Would orgasms pre- belting motivate a girl to search for a husband?

Angelina

I got lost in the discussion at a certain point, so just briefly to the original question.

i think on the one hand a girl would try harder to find a husband, but might end up with the wrong one because she feels pressured by her own sexual needs. she might not be permanently happy because she got married "too fast". on the other hand, the belt also inhibits a girl from dating because she is afraid of rejecting a future partner.

for me personally i think it would have been easier if i had worn the belt before my first orgasm, but i was 14 and compared to my friends already relatively late. i don't want to judge if a belt at such an age is good or bad.

a_father

Saintprudence And the problem is: You decide what is good for her. But this is her decission, not yours.

Saintprudence

a_father To be fair, this is probably why it's a good thing I'm not a parent and never will be. I don't even know what good parenting LOOKS like.

Angelina

Saintprudence To be fair, this is probably why it's a good thing I'm not a parent

I think you would be a great parent, only you would have to refrain from wearing a belt for the child. 😉

Raquel the belt only forces you to behave in a way that you really should already behave.

right, that's why i don't see the need to use a chastity belt for my children for example, good education and teaching values and norms should be enough 🙂

Raquel

I even get angry sometimes, but if you think about it, the belt only forces you to behave in a way that you really should already behave.
I think that the approach is based on the fact that women are stupid... I agree that maybe the belt is a bit frustrating, but that can lead to wanting to cheat, - that our keyholders are already there to avoid it -, but not to marry an idiot
Before that, you ask them to remove your belt.

Saintprudence

Angelina I think you would be a great parent, only you would have to refrain from wearing a belt for the child.

Why, thank you! I’m not sure if you mean I wouldn’t need to wear a belt or that I wouldn’t belt the child (no worries, I would NEVER do that) but I totally agree that parenting would trump any belt-related matters in general.

Just our two little quiet lives alone are a lot of work! I can barely imagine being responsible for another life on top of that.

Raquel

Angelina right, that's why i don't see the need to use a chastity belt for my children for example, good education and teaching values and norms should be enough 🙂

🤣
That in theory! Then we are all very weak women. 😅

Angelina

Saintprudence

the child should not wear one (at least not against his/her will), you can do what you want 😉

of course it is a challenge, but you seem to be very loving, exactly what a child needs. 🙂

Jen

David I.E increase her desire for orgasms in future which will not happen until marriage

It's a no from me - I feel it's more like what arousal is has changed for me. Like I'm not interested in trying to get under the belt any more. I think the way I use my belt is part of the reason. I still get strong feelings but it's focused in my core - like behind or under my stomach. It's kind of in me and I can't do anything about it.

Megan But if it was you @Rafael would you want someone tell you to learn to masturbate for education and then never do it again and just be uncomfortable ???

For me I'm glad I know my body.

Megan I have no idea what I would do in a divorce because I would get excited and even if my Mom gave me breaks I wouldn't know how to finish.
Some people will say this is sweet, but if a woman were married to a controlling manipulative man it could be awful because you wouldn't want to leave

Do orgasms actually have that much hold over people? Like yeah desire be intense and I need my belt - but that's like short episodes. There's nothing wrong long term living without sex or masturbating

Saintprudence

Jen Do orgasms actually have that much hold over people? Like yeah desire be intense and I need my belt - but that's like short episodes. There's nothing wrong long term living without sex or masturbating

For some people it can be all-consuming or at least feel that way. Not all, but some.

Saintprudence

Jen PS: glad to see you again!

Megan

Jen David I.E increase her desire for orgasms in future which will not happen until marriage

It's a no from me - I feel it's more like what arousal is has changed for me. Like I'm not interested in trying to get under the belt any more. I think the way I use my belt is part of the reason. I still get strong feelings but it's focused in my core - like behind or under my stomach. It's kind of in me and I can't do anything about it.

Megan But if it was you @Rafael would you want someone tell you to learn to masturbate for education and then never do it again and just be uncomfortable ???

For me I'm glad I know my body.

Megan I have no idea what I would do in a divorce because I would get excited and even if my Mom gave me breaks I wouldn't know how to finish.
Some people will say this is sweet, but if a woman were married to a controlling manipulative man it could be awful because you wouldn't want to leave

Do orgasms actually have that much hold over people? Like yeah desire be intense and I need my belt - but that's like short episodes. There's nothing wrong long term living without sex or masturbating

I thought about what you wrote and this is what my mind and body are like.
I was more writing out of fear that other people would not be able to get to this good place for some reason
I am glad you reached this state.

Angelina

Saintprudence For some people it can be all-consuming or at least feel that way. Not all, but some.

i always find it exciting to read what a big role orgasms seem to have on a person's character traits, also because i don't feel that way, but there seem to be people who give up everything for orgasms.
There is a saying: sex is the most beautiful incidental thing in the world and I think it should stay that way.

Raquel Then we are all very weak women. 😅

True, but many bad character traits don't disappear just because you wear a chastity belt. 😉

hanna_anders

Angelina I come from a slightly different perspective to most women and girls here. Sex and orgasms arent a mystery to me, I'm not sure having had one orgasm would have made me want to marry the first man I met just to get another one. My belt arrives in a few weeks, maybe I'll change my mind after a while in that 🙂

Angelina

hanna_anders just to get another one.

there is one thing that would stop me. the orgasm is fleeting, but you still have your spouse. 😉

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