearer(and probably used to masturbate).

HHelen Yes, to avoid risk of breaking her hymen.

I'm not sure she would like to do it this way.

HHelen I don't think it's possible to wear them permanently.

So,a bit like it is for @Ines?

HHelen I'm not going to change, but add.

Have you told her?If yes,how did she react?

Ines

With an abstinence belt,she could probably stimulate herself without trying it.

Katie

Only when alone at home for a long time,without planning to go out,or if punished(day and night for a few days,in this case).

Ines

Angelina
Secondary shield protects your hymen, but not fully to you!
The best is avoid possibilities, as more secure, the better, in my opinion.

Renita

Ines Secondary shield protects your hymen, but not fully to you!

Is it another reason why @Tere wants you to wear thighbands?

Angelina

Ines

so would you recommend tighbands for the daughter of @HHelen ? don't you think it goes beyond the original purpose of the abstinence belt?

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