My Mom's chastity belt

youdontknowme

The amount of effort it takes to order those keys, keep them concealed and lie to your keyholder should make the resulting action a bit more than a "mistake", though.

Angelina

Saintprudence

yes, but if she should cheat, who is she harming? actually only herself so it makes no sense

pestulens

Angelina People do things that don't make sense all the time. Eventually, we have to learn to deal with it or go mad.

Christine @Sasha could probably just look at the invoice and/or packing list and see if extra keys were added. no need to complicate things.

Laura

pestulens look at the invoice and/or packing list and see if extra keys were added.

Extra keys can be ordered later, but by the person of the original order. At least how it worked for Tollyboy

curious

Laura
Tollyboy is using special locks made by or for Tollyboy.
The other belt manufacturers like My-Steel just incorporate standard padlocks into the belt.
So they can supply as keys only what comes with the lock and if an additional key can be ordered depends on the lock manufacturer.

Sasha

Just to be clear, while 24/7 wear is the goal it’s only to prevent premarital sex. She would be able to request some “her time” at home as needed. But we agreed that her not having the ability to order a key is a good idea. Both so mistakes can’t happen, and it makes my duty as the KH much more real.
Likewise I have no ability to order keys for any of my gear. I can’t make those mistakes again.

Christine

Angelina so why would she do that?

To understand the seriousness of wearing a chastity belt.

Sasha it’s only to prevent premarital sex

Same here. And marriage is the requirement.

Renita

Angelina have always wondered where the benefit is?

Because

Sasha while 24/7 wear is the goal it’s only to prevent premarital sex.

Angelina Then you have to try to prevent her from leaving the house while she is not wearing a belt

And no need to worry.

Joh

Sasha How should that work for her though?

The reason why she will wear a CB is different from yours. You have a problem with self-control which is not the case with her.

Sasha Just to be clear, while 24/7 wear is the goal it’s only to prevent premarital sex. She would be able to request some “her time” at home as needed.

I think if she has regular me-time it will minimise the attempts. But cheating is not allowed at other times and should be punished. Otherwise there is no real reason why she shouldn't try.

Greatcornbow

curious ollyboy is using special locks made by or for Tollyboy.

Indeed but Tollybpy not uet confirmed resumed production. But if/when they are it would be ideal

Angelina

Christine To understand the seriousness of wearing a chastity belt.

of course, but if i want to protect myself with a belt, it doesn't really make sense that i try to cheat him (just my opinion)

Laura

@Sasha any updates about your mother's belt?

Sasha

Laura Nothing terribly new, mom continues to wear it everyday a little more each time. She’s not rushing into wearing it

Laura

Sasha When do you think you will be ready to order a my-steel belt for her?

Sasha

Laura We are thinking soon, so that she can continue to adjust in the belt she will actually be wearing.

Laura

Sasha so that she can continue to adjust in the belt she will actually be wearing.

Is she reluctant in this?

Sasha

Laura Not at all actually, she’s actually looking forward to getting a real quality belt instead of the cheap trainer she’s using

Laura

Sasha she’s actually looking forward to getting a real quality belt instead of the cheap trainer she’s using

She'll have to actually wear a real quality belt, that might scare her. I would talk to her if she has doubts

Sasha

Laura We are talking everyday after she’s worn the trainer a little longer. How she’s feeling about it, challenges, etc. so far she’s doing pretty well with it since she’s slowly building up to continuous wear.
Same as we’ve done with my additional gear.

Angelina

Sasha Same as we’ve done with my additional gear.

have you already had any real dates in the new equipment?

Laura

Sasha after she’s worn the trainer a little longer.

Looks too long. Remember it takes long time to receive after placing an order

Sasha

Angelina have you already had any real dates in the new equipment?

Sorry I completely missed your question.
No, I haven't been on an actual date in my new equipment. Still adjusting to it all and how I can mange various situations, exceptions, and the future in it once a serious relationship develops.
But my test dates have gone well enough. The gear creates a whole list of challenges, but I can't believe how nervous I am talking to someone on a date now! And these aren't even real dates yet!

Sasha

Laura We aren’t in any rush for this, it’s building slowly. Our goal is that she’s up to continuous wear in the trainer and only needs to adjust to the real belt, once it arrives.
Neither of us want to rush this

Joh

Sasha only needs to adjust to the real belt, once it arrives.

But a new belt has a different shape. So it can be she needs also longer time as a simple adjustment.

Christine

Sasha Our goal is that she’s up to continuous wear in the trainer and only needs to adjust to the real belt, once it arrives.

How is it going now?

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