Megan This would not make me more feminine this would make me hate the vagina attached to me
I don't feel so.
Megan You think it sounds good now because unlike me you fight your belt and get tiny stimulations or at least you masturbate
I don't fight my belt normally and I am unable to masturbate for years now. I currently don't have any releases, but this will change after wedding.
Megan But one orgasm is not enough from the man you love...
One orgasm in what? But you are right, if I get permission to cum, I will always only be allowed to have one orgasm. He doesn't want me to get "enough" orgasms, but I should stay horny even after an orgasm. Therefore it's very likely, that I normally have to to "edgings" directly after my orgasm.
Megan If my husband were crazy cruel and gave me some sort of extreme ultimatum between only very few orgasms or staying locked forever then your Mom might be right it might be easier to stay locked forever.
My mom isn't in such a situation. She has regular orgasms and sex with him. The time and day it happens is just not her choice. She has more orgasms then I will get.
Megan A man who is more dominant than my husband who only unlocks at certain times is fine or he could say it's his vagina and all that sort of language but do NOT make someone hate the vagina attached to them.
I will not be unlocked at certain times for sex, I will never know when my next orgasm is scheduled.
He will make sure we both have a great sex life and that I feel adored and sexy and pleasure as a day to day thing. He "just" doesn't believe in the ideas of having orgasms together and regular/many orgasms for me. I think it is much hotter for both of us, when we focus on one of our pleasures, him or mine, but not both. And yes, these sessions will normally end with an orgasm for him but not for me. My constant hornyness and frustration is a very important part of it.
Megan I am typing to help you this is how I really feel. Maybe your husband needs a more positive male role model like my husband or something IDK.
I understand that and don't feel offended. He doesn't hate my orgasms or my vagina and I think he his image of how a male should be is very caring and sexy. You must not forget that everything is challenged at all times. If something makes me unhappy, it will be charged.
Megan If your fiancé is okay with his own sister being humiliated and told in public she isn't going to cum anymore that's more than feminine energy or roles.
This never happened to my future sister in law. She has orgasms from time to time, too and I know the details from female talks with her. This is not a topic that is discussed at the dinner table or in front of foreigners. Why do you think this happens?
