Vanessa

yes, but i think a cb is not a tool for a good marriage, when it comes to the amount you should talk about what you can do better and how you want to change (if you want to change) a cb prevents the sexual amount, but the marriage and trust certainly does not do well

      Ines

      don't you understand what I wrote or my attitude to the subject?

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          Angelina
          Idiomatic barriers 😅, I can not fully understand what do you want express. Sorry, sweet 😕

              Ines

              not bad sweet 😉

              english is a foreign language for both of us 😉

                Laura Did you have such acidents with your belt on prevented?

                    Angelina yes, but i think a cb is not a tool for a good marriage, when it comes to the amount you should talk about what you can do better and how you want to change (if you want to change) a cb prevents the sexual amount, but the marriage and trust certainly does not do well

                    Sure,but,as @Ines said,it could be a symbol than reminds him/her he/she is married and should never cheat.

                        Vanessa

                        of course but this will should come from him/her 😉

                        I think a wedding ring is sufficient if the partner wants to stay faithful 😉

                            Angelina think a wedding ring is sufficient if the partner wants to stay faithful 😉

                            Sure,it should not be forced too...But could be suggested,like:"ok,if you truely think it won't happen again,I guess you'll have no problem to use a chastity belt,right?",for example.

                            Yes,but I think a chastity belt or cage is harder to forget than a wedding ring !😉

                                Vanessa

                                that sounds like mistrust again, I'm sure who really loves me will not cheat me, it would also be a form of blackmail and at this time at the latest the marriage failed 🙁

                                    Angelina

                                    It can be considered as a proof they truely said what they think.But it should not be something like "Wear it or I divorce",sure.

                                        Vanessa

                                        you're right, but it's still not an option for me, the cb is just the symbol for me that there is no trust anymore 🙁

                                            Angelina I think a wedding ring is sufficient if the partner wants to stay faithful

                                            In ideal world 🤣

                                                A belted wife is a big responsibility for the husband, and at same time a sing of deep trust of the girl towards the husband.

                                                  Angelina

                                                  As long as it is not linked to forgiveness,I think it can be a not so bad idea.

                                                  Ines

                                                  Even the case if there was no cheating,however.

                                                        Vanessa Even the case if there was no cheating,however
                                                        Of course. It is a romantic agreement. If a belted wife is happy, this fact talks about the marriage health. When we wear a belt we are far more dependable, so if we are happy, everything is working well.

                                                            Vanessa

                                                            it may be a possibility, but I think in a happy marriage there is no reason for it 😉

                                                                Ines Of course. It is a romantic agreement. If a belted wife is happy, this fact talks about the marriage health. When we wear a belt we are far more dependable, so if we are happy, everything is working well.

                                                                But it works only for 'happy wearer",like you! 😉

                                                                Angelina it may be a possibility, but I think in a happy marriage there is no reason for it 😉

                                                                Sure,even if there is an "accident",it could be forgiven and the chastity belt,even if still useful as a reminder,can be a bit hard for a one time error...

                                                                But if it is the cheater who propose it,to prove he/she would never do it again,it could be a good idea to accept.

                                                                Laura

                                                                It can happen easily in such circumstances....But I think it is more "forgiveable" than if it is done when sober.