Behaviour change through long term chastity?
I think the belt has drastically changed my view on sex and masturbation. Before I had to wear it, masturbation felt like something that is a given thing that has to stay a secret. It changes to something I can't have anymore and that is since then a regular part of my thoughts. It definitely makes me think more about sex then less.
I think much more drastically is the difference in my views on sex in a relationship compared to unbelted people, but because I never was in a relationship before I was belted it's not really a change in my behaviour then a difference. I have learned how good it feels to give your partner a great orgasm if you know you can't receive anything similar in return. You can be completely unselfish and only focus on your partner. It's very satisfying for me to know how good I was for him and just for him.
I think this is something an unbelted person can't understand but you need the "right" partner for this. Someone who can still enjoy it, even if he/she can't give the same to you in return. It's nice when they feel sorry for you overall, but it should not impact there feelings to much during play time.
Sara2001 I think this is something an unbelted person can't understand but you need the "right" partner for this. Someone who can still enjoy it, even if he/she can't give the same to you in return.
yes, this is a crucial point that many might underestimate, this was the reason why we waited more than 3 months (and tried a lot of things) even though we had the keys to canryn's belt. it is something that the partner has to "get over" first to be able to enjoy it without feeling guilty.
I found wearing the belt made me appreciate more the opportunities I had when the belt was off. I got more satisfaction, first in the anticipation, and later in the realization of what happened when I was free.
I can't be 100% sure you're wrong,but I strongly doubt about it.
Joh Then it is only a hypothesis that no one can prove or disprove. I recommend to forget point. It is not valid.
I agree,but I don't think @Angelina's father would agree too.
Joh I am strait and believe this is as normal as non-strait.
Of course.
Angelina in a different way than he thought
Yes!
Angelina that could also be due to my girlfriend.
Probably,yes.
Sara2001 It definitely makes me think more about sex then less.
Classical.
Angelina it is something that the partner has to "get over" first to be able to enjoy it without feeling guilty.
Which is not easy for Emilie.
Not surprising.
That's one of the reasons we would use it as a game with Emilie,after we get married.
But if the partner got over the point, it feels great because it's completely unselfish. At least this is how I feel.
and it's ok for me because i have the same "disease", we always try to twist arguments to fit us 
Vanessa Which is not easy for Emilie.
but you did it and camryn and i did too but i agree it's not easy especially because you can't enjoy it 100% yourself
Sara2001 But if the partner got over the point, it feels great because it's completely unselfish. At least this is how I feel.
yes, it feels great, no question. but it would be better if both could share the same pleasure. (I know you think differently)
Vanessa I can't be 100% sure you're wrong,but I strongly doubt about it.
Obviously the idea that enough denial could turn a straight person gay, though often explored in fetish stories, is nothing short of ridiculous. But if your usual access to sex is blocked, at least some people have used that opportunity to try out something new - like bisexual men trying bottoming for the first time. I would not rule out the fact that some people find out during a long lockup that they are not quite as straight as they thought they were, though obviously the ability to feel attraction would have to have been there before the genitals got locked away.
Angelina and it's ok for me because i have the same "disease", we always try to twist arguments to fit us
Angelina but you did it
Yes,but it needed a lot of time for helping Emilie manage it a bit better.
Angelina it would be better if both could share the same pleasure.
I agree.
In my case,I can't get an orgasm with another woman too,so it doesn't impact me much.
youdontknowme the ability to feel attraction would have to have been there
In this case,it may have helped to discover we have such feelings,but it would not be a direct consequence of the chastity belt(and could have been discovered without it too).
Sara2001 I have learned how good it feels to give your partner a great orgasm if you know you can't receive anything similar in return. You can be completely unselfish and only focus on your partner. It's very satisfying for me to know how good I was for him and just for him.
Very well said. I do think an unbelted person can appreciate what you have said when she is in a position of wanting to do something nice for someone but doesn't want to be in a relationship with him. You do for him but don't want him to do you back to avoid any further involvement.
Avery something nice for someone but doesn't want to be in a relationship
Another aspect is you enjoy the feeling of being in control of how your partner feels, how long it lasts and how often she comes. Especially for men, the experience can be much longer, because after the first orgasm it's usually all over for him anyway.
Joh Another aspect is you enjoy the feeling of being in control of how your partner feels, how long it lasts and how often she comes. Especially for men, the experience can be much longer, because after the first orgasm it's usually all over for him anyway.
I have little experience with women but it's fun to be in control with the man. Most guys, in my experience, are happy enough to get the first one.
Joh Sorry to be too vague. You said "Especially for men, the experience can be much longer, because after the first orgasm it's usually all over for him anyway." In fact because I am young and so are my guys they can usually manage several orgasms. In this case I was talking about doing something for a guy who did you a favor (e.g. taking you to the prom) but with whom you do not want an ongoing relationship. So you manipulate him to the point of having one orgasm but don't hang around long enough to provide more. That may disappoint him some but usually they are happy getting at least the one you provided. It's not an important point.
I'm now several months into nearly full-time wear. This seems to qualify as long term, so I'll answer the original post.
Jonas Do the feelings of frustration that come with enforced chastity ever make you choose to avoid sexual thoughts and behaviours?
No. It's quite the opposite for me. It's a constant reminder that I am a sexual being, which is something I'm prone to forgetting for long periods of time when unbelted. Sexual thoughts arise more often, and I enjoy them when they do.
For good, or ill, does a chastity belt train or encourage a person to think, speak and act with purity and self-restraint? Or would it all change back to how it was before when the lock is released?
I do behave differently while belted. It motivates me to think of my partner more often. It's also a wonderful tool for healthy habit building.
If I stop wearing for some reason, I expect most of my healthy habits to persist.
Do you think long-term wear would have a positive, negative or no effect on your character?
Quite positive! I am hopeful it keeps up.