Renita You were not supposed to involve her parents into things that must be between your and her only.
It's a tough question, we talked about it 3 times, I think. He didn't have any authority, so the only other option would have been to talk and do nothing. I have been unfaithful, even though I knew I wasn't supposed to. Not often, but sometimes I just had a strong urge to feel something down there. So he is probably right, that there would be a time in the future, where I wouldn't be able to resist again. So the belt is his idea of insurance during those times.
