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Angelina

Kaja What is your meaning about it?

that i don't really understand the question, sorry 😂

Kaja I have to admite that Im suprised that I found this almost only 24/7 weares.

well, let me put it this way, if i wore the belt 23/7, i would use the last hour for sex and masturbation, then the belt would be useless

youdontknowme And at that point, to school might be the most important time to require the belt.

also an interesting thesis, which if i thought like you in the post i would even agree with

Sara2001

I agree with you, I see it 100% exactly like this 🙂

Renita

Kaja I found this almost only 24/7 weares

I didn't plan to wear 24/7, but have to.

Mr-TM

Kaja I see solution in "special operations". For example: going to party? - CB, going to sleepower? - CB, Do you have suspicion that you chil masturbate? - open door at day, supervesion while shower, cb at night. But never wearing it to school etc.

This would then be the pure idea of protection in particularly vulnerable situations.
But that would then make the "normal situations" "special".
In other words, if you protect your teenager with a cb in particularly dangerous situations, the teenager will find a way in normal everyday life to do what you want to prevent with the cb. Kids are very creative when it comes to doing forbidden things.
That's why I understand 24/7 for teenagers.

Rafael

Mr-TM

Here I speak from the experience of my house, and it is clear that you are right.
Wives and from a certain age daughters have to wear the belt on a 24/7 basis.
I am talking obviously about not very young, but from the age at which they can already be required to behave as responsible women.
In our house, girls have always been educated about the inconvenience of sex before marriage, and about the pernicious habit of masturbation, and based on that, when later, first my daughter and then my wife had their belt, this good manners helped them accept their belt.
I thought that using it mainly in moderate risk situations would be enough. They had quite a few breaks in "low risk" situations. Education is fine for them to accept the belt, but it is not enough to avoid weaknesses when the belt is not there.
As reported, I caught them trying to cheat with their belt, and I already realized it.
Since then they use the belt permanently and bands or even blockpiece as soon as the slightest doubt may arise.

Avery You raised a lot of points so I'm slightly embarrassed about picking on just one. I'm a hard no on supervised showers, especially if the supervisor is a man. Pervert city.

A man only should supervise his wife.

Kaja

Mr-TM If he didnt want to be pure and chaste HE HAS NOT to WEAR CB. And id she wants be pure (and wants to wear one) - he just need help during hard times (sleeping, sleepower, go out with bf/gf).

And if he occasionally fails? Nobody is perfect.

Purity and chastity - and wearing cb have not ever capture rest of your live (sports - PE at school, swimming at public pools, cycling ..., school and other activities - school trips, camps) and that parents who use metal bras or thighbands have go to prison for 150%.

Avery

Kaja supervision while shower

You raised a lot of points so I'm slightly embarrassed about picking on just one. I'm a hard no on supervised showers, especially if the supervisor is a man. Pervert city.

Avery

Rafael A man only should supervise his wife.

Well said.

Rafael the inconvenience of sex before marriage

'Specially if you have roommates.

Sin

Rafael A man only should supervise his wife.

And vice versa... No point letting a man sow their precious seeds down the plug hole.

All these men coming across all high and mighty when in 99% of cases it's boys who can't keep their urges under control.

C-B

Rafael fully agree, simillar by us

Avery

Sin No point letting a man sow their precious seeds down the plug hole.

Aye to that!

Ines

Sin All these men coming across all high and mighty when in 99% of cases it's boys who can't keep their urges under control.

Yes, but In the end it is the same point, what you say is true, but they have all the freedom in that sense.

Jen

Sin when in 99% of cases it's boys who can't keep their urges under control.

But why should they?
Edit - when single I mean!. My guy better not do that once we're married!!!

curious

Kaja me the belt is only I toy (but I really like idea that somebody force me to wearing one - for example at bording school, summer cam, some relatives, ...)

LOL.
Once you allow enforced belt wearing and meet the right person, I can assure you, 24/7 belted will become your reality.

Kaja

curious Well, no. My reality will be only what I allow.

Im not only submisive, Im switch. And elements of BDSM only in bedroom, not in really life.
I mean cb or ben wa balls during day yes (of course) but nobody will control (dominate) my life and I dont want to control (dominate) life of my bf.

Ines

Kaja And id she wants be pure (and wants to wear one) - he just need help during hard times (sleeping, sleepower, go out with bf/gf).

I think you are wrong, if she wants to be pure she has to wear the belt at almost all times, or the "soft" moments will become "hard".
It is one thing to want to be and another to be able, the belt is there so that we cannot even consider the option. It is easier for us girls to be good when the bad option is not really eligible.

Kaja

sports : they avoid bad choice, but only while we are playing it. My cousines do not have sports break, they play them with their sport belts. My aunt and cousines do not have absolutely any break if they are out of the sight.

swimming at public pools: same, you can use a cable belt that can be changed for another safer when she arrives home.

cycling : same, my aunt and cousines do it with their belts.

school trips: you can do it with your belt.

camps: the chastity belt here must be a must. I camped a lot of times with my belt.

Kaja And if he occasionally fails? Nobody is perfect.

purity has to be perfect or it is not, it is not a dish that gets stained, scrubbed and remains as the first time. If purity is sullied, it disappears, because it will never be purity again and you will never give it to your love, who is who it belongs to.

Sin

Ines Says who?

Sin

Ines they have all the freedom in that sense

Hmmmm I think my man would beg to differ this week!

He can do what he wants but if he doesn't take care of me and our daughter when we're sick then there's consequences. I learnt that from you lot and I must say it's working wonders!

Ines

Sin
Me. I never talk for anyone.
@Sin, you know I am against every forced use, but my ideas are clear about good and bad.
But, I insist, it is my opinion.

Avery

Ines purity has to be perfect or it is not, it is not a dish that gets stained, scrubbed and remains as the first time. If purity is sullied, it disappears, because it will never be purity again and you will never give it to your love, who is who it belongs to.

What if one grows up in a household where they never hear this message. Then when they are in their teens, say, they do hear the message and begin to live a chaste life. Are they always going to be considered sullied even though they were ignorant of the message because of the way they were raised?

Joh

Ines purity has to be perfect or it is not,

I agree with that.
You can't be a little pregnant either. 😉

Ines

Avery Are they always going to be considered sullied even though they were ignorant of the message because of the way they were raised?

No, of course. I explained myself badly: if she was never was raised in that concept, and she arrives to it by herself, then she is even much more pure than me.
Purity arises, in my opinion, when you know that it exists, not before, you can not care for something that does not exist for you in that moment.
As I said before, all was easy for me, I was always in this philosophy, and for me was easy, very easy.

Angelina

Ines

so would you say that you would call a girl pure even if she has masturbated (because she did not know the values) but then chooses a chaste lifestyle when she is older?

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