• Poll

  • Users, are you married or not, while in/out of chastity?

Sara2001 Yes, and how I will ensure it.

And I have sometimes found that only opens new ways in which I can fail and be punished for that.

    9 days later

    Sara2001 It's very important for his feelings that I thank him after the punishment and tell him that I am happy that he is helping me. This can't be a phrase but I have to honestly feel it.

    can you do this honestly? i find it a bit difficult because of course you can mean it in a way that you respect his authority, but to focus it on individual punishments/rules i find it difficult.

        Angelina can you do this honestly? i find it a bit difficult because of course you can mean it in a way that you respect his authority, but to focus it on individual punishments/rules i find it difficult.

        Yes, if a punishment is done correctly, I feel truly thankful. I know it's not easy for him and needs a lot of consistency from him. Because of this I am truly thankful no matter how much I hate the punishment result itself.

            Sara2001

            So you're grateful that he's playing by the rules too, even if it means it's painful for you and emotionally difficult for him?

                Angelina So you're grateful that he's playing by the rules too, even if it means it's painful for you and emotionally difficult for him?

                Yes, absolutely. It's important for me to know that we both want this lifestyle. If I would only punish me for misbehaviour when he is in the right mood, it would feel like it's just a funny game for him.

                It is his job to ensure absolute perfect consistency. If he set a rule for me, he MUST ensure, that I follow this rule at all times and under any circumstances. No matter how he is feeling today. Of course except if one of us is seriously ill and this rule would impact getting healthy again.

                His role is not easy, too.

                    Sara2001 His role is not easy, too.

                    i don't doubt that and that's why i sometimes write that you both make it very difficult for yourselves unnecessarily. but it's good that he also recognises his role and acts responsibly. 🙂

                      3 years later

                      After the wedding, I told my wife about my preference for chastity belts. For me, it is a proof of love and a sign of loyalty to my wife (like a wedding ring). But it was only after the birth of our last daughter (2 years ago) that she started keeping me locked up regularly. The locking times are getting longer and longer.

                      cool that this survey was highlighted, so i could correct my answer 😃