youdontknowme Feels like a metal detector would be quite ineffective for that, first example that comes to my mind would be that if the lock were destroyed to allow illicit access, the rest of the belt would still be enough to trigger the detector.

of course, as i said, my brain sometimes does strange things, that was meant more as a joke, but it is not unlikely. a friend of mine has very strict rules about alcohol, her parents always do an alcohol test when she comes home, probably that's why it came to my mind, but you are of course right, the system would be very insecure

Owl Detector to check that you do wear certain objects? I think we can build on that idea … ;-)

Of course it doesn't have to stay with chastity belts (metal). With the right technology you can expand it even further 😉

BD1791 No, no legal trouble but embarrassment and rumors.

understandable, as a lawyer you don't want to be seen as a pervert or something like that, that can harm your career

          Laura What if you need to go to a place like this and she is not around?

          It never happened yet. But in general I would prefer to go with the belt on.

            Owl I see what you are saying but I don't think things would go down like that. I live is a purple state that leans blue so more liberal than conservative. Even in the conservative sections of the state I don't think a belt would be understood and I worry that my prosecutors will think I'm being forced. I just don't want that much attention on a personal decision. Especially a personal decision that I'm sure will not be generally accepted in the society I currently live in. I do not believe that it will for sure be discovered and I don't want to "out" myself so to speak.

            LOL... machine pistols and flame throwers made me laugh. I don't think anyone has ever tried to sneak in a flame thrower LOL!

            Angelina That is exactly my concern. In a smaller community I do think things like the belt could affect my career.

                  Abby82
                  Thanks for the interest, given the circumstances, things are going well. I try to adapt. The adjustments are more psychological than physical. Now I barely touched myself, but the idea that I can't do it anymore is something I have to get used to. As if that part of my body is no longer mine. Which in fact is.

                    BD1791 That is exactly my concern. In a smaller community I do think things like the belt could affect my career

                    yes, especially because as a lawyer/judge you should also appear serious, otherwise you will not be trusted very much. really difficult, you have to be careful in any case.

                        Angelina I will be. That's why we are taking out time. He would never do anything to harm me.

                            Owl Am I right that this is about USA courthouses?

                            At least in Canadian courthouse you have to go through metal detectors. At my high school we had an opportunity to watch trials as a part of law class, and it was a basic security measure at Canadian courthouse.

                              Joh that's not a bad idea but I do like the metal one. Seems more secure.

                                  BD1791
                                  In the meantime, there are plastics that are stronger than stainless steel and weigh less. Especially for such a case, it would be a solution.

                                      Joh that's really interesting. I'll have to look into that.

                                        Joh do you by chance have any links to those?

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                                            BD1791 They don't exist jet. I worked on a Design and have some material for Test already. But could Not find the time to Work in it further

                                                BD1791 I will be. That's why we are taking out time. He would never do anything to harm me.

                                                I believe that. He must be very proud of what you have achieved so far. 🙂

                                                Joh An option would be a CB mad from plastic.

                                                this is a really good idea 😉

                                                BD1791 that's not a bad idea but I do like the metal one. Seems more secure.

                                                I think it is sufficient for work, you are usually distracted by sexual thoughts anyway. 😉

                                                        BD1791

                                                        i searched the internet briefly, but unfortunately without success 🙁 i think there was a link here, but i can't find it anymore. but there must be something like that.

                                                            Angelina I believe that the somewhat seriously meant chastity belts made from some kind of high-strength plastic were only one-off prototypes and were never available for sale.

                                                            I think that the issue is lack of market for such a thing (the market is quite obviously driven by BDSM use and plastic belt that is usable for normal life and not only play does not exactly seem to fit into that) rather than technical issues.

                                                                BD1791

                                                                You have first hand experiences with those places and people. Personally, in the situation I think of, I'd find it the less likely variant or even far fetched to assume you were forced - especially when you show up on your own and convey the opposite.

                                                                Anyway, what I wanted to say was starting by 'testing the water' at some favorable occasion not introducing everyone - particularly not in your immediate vicinity - at once.

                                                                You are oviously aware that trying to not tell anybody is a gamble as well. A gamble that many find themselves in.

                                                                BD1791 I don't anticipate a search or anything but it makes my anxiety shot up.

                                                                I'm not sure whether that is the better alternative on the long run. (That's why I hope we can raise the reputation of our choices and devices. Until our fear becomes undoubtedly unsubstantiated. That's for the long run, though.)

                                                                Regarding searches or not, I guess my misunderstanding is fed by my personal experience in these situations: I'm used to scans and security teams that almost surely will stop you and probably pad you down until they have a sufficient answer what caused the alarm. If you only get lax controls, I see why you have different expectations.

                                                                Still, I was wondering whether you already have thought about plan b if you continued with the plan hiding it but a check actually doesn't let you through without identifying all metallic items first?

                                                                      6373e6b2 I think that the issue is lack of market for such a thing (the market is quite obviously driven by BDSM use and plastic belt that is usable for normal life and not only play does not exactly seem to fit into that) rather than technical issues.

                                                                      yes, i agree. this is generally a big problem, that we are actually only a marginal group and the main group of customers use the belt as a toy or fetish toy. so unfortunately innovations that could make it easier for long-term wearers are permanently suppressed, a real pity.