Vanessa As a wife,with her husband/wife having the keys,she accepts to not have any control on her private parts and her sexuality,but she has sex,orgasm,and so,even if she isn't able to choose when and how often.
If husband lets her. Or he can keep his wife in a belt and don't touch her for a long time, knowing there is nothing she can do.
Laura If husband lets her. Or he can keep his wife in a belt and don't touch her for a long time, knowing there is nothing she can do.
I think this is an hypothetical option. A man who tend to do this to me would never become my husband and if my husband would change his character and becoming such a man I would quit the relationship.
An interesting question is what to do after marriage. Would you ask a male member of your family to become your keyholder or would you stop wearing a belt?
Sara2001 I think this is an hypothetical option. A man who tend to do this to me would never become my husband and if my husband would change his character and becoming such a man I would quit the relationship.
What if it happens after few years of marriage?
Sara2001 An interesting question is what to do after marriage. Would you ask a male member of your family to become your keyholder or would you stop wearing a belt?
Obviously it's husband's decision to wear or not wear a belt.
"Obviously it's husband's decision to wear or not wear a belt."
no: better talk about it before wedding.
question: how can i insert "quotes" in my answers?
strictfather no: better talk about it before wedding.
And what would it change?
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Sara2001 Then he definitely doesn't love me anymore and I would most probably divorce because of that.
Same response. Even I think that Sara likes more strict or severe guidance than me, I think that both of us like to have a man that rules our feminity, and only then we could have a happy life.
If my man, even all the power about me that I am going to give him, neglect or decline to make me happy through his care and dominance, then he does not love me.
Laura If husband lets her. Or he can keep his wife in a belt and don't touch her for a long time, knowing there is nothing she can do.
I think like Sara too.
Sara2001 An interesting question is what to do after marriage. Would you ask a male member of your family to become your keyholder or would you stop wearing a belt?
After marriage,I would stop wearing the belt.But if not,I think it is the husband/wife who should have the keys.
Laura Obviously it's husband's decision to wear or not wear a belt.
Not totally wrong,but it should be consensual,not forced.
Renita Not love anymore is not a reason for divorce
Like Sara about this one too.If there is no love anymore,divorce seems a logical possibility.Even if I've a family and been married for a long time.However,in this case,in my parent's opinion,I should be locked again until I get married again.Is it the case for you too @Sara2001?Would you have to wear the chastity belt and thigh bands again if you divorced?
Vanessa Would you have to wear the chastity belt and thigh bands again if you divorced?
Not sure about the tightbands. But my father very strongly believes that no woman should have control over her sexual pleasure all the time for good. So I'm sure he would expect me to hand out the key to my chastity belt after divorce (and then he would change the locks). To keep the relationships between intact, I would probably do it. Not sure what I would do if I have daughters, this would be a really though question. I think I have to Daniel what he thinks how we would eventually raise kids. If the divorce would be after my father past away, I would not give the key to my brother but stay belted, at least without kids.
Vanessa Not totally wrong,but it should be consensual,not forced.
I don't think you can find a good excuse to decline it since you worn a belt already.
Vanessa However,in this case,in my parent's opinion,I should be locked again until I get married again
That makes sense if you go back to parents' home after possible divorce.
I was talking with my sister Sara, the younger one.
And we was argumenting and I was thinking. Sorry if I am a little vain, but that your man keep you belted and protected, well it has to make you feel very pretty and desirable girl.
Maybe is a little silly, but I had to smile when that thinking came to my brain
