Become a belted wife

Angelina

Sara2001 Yes, I can only make all or nothing decisions. I am not allowed to decide about certain rules.

makes a lot of sense, so you can always pull the "emergency brake", but he keeps the authority in general.

Vanessa

Similar meaning,anyway.

Sara2001 It's different in our relationship. He can decide anything at any time for any reason and it should stay like this. I don't want more impact that I currently have.

Do you think he wait a bit after thinking about a new rule,to be sure to think about it long enough,before telling you about this one?

Sara2001 Yes, I can only make all or nothing decisions. I am not allowed to decide about certain rules.

Yes,but in his case,he can decide which parts he would use or not;I think it was similar for him,all parts or nothing.

Angelina

Vanessa Similar meaning,anyway.

Of Course 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think he wait a bit after thinking about a new rule,to be sure to think about it long enough,before telling you about this one?

Yes, he is very responsible. But technically he could change the rules any 3 minutes.

Vanessa Yes,but in his case,he can decide which parts he would use or not;I think it was similar for him,all parts or nothing.

He can change any detail at any time. It's his job to maintain our rules.

Angelina

Sara2001 Yes, he is very responsible. But technically he could change the rules any 3 minutes.

I sincerely hope that this does not happen (except in emergencies), dosen't it? 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 But technically he could change the rules any 3 minutes.

As long as he doesn't do it,and think enough about a rule before using it,it is not a problem,I think.

Sara2001 He can change any detail at any time. It's his job to maintain our rules.

I hope it would have a good outcome for you,cancelling some parts hard for you!😉

Sara2001

Good point!

Sara2001

Angelina I sincerely hope that this does not happen (except in emergencies), dosen't it? 😉

It never happens. He rules with care

Angelina

Sara2001 It never happens. He rules with care

Good 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa I hope it would have a good outcome for you,cancelling some parts hard for you!😉

i agree with you , or rather, i agree with your request 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa As long as he doesn't do it,and think enough about a rule before using it,it is not a problem,I think.

Exactly.

Vanessa I hope it would have a good outcome for you,cancelling some parts hard for you!

I think sometimes I loose something, sometimes I win something. It's equal.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think sometimes I loose something, sometimes I win something. It's equal.

Do you think that in your relationship the balance between what you win and what you lose is balanced?

Vanessa

Sara2001 Exactly.

Good,so.

Angelina

Good question.

Sara2001

Angelina Do you think that in your relationship the balance between what you win and what you lose is balanced?

I think there is no black and white answer. As you know I am and will stay very, very limited. I will never have the freedom to do some things that are completely normal for most people. I know that I will ever feel my limitations and restrictions and I will know that this is not the norm. So if I only watch from this direction, it's definitely not fair for me. But in return I am able to live in a happy relationship full of love and harmony. I can trust my boyfriend 150%, I don't have to worry about almost anything. I would say this is not the standard, too. So I feel very lucky to have this situation. Do overall, it's a fair price I have to pay for something I really love.

Angelina

Sara2001

i understand, you are giving up one freedom for the other freedom, so to speak. yes, of course you can see it that way (even if i never could). I hope you stay happy with it.

Vanessa

Sara2001

So,even if you lose more than you gain,the importance of both seems equal to you.If you feel this way,It seems fair,yes.

Sara2001

Vanessa So,even if you lose more than you gain,the importance of both seems equal to you.If you feel this way,It seems fair,yes.

I think because of this lifestyle I will have a very happy life with him, full of love, harmony and erotic, even if I don't get so many releases, it will be very hot and fulfilling to know how happy and satisfied I can make him.

Angelina

Sara2001 it will be very hot and fulfilling to know how happy and satisfied I can make him.

and frustrating 😉 (it has to be said honestly)

Vanessa

Sara2001

I hope for you you're right!🙂

Angelina

Right! 🤣

Kaja

Um. I dont have CB.

For me it is like fetish so yes i will like it in marriage. But for me marriage IS NOT MORE that relationship.

Megan

Angelina and frustrating 😉 (it has to be said honestly)

@Sara2001 Don't make a joke out of her life.
I should also throw out instead of being purely submissive, really encourage him to love your orgasms too.
In other words your boyfriend is really young right? He has had his Dad and brothers and friends as the main influence of his life. Well it wouldn't be bad to include someone who really cherishes the vagina in your circle.

No way my husband could hang out but you can put a lot of pride in the female orgasm. Let's be honest being dominate is fine but if a Man doesn't love pleasuring his wife vagina, is he a closeted homosexual or at least not very manly? SO that is an attitude to consider.

Sara2001

Megan really encourage him to love your orgasms too.

He will make my orgasms something very special for me. If I am allowed to have one, he will make sure that they feel great for me

Megan In other words your boyfriend is really young right?

Early/Mid twenties.

Megan Well it wouldn't be bad to include someone who really cherishes the vagina in your circle.

He believes that man and woman have the same value, but very different roles in life and I think this is a very beautiful lifestyle. I get a lot in return for my limitations, I don't have the feeling that he is egoistic or unfair or anything.

Megan SO that is an attitude to consider.

He loves to play with my breasts and to stimulate them and I am sure that once he has access to my vagina, the same will be true for this area, he will stimulate it on a very regular basis and give me very good feelings, but at the end I have to hold back orgasms. I know it will be very frustrating, but I wouldn't say that he doesn't care for my female body parts or his stimulation. He cares a lot for my whole sex life, this just doesn't mean many orgasms for me.

LoonyMel

Megan Let's be honest being dominate is fine but if a Man doesn't love pleasuring his wife vagina, is he a closeted homosexual or at least not very manly? SO that is an attitude to consider.

I think, most of all, it would mean that the guy is selfish.
While I am sitting in a total opposed direction, I can at least understand partly his kind of behavior.
It could derive from the idea that she is supposed to take pleasure while he is having sex minding only to getting pleasure, or he could even not care.
I think there are so many different people and circumstances here that everything is possible.

Angelina

Megan @Sara2001 Don't make a joke out of her life.

i am not joking about @Sara2001's life. on the contrary, i have enormous respect for what she achieves. sorry if that came across as rude

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