Sara2001 How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.
Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 
. I blame the wind earlier in the summer
Maija They already know, which was fortunate
that's good of course, but on the one hand i am surprised that you are so open about it and on the other hand i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?
Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them
and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?
Angelina i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?
I initiated the whole thing, so probably not
Angelina and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?
They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.
Totally unrelated: what if we had an OOTD thread? (Like chastity perspective) Would it be too offtopic?
Never, to my knowledge, has anyone I didn't want noticed my belt.
It is also true that until a couple of years ago, I used it mainly at home and little outside. Since I've been using it 24/7, it's coincided with the pandemic, and that made things easier.
But hey, be careful with the skirt I think it's a minimum required of all women, although in the end each of us has had a scare.
Maija I initiated the whole thing, so probably not
did you know about the security check? 
Maija They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.
I can understand you, I think that's how it is for many. of course they are your two best friends and it is good that they support you. I also got a lot of questions from my best friend, she thinks it's crazy, but actually it's not a big issue anymore, unless we want to go to a swimming pool
Yes, I can't visit public pools or beaches anymore for swimming. My boyfriend decided that the ability to do swimming is not important enough to get out of the belt.
Joh Maybe she has the possibility to go swimming after her wedding. Daniel is going to decide for what activity the chain gets off.
No. The belt will stay in place, except for cleaning and fun time together. I will only get the opportunity to have the chain of the tightbands removed more often. So many outdoor activities will become possible again but swimming will stay impossible.
in my opinion swimming is impossible with thighbands, where should you hide the chain? the belt and the bra can be hidden if you wear a full body swimsuit
Sara2001 My boyfriend decided that the ability to do swimming is not important enough to get out of the belt.
also not to have a few nice hours together in the swimming pool? that's very romantic
I am scared about this, but I have good advisors.
Joh Without the chain swimming is possible. With boxer shorts and a swim shirt you can hide your equipment. Especially when you at a not crowded beach nobody will notice it from the distance.
If the clothes are wet, I think it is very likely that the equipment becomes visible. I don't think that I should use a pool on a place that is accessible to anybody while I wear my equipment. My best chance would be a private pool, but of course anything with a private pool is very expensive (like booking a place with a private pool for honeymoon). At the end I think I will just not be able to do swimming a lot in the future. I don't like this aspect but I think I receive more in return then it costs me.
Sara2001 If the clothes are wet, I think it is very likely that the equipment becomes visible.
Test it and you will know. You can ask @Angelina which kind of swimwear she can recommend.
Sara2001 My best chance would be a private pool, but of course anything with a private pool is very expensive
Maybe someone will give you a place to stay as a wedding gift.
