Forum boys page

Max9

[deleted] If your budget is $100 then I'd go for a Holytrainer. They are one the best cages you can get. Premium swiss handmade quality 👌🏼 Made of a natural resign that, different to chineese pladtic, doesn't contain cancer-causing softeners.

Max9

Max9 or a kink 3d belt (3d printed cage, premium brand)

Edit: maybe start off with a cheap cage just to find out what size fits you best.. but don'/ wear a chineese plastic cage longterm, they just don't have the quality for that.

Megan

[deleted] Well some of those don't have the ring behind the testicles the last 2 links look like they would cover you but man in the one erotic photography with his mistress seems like he is going to retract his balls into the odd shaped frame oooh OUCH I am guessing
So maybe 2nd from the last. The other ones seem like they could become the worlds most painfull slingshot but again IDK I am certain all men are different I only know how my husband flops around.

youdontknowme

Megan IDK I am certain all men are different I only know how my husband flops around.

If we got hurt every time someone impeded our "flopping", I assure you almost any man would be dressed like a "true scotsman": kilt and no underwear.

Angelina

[deleted] a demiboy is someone who identifies as mostly masculine but partially feminine

ok, i didn't know that, but i think i understood it

zbovka

youdontknowme I've always wanted to wear cargo kilts (think like cargo pants with pockets big enough to fit a 1L water bottle, except its a skirt) especially in summer but that will just attract attention that I don't necessarily want. Then again i hear scotland's airport stinks of ballsack.

Max9

Well, kilts are definitely an option if you want to try out wearing thightbands

zbovka

Max9 ngl they are kinda pointless for men. My desire to wear a kilt is more of a practicality focus if anything

Conrad

I have been on a 2 year hiatus from chastity devices and this forum but I just sprung on a cheap plastic ball trap device that was (edit: not as close as I thought) to my flaccid measurements. https://lockthecock.com/collections/valentines-sale/products/loud-and-clear-3d-cock-cage

Thanks to @Rina for sharing about the fancy steel hybrid belt. I might be able to pony up for one of those in the future, looks way more comfortable to me.

I wanted to ask you guys about getting adjusted to wearing the device. I want to get an idea of how long it takes before the penis will calm down and stay mostly flaccid. Weeks? Months?

My other concern is how to manage and basically minimize the ball stretching and loosening effect of the ball trap devices. I imagine a smaller base ring and/or tying it back to the waist.

I am probably going to start out slow and be wearing my device on some weekdays, and try to use ice if it gets painful. I have a time-lock safe so I could keep the keys out of reach during whichever weekdays I program into it.

I also wanted to give a shoutout to all the virgins on this website. Keep it up, I’m with you. I feel virginity is different as a guy, it’s not as much of a thing to brag about or something women find attractive. I could be an incel for all you know. I have refused a blatant offer for sex at least once though.

Cb85

Conrad it’s going to take at least a few weeks to adjust.
As far as stretching it’s just what it is.

Cb85

Conrad I feel virginity is different as a guy

If you are going to play the short term relationship game your long term relationships will suffer.
So if you want a great long term relationship virginity is the best way cuz ladies that want long term and future kids don’t want you comparing her to other women.

Jorden Peterson has a lot to say on the subject

Cb85

Women are pretty much the same I see so many girls that are 31 years old complaining they can’t find a guy because of toxic masculinity.
It’s not toxic it’s just men don’t want to marry a woman that has been with 80 partners sexually and have little to offer.
Most Men and women don’t want a spouse that has “been with” tons of other people. It makes them less desirable and lowers their value socially.

Kaja

Cb85 WTF?

Kaja

Cb85 What is the connection between sexual history of my partner and his qualification to be a good husband 😀 ?

Kaja

Cb85 And dont tell "most of boys and girls".
For example I dont know anybody like you. Thankfully. It is a shame to label and rate people by their sexual life or history.

Avery

Cb85 “been with” tons of other people

In the future can you please substitute "has a high body count" for "“been with” tons of other people". So much neater.

Cb85

Kaja watch the video in “the value of chastity” post.
It seems pretty obvious

Cb85

Kaja most ppl have a declining value of another person and their level of sexual activity.
Most ppl I know either understand clearly or not so clearly that sexual promiscuity lends itself to less loyalty to their spouse.
And the research validates this concept

Avery

Cb85 the video in “the value of chastity” post

Is that the one which represents that ordinary people can learn from the lives of Hugh M. (the M. is important) Hefner and Marilyn Monroe?

Angelina

Kaja It is a shame to label and rate people by their sexual life or history.

but it happens again and again and I can't absolve myself of it either. I have a friend who, after many partners, has finally found a man who is really great, but when he talks about sex, I catch myself thinking (of course I don't say that) "If you knew how many idiots have been in this hole before you were". I like my girlfriend and I like her partner, but I still label.

otherwise i have nothing to contribute to the discussion, frankly i don't know how credible i would rate a partner who had many other sexual partners before me

Kaja

Cb85 Well, I dont have much experience, but...

My best friend (girl) were really promiscuite (min one boy per month, I dont count intercouses 😃 ) when she was single, but now she is more than five years 100 % loyal and devout to her partner. She is one of the best and the most polite, the most willing and helping people I know.
But for you (Im really sorry for you) she is just a whore.

Cb85

Kaja But for yo

Kaja But for you (Im really sorry for you) she is just a whore

It’s not just me. It’s most people of both sex.
Don’t feel sorry for me I’m happily married 10 years now.

Cb85

Kaja she is just a whore.

You said it not me.

Cb85

Kaja Well, I dont have much experience

So you freely offer your opinion though you have little experience.
Not a good source of information.

Like I said watch the video.

« Previous Page Next Page »