Megan I was politely asking if there are any male belts you could get easily that are equal to female belts in comfort...
I doubt there are many people who can judge that, as comfort can really only be suitaby compared if one person has both reference points. There are a few chastity belt wearers out there who have had a penis at one point in their lives and a vulva at another and worn belts designed for both sexes, but their number is small and their bone structure probably not typical for at least one of the sexes they have been belted as.
I feel that you overestimate the amount of discomfort that a male gets from his erection struggling against a tube, though. It is not like trying to bend an erect penis into shape, the penis is pretty much just held back like it is with tight underwear. Well, maybe a little more strongly, I guess a metaphor might be thigh bands versus pencil skirt.