gwen
What a lovely report from a happy chastity belt wearer!
gwen No. It's quite the opposite for me. It's a constant reminder that I am a sexual being, which is something I'm prone to forgetting for long periods of time when unbelted. Sexual thoughts arise more often, and I enjoy them when they do.
I know what you mean. I think I kinda come to the same point but from the opposite angle.
I devalued my own sexual feelings by simply attending to them immediately and thoughtlessly. Now I can't do that, I too am more focused on my partner. Maybe its a case of sex-all-the-time being somehow equivalent to no-sex?
How can I sum it up? Erm... I avoid thoughts and behaviours that would lead to masturbation, but I am left with thoughts and behaviours which draw me to my wife.
gwen If I stop wearing for some reason, I expect most of my healthy habits to persist.
Am glad to hear it. I think I would fall off the wagon very quickly and this is why chastity is probably best a permanent state for me personally. I like chastity-me. He's less of a dick. đ¤Ŗ