ZeynepFox
Let's say it like this.
Imagine that tomorrow you will slip and fell from three of four steps on the stairs.
You do a strange movement with your legs and feel some tearing. Bye bye hymen.
Then three days later you get your examinations and... Surprise!
You will be part of the dishonored ones forever.
Is it still heartwarming? Is it still beautiful? Respectful?
Is it really good for you to have your honor a d value considered as a tiny piece of your genital meat which may get torna for a lot of unrelated reasons?
To face the pressure of the society which will categorize you as impure?
There are places on Earth where traditions makes you eat your enemies hearts. Is it good just because "wow, traditions"?
Or mutilate female genitals. Is it honorable?
Often tradition is the fast way to say "old
Ways based on a total misunderstanding of anatomy and physics of the world which we discovered centuries ago and made us understand better that lighting is not Zeus or Thor presence sign..".
I am not talking in a conservative or progressive way, I am just saying that this system is utterly not consistent. It does not prove that a girl with no hymen is not pure, as it is not quite proven the opposite, since maybe there are girls with hymen and a busy traffic into their backside highway.
It is like saying "you can find delinquents easy, they are those who use that kind of dress".
I do not want to be bad or harsh, but how can I respect a castle of beliefs based on a wrong meter?