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Cb85

Conrad it’s going to take at least a few weeks to adjust.
As far as stretching it’s just what it is.

Cb85

Conrad I feel virginity is different as a guy

If you are going to play the short term relationship game your long term relationships will suffer.
So if you want a great long term relationship virginity is the best way cuz ladies that want long term and future kids don’t want you comparing her to other women.

Jorden Peterson has a lot to say on the subject

Cb85

Women are pretty much the same I see so many girls that are 31 years old complaining they can’t find a guy because of toxic masculinity.
It’s not toxic it’s just men don’t want to marry a woman that has been with 80 partners sexually and have little to offer.
Most Men and women don’t want a spouse that has “been with” tons of other people. It makes them less desirable and lowers their value socially.

Kaja

Cb85 WTF?

Kaja

Cb85 What is the connection between sexual history of my partner and his qualification to be a good husband 😀 ?

Kaja

Cb85 And dont tell "most of boys and girls".
For example I dont know anybody like you. Thankfully. It is a shame to label and rate people by their sexual life or history.

Avery

Cb85 “been with” tons of other people

In the future can you please substitute "has a high body count" for "“been with” tons of other people". So much neater.

Cb85

Kaja watch the video in “the value of chastity” post.
It seems pretty obvious

Cb85

Kaja most ppl have a declining value of another person and their level of sexual activity.
Most ppl I know either understand clearly or not so clearly that sexual promiscuity lends itself to less loyalty to their spouse.
And the research validates this concept

Avery

Cb85 the video in “the value of chastity” post

Is that the one which represents that ordinary people can learn from the lives of Hugh M. (the M. is important) Hefner and Marilyn Monroe?

Angelina

Kaja It is a shame to label and rate people by their sexual life or history.

but it happens again and again and I can't absolve myself of it either. I have a friend who, after many partners, has finally found a man who is really great, but when he talks about sex, I catch myself thinking (of course I don't say that) "If you knew how many idiots have been in this hole before you were". I like my girlfriend and I like her partner, but I still label.

otherwise i have nothing to contribute to the discussion, frankly i don't know how credible i would rate a partner who had many other sexual partners before me

Kaja

Cb85 Well, I dont have much experience, but...

My best friend (girl) were really promiscuite (min one boy per month, I dont count intercouses 😃 ) when she was single, but now she is more than five years 100 % loyal and devout to her partner. She is one of the best and the most polite, the most willing and helping people I know.
But for you (Im really sorry for you) she is just a whore.

Cb85

Kaja But for yo

Kaja But for you (Im really sorry for you) she is just a whore

It’s not just me. It’s most people of both sex.
Don’t feel sorry for me I’m happily married 10 years now.

Cb85

Kaja she is just a whore.

You said it not me.

Cb85

Kaja Well, I dont have much experience

So you freely offer your opinion though you have little experience.
Not a good source of information.

Like I said watch the video.

Kaja

Cb85 Im slut too and I like it. I know why I have my body and what I cand do with it to my pleasure (and to pleasures of my partners). Im happy. I love it.

Avery

Cb85 Like I said watch the video.

As someone else said an hour and three-quarters is a bit much but I bet I listened to an hour of it.

It does seem that the video presents a kind of classic madonna (the religious one, not the singer) whore view of women. One is either a virgin or a slut. I don't find that to be true. Here on the forum we do in fact have some women who are committed to a chaste life and there are in fact some women in the world who have a truly eye-popping body count. But most girls, I find, are in between. They only sleep with people they have an honest connection to and, having found Mr. Right, go on to marry and stick with him. These women don't seem to have a place in the video.

curious

Kaja
Just out of curiosity:
Knowing you advocate for free sexual fun and pleasure whenever you enjoy it and see a chastity belt - according to your own profile - predominantly as a sex toy, why do you engage in this forum in the first place?
I mean, this forum is designated to serious and non-fetish related use, exactly the thing you do not like. Seems to me you are in the wrong forum and a fetish chastity belt forum would a more appropriate place?
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you have no right to be here. I just don't understand your reason for engaging in a forum that clearly is not intended for the audience you represent and where for that reason you obviously time and again clash with the basic idea behind this forum.

Cb85

Kaja well check back with me in ten years when no one wants to have kids with you nor wants a serious relationship.

You’ll be on tictom or whatever pop culture is doing then complaining about how no man your age wants you and how toxic they all are or whatever women of that age will be labeling men that don’t want used up old sluts.

Cb85

curious very well articulated curious.

Kaja

curious I dont have problem with people who wear cb for any reason.

But I have a BIG problem with any force in it.
However I have problem with any force in any relationship.

Cb85

Avery he separates ppl into 2 categories ppl that long term relationships and ppl that want short term fun.
It’s possible to switch your desires early enough where you fair ok.
But the ones that stick to only short term usually suffer long term consequences and it lacks long term fulfillment.

Kaja

Cb85 I have my bf, we are together for some years and we plane stay together. I was not his first, he was not my first. We know, we respect it and it is all.

I dont know where you live but I have to say that you live in parelel space. Or are you afraid that you girl will have lose vagina? I really dont understand you. Sorry.

curious

Kaja
I am afraid that did not answer my question.
This forum is a out serious chastity for various reasons, ranging from religious to lifestyle and from completely Involuntary to largely voluntary. But non of these reasons includes sexual "fun" and the fetish related use you seem to accept as the only valid option.
So again my question: Why do you partake in this forum and constantly clash with all the other motivations you consider in acceptable and wrong rather than join a forum that is about the type of use you like? To me that seems rather illogical.

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