Joh Clear rules and punishment must not go hand in hand. It is also possible to set strict rules and you follow them because you like it that way.
I follow my rules because I like it. But liking them 99% of the time is something else then liking them 100% of the time and in the other 1%, I love that I have to follow them, even if I don't like to follow it from time to time.
Angelina but it is probably very difficult to compare
I think it's very different. It's consensual and I can talk about my rules every week.