youdontknowme Withdrawing consent should be sort of the ultima ratio when other options like renegotiating the agreement have failed.
agree, but in this I think that we must also distinguish between two types of girls.
On the one hand, there are those of us who use the seatbelt voluntarily. With us there can be crises, especially at the beginning. At least it happened to me that there were days that even some small incimodity frustrated me so much that I thought of sending everything to hell. In general, these crises pass quickly and a conversation with my older sister or my mother helped me.
Being volunteers, I, in general, do not think that "change of circumstances" is very common, although there may be, for example, that the girl goes to live very far from home. I think that if a girl who voluntarily wears it wants to stop wearing it, it will almost always be due to problems with the keyholder. And it does not have to be the keyholder's fault, it may be that the idea of โโwearing a belt seems attractive to them and when they see that the keyholder is strict and, for example, does not give them the option to "cheat" as @Rafael e says, they want to leave it.
Other times it will be the fault of the keyholder if he is very severe and does not ensure that absolute protection has the least possible impact on the girl's life.
In these cases, yes, there may be a process of adjusting the conditions, but not really not a "renegotiation" since, being voluntary, the terms were already set at the beginning. A period of one month seems reasonable to allow time for those adjustments to take place and to see if she is comfortable with the situation.
Another case is the girls who "buy" consent. They do not have much interest, nor much opposition, in the belt but by wearing it they get a series of privileges that compensate them. I sincerely believe that here the privileges must be great, not so much for her to accept, but to discourage the girl from stepping back.
If this step back occurs all of these privileges must be renegotiated. In this case, a period of around one month must be sufficient to negotiate the situation.
BD1791 How often is it so overwhelming that people need to stop. I'm wondering if some emotional support could get the person wearing the belt through without needing to stop completely.
In the adaptation period it is frequent and there you are the one who must take the speed, you are going to take a very important step and your keyholder must be with you. It is a process in which you grant some dependency and in return you become a kind of Sun in the solar system, the keyholder grants you all his time and efforts.
For me it is an incomparable feeling, and when I have a husband it will be even better, for sure.
Regarding when you are already wearing it, it is safe. The keyholder is neither a keychain that opens the belt whenever we feel like it, nor a cretin that does not open it when we need it. The good keyholder has to help you get through crises while keeping your belt closed as much as possible while you're happy.
Is not easy.
I was lucky to have my mother and my sister. I think being several helps a lot.