Become a belted wife

Renita Not love anymore is not a reason for divorce

In my world it is. I will not live an unhappy life because of a religion or things like that.

Sara2001 Even after 20 years of marriage and several children?

Renita Even after 20 years of marriage and several children?

Yes, in Germany it's very likely that the mother gets the kids. The father has to pay and if he cannot pay the government pays for him and takes care to get the money back, so the mother has no financial problem.

Laura If husband lets her. Or he can keep his wife in a belt and don't touch her for a long time, knowing there is nothing she can do.

I think like Sara too.

Sara2001 An interesting question is what to do after marriage. Would you ask a male member of your family to become your keyholder or would you stop wearing a belt?

After marriage,I would stop wearing the belt.But if not,I think it is the husband/wife who should have the keys.

Laura Obviously it's husband's decision to wear or not wear a belt.

Not totally wrong,but it should be consensual,not forced.

Renita Not love anymore is not a reason for divorce

Like Sara about this one too.If there is no love anymore,divorce seems a logical possibility.Even if I've a family and been married for a long time.However,in this case,in my parent's opinion,I should be locked again until I get married again.Is it the case for you too @Sara2001?Would you have to wear the chastity belt and thigh bands again if you divorced?

Vanessa Would you have to wear the chastity belt and thigh bands again if you divorced?

Not sure about the tightbands. But my father very strongly believes that no woman should have control over her sexual pleasure all the time for good. So I'm sure he would expect me to hand out the key to my chastity belt after divorce (and then he would change the locks). To keep the relationships between intact, I would probably do it. Not sure what I would do if I have daughters, this would be a really though question. I think I have to Daniel what he thinks how we would eventually raise kids. If the divorce would be after my father past away, I would not give the key to my brother but stay belted, at least without kids.

Sara2001

like Vanessa and sara write here, my father would lock me after a divorce again, since I am then already grown up and probably financially independent, he can only with my agreement . but he also says that if I would be unmarried and unlocked, he would be very sad and angry

I was talking with my sister Sara, the younger one.
And we was argumenting and I was thinking. Sorry if I am a little vain, but that your man keep you belted and protected, well it has to make you feel very pretty and desirable girl.
Maybe is a little silly, but I had to smile when that thinking came to my brain

Laura I don't think you can find a good excuse to decline it since you worn a belt already.

Mainly because it is reluctantly,and not my decision.I think accepting it willingly is way better,especially in a marriage.

Laura That makes sense if you go back to parents' home after possible divorce.

As I should wear it until married,even if living on my own or with my girlfriend,I'm sure they would want me to wear it again even if I still would live on my own after divorce.

Ines that your man keep you belted and protected, well it has to make you feel very pretty and desirable girl.

Well,it is an understandable feeling.

Laura From misterpoll
@Sam5123 The two teachers that wear it do so for the same reason you girls do. One of them ended up with a daughter, and now lives at home again, and the other due to general parental concern about her own misbehavior (lying about her seeing boys). The girl who know has a little girl of her own usually wears the belt full time now. The rest wear it now and then.

Even if I'm not sure it is the best solution,I can understand why the one who had unprotected sex had to wear her chastity belt permanently...

Laura And to whom will I give the key? mother? She will say I'm crazy

Renita And to whom will I give the key? mother? She will say I'm crazy

If I remember correctly,you already did it,asking you mother to keep the keys;so why not doing it again?

Vanessa It was different. She found a belt on me and took the keys. But now I’m not 20 years old, although single.

Laura and she will agree

This is what I fear

Renita It was different. She found a belt on me and took the keys. But now I’m not 20 years old, although single.

Many people here think it is not a matter of age but of being single/in a relationship/engaged/married.

Renita This is what I fear

Do you think she'll be reluctant to give you back the keys,as long as you're single?

Do you think as a belted wife you should be allowed to have an orgasm whenever you are in a sexual activity with your husband or do you think your should need an additional "permission" to orgasm?

In my family my mother needs to ask permission. I know from Daniel that his sister has an even harder regime, she not always gets the permission and she only get it (or not) if she is ready to orgasm. I don't know how things are for her mother.

Daniel says his sister is very happy with her sex life and I know my mother is, too.

Daniel asked me about my opinion about this topic, that's why he explained about his sister. I think it is maybe more sexy for both of us if I have ask permission but I think it is also extremely difficult not to have an orgasm while you have sex with your husband and you are at "the point".

I searched the internet for more information and found a big amount of women who are into something called "tease and denial". It sounds sexy, but also extremely difficult and frustrating and to be honest I actually have more frustration then I can handle easily.

Maybe it adds some spice to it, but I don't want to end up having sex but still no orgasms or irregular orgasms.

Laura, what if to you will born a daughter and she will REFUSE the CB?