The discussion has been interesting but for some time nobody has answered my questions from the starting post anymore. However, some other aspects have been discussed and I came up with some new questions. Therefore I would like to add some questions again in order to see what all those who are willing wearers are like:

  1. Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?

  2. Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?

  3. Are you living in a relationship according to your preferences and if not, what is different to your ideal scenario of being kept in chastity?

  4. Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?

  5. Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?

  6. Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?

  7. Have you ever cheated during such a situation?

  8. What have or would have been the consequences?

  9. Do you have any way of how you handle when and why rules my be changed?

  10. What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?

Again, if this gets some replys I am willing to answer these questions for myself, too.

    Laura
    Could you split my last reply from this topic then and create a new one entitled "New questions ..." please?

      Michael Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?

      I prefer to wear a chastity belt to prevent sex only, rather than an orgasm, but my mother wants to prevent both.

      Michael Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?

      Because it was her requirement.

      Michael Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?

      No.

      Michael Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?

      There is no such thing as emergency key in my case.

      Michael Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?

      Yes, visits to doctors.

      Michael Have you ever cheated during such a situation?

      Yes.

      Michael What have or would have been the consequences?

      I have to show the locked belt once it's done.

                    Michael Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?

                    I prefer to have a fixed time till when to wear the belt, the rest is up to the keyholder for me...

                    Michael Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?

                    Because when being belted you don't always are in the position to make decisions about unlockings you wouldn't regret later.

                    Michael Are you living in a relationship according to your preferences and if not, what is different to your ideal scenario of being kept in chastity?

                    Not anymore, as I have no more keyholder for two months now.

                    Michael Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?

                    A safeword is important when you don't know esch other as good as yourself, but over the time an experienced keyholder can know how to hadle theese situations and how to solve them.

                    Michael Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?

                    Nearly.

                    Michael Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?

                    Of course. You need to habe erections from time to time for health reasons, doctor visits and so on might also need an unlocking.

                    Michael Have you ever cheated during such a situation?

                    no

                    Michael What have or would have been the consequences?

                    Idk, haven't really practiced enforced keyholding that much jet... sounds strage to be punished for itat first glance, but it makes sense.

                    Michael Do you have any way of how you handle when and why rules my be changed?

                    Well, that's a basic part of trust to me.

                    Michael What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?

                    How did you find a keyholder? Do you still like being locked? Why are you locked? Who holds your keys? hmm idk, I just feel like we already had theese questions once... however 🤷‍♂️

                                          Michael Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?

                                          Keyholder to have complete control.

                                          Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?

                                          Feel addicted to sex and masturbation, so my judgement cannot be trusted.

                                          Are you living in a relationship according to your preferences and if not, what is different to your ideal scenario of being kept in chastity?

                                          Yes, almost. Would prefer if no way for either of us to remove my belt without consequence.

                                          Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?

                                          Trust keyholder 100%.

                                          Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?

                                          Yes, no.

                                          Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?

                                          Medical emergency only.

                                          Have you ever cheated during such a situation?

                                          No. Too ill to worry about it.

                                          What have or would have been the consequences?

                                          Relationship damage, trust, but no real opportunity.

                                          Do you have any way of how you handle when and why rules my be changed?

                                          I can only suggest security enhancements.

                                          What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?

                                          Ways to deal with sexual frustration.

                                              Jonas Ways to deal with sexual frustration.

                                              The Raging Bull method: pour a pitcher of ice water on your genitals.

                                                  Avery The Raging Bull method: pour a pitcher of ice water on your genitals.

                                                  Can't do that in my belt but I've actually tried this in the past ...but to no avail. In fact, I think it kinda liked it?!

                                                    Max9 or a cooling pad on the belt

                                                    Since I have my key I can stick something inside there and lock it and the belt will hold it there. A bag of frozen peas does wonders and after a little defrosting conforms nicely to a girl's genitals at least, maybe not a guy's.

                                                    • Max9 replied to this.

                                                        Avery nope, we are extreamly sensitive to temperature and putting forzing stuff on them for a long time will definitely not be ... comfortable ...

                                                            Max9 Sensation too localised. A freezing cold shower with both shoulders under would do the job better I think.

                                                                Jonas 🥶 absolutely not my cup of tea. I hate everythig (except for coke, snow and ice cream) - especially cold water and cold showers

                                                                    Max9 Coke, snow and ice cream... Yes these are all great things!! ❄️ 🎄

                                                                    As to cold showers... The fact that you hate it can only help to take your mind off sexual thoughts...

                                                                      Michael Do you prefer to have some say in how long you stay belted until your next orgasm (having complete control, giving a min and max time etc.) or do you prefer your keyholder to be in complete control?

                                                                      I like having my keyholder in control of releases. If I was in control I think I would give up quickly and then there could be problems or mistakes. The aspect I would like to change is to have scheduled releases.

                                                                      Michael Why do you prefer it the way you answered to 11?

                                                                      I only get released when the need is bad, but it is not always present during checks so I can sometimes it can be a long time. Other times I get two or more releases each month.

                                                                      Michael Are you living in a relationship according to your preferences and if not, what is different to your ideal scenario of being kept in chastity?

                                                                      My current situation if ok with me.

                                                                      Michael Do you use any kind of safeword or do you trust your keyholder 100% to realize when the belt has to be removed?

                                                                      There is no safeword, but there is trust because the belt has already been removed when I had some minor skin damage.

                                                                      Michael Have you ever had a case of emergency when your keyholder wasn't present and did you have access to an emergency key?

                                                                      I am lucky and I have never had an emergency.

                                                                      Michael Are there any reasons for unlocking like doctor visits, sports and so on?

                                                                      I am unlocked for doctors visits. But supervised.

                                                                      Michael Have you ever cheated during such a situation?

                                                                      Never.

                                                                      Michael What have or would have been the consequences?

                                                                      We have discussed this. The punishment would the next two releases are not allowed with extra harsher punishments if I complain.

                                                                      Michael Do you have any way of how you handle when and why rules my be changed?

                                                                      We talk about the changes and we both agree to everything. I have not had any big rule changes after I agreed to wear the belt 24/7 which was months in the past.

                                                                      Michael What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?

                                                                      How has the belt affected your emotions? Do you feel different when you are released and when you are wearing the belt?

                                                                                            Dalila How has the belt affected your emotions? Do you feel different when you are released and when you are wearing the belt?

                                                                                            Ignore this. I could not think of a good question but I have a good one now.

                                                                                            Michael What would you like to know from all the other willing wearers?

                                                                                            Do you know anyone in your life that you think should wear a chastity belt? why?

                                                                                                  Jonas A freezing cold shower with both shoulders under would do the job better I think.

                                                                                                  Down the front of me, boobs to box.

                                                                                                      Avery Yup, but would a pitcher of cold water over the head work? I mean, I'm looking for efficiency here too... Can't be showering all day!