BD update

Angelina

BD1791 Do you guys have thoughts on that?

there are some users who have less cleaning breaks, but i would clean you and the belt thoroughly at least once a day. im being monitored while during this, i think then it should work for you too

BD1791

Angelina ok. Thank you. I don't want an infection.

Sara2001

From my experience I can say with a lot of effort when showering/cleaning with the belt, it's possible to prevent an infection. I believe from a technical point of view it could even be possible without any openings ever, but this would definitely be very inconvenient. From my experience I can say that it works for a very long time with one unbelted cleaning per week but more is definitely better.

Ines

Sara2001 I believe from a technical point of view it could even be possible without any openings eve

No, I think it is not possible, even merely remove removing scales of dead skin from the perineum area or proper cleaning of the folds and mucous membranes, is not something that can be done without removing the belt.

kat_anders

BD1791 I've seen people say once a week is enough but I'm worried about infection so... I don't know if I could go a week without cleaning out of the belt.

I get a bath twice a week, supervised, with the belt off. When I have a bath the belt is cleaned too. I shower daily of course, which isn’t as good as bathing without the belt but it seems to keep me clean enough.

BD1791

kat_anders thank you for your help! We got a detachable shower head. I'm hoping that helps for cleaning in-between when the belt comes off.

Sara2001

Ines Okay never is maybe not possible, but with bathing and stuff, it's technically possible for a very long time. I don't say I suggest it or that it's a good choice, I just say that I think it's possible for weeks.

Ines

Sara2001

I understood you, do not worry, I just wanted underline it, not for you an rest of normal experienced people, but for maybe a newbie that can be lurking.

Angelina

Sara2001 I just say that I think it's possible for weeks.

it is possible, i know 2 or 3 years ago we did a joint experiment with the bra, you wanted to know how long it is possible because of a holiday and i also tested it.

You can do that once in a while, but not on a regular basis, in that case I agree with @Ines.

Megan

@BD1791 sounds good

Bryan

BD1791 Any updates on moving to 24/7 wearing? Have you worn your belt yet to the infamous metal detector courthouse?

BD1791

Bryan I got an infection and then a tattoo on my hip so I had to take a little break but it's back on and I have worn it 24 hours at a time now. It's getting more comfortable but sleeping is a real challenge. I like to sleep on my side normally but can't really do that with this belt. My neosteel is finally on its way and I got thigh bands with that one. Hopefully I don't regret that later 😂

Ines

BD1791 It's getting more comfortable but sleeping is a real challenge.

Nice to see you here.
I feel bad for your infection... Is everything right currently?
Sleep is always a difficult issue until you get used. Buy a breastfeeding cushion, it allows you experiment with plenty of positions.
If bands do not have a short chain or block piece, are compatible with cushions too.

Bryan

Happy to hear it is getting more comfortable! Any news on your Neosteel belt and bands?

BD1791

Bryan he emailed 2ish weeks ago that it was almost done but I haven't followed up. I'll email for an update.

Ines I'm good now. It was a UTI which is never fun. Hopefully it's a very long time before I have another.

I have a full length body pillow that I think is similar to what you are suggesting. The belt just feels so tight against me. It's better on my back but I've always been a side sleeper. I really hope it gets better ☹️

Angelina

BD1791

so you currently "only" have the belt and the thighbands are not yet delivered? i hope you can sleep better soon, your body will adapt and subconsciously assume comfortable positions. 🙂

Bryan

BD1791 It's going well physically but I'm not sure how I feel about it emotionally. I'm still sorting through how different it feels to know I can't take the belt off whenever I want and it's not his decision.

How are things going emotionally now that you've been locked in for a couple months now without direct access to your keys?

BD1791 he emailed 2ish weeks ago that it was almost done but I haven't followed up. I'll email for an update.

Hopefully a shiny new present for the new year. I am sure everyone here would enjoy any updates you are willing to share.

BD1791

Angelina I have my original belt, a fancy steel. I haven't received anything from neosteel yet.

BD1791

Bryan 🤔🤔🤔 I'm not really sure about the emotional side. Mostly I don't like that I can't take it off when I want to. It's not even sexual it's just not wanting it on. I hope that goes away too.

I'm still waiting for the neosteel. I haven't even received a shipping notice yet. I meant to email him but I was very busy with the holidays and it fell though the cracks.

Angelina

BD1791 I have my original belt, a fancy steel. I haven't received anything from neosteel yet.

right, you have two belts, i forgot. were the thighbands only ordered for the neosteel belt?

BD1791 It's not even sexual it's just not wanting it on. I hope that goes away too.

it gets better from week to week, but you will always have moments when you don't want to wear it, i think a supportive key holder is then the most important thing. 🙂

BD1791

Angelina the thigh bands are only with the neosteel so I don't have them yet.

Angelina it gets better from week to week, but you will always have moments when you don't want to wear it, i think a supportive key holder is then the most important thing.

He's pretty supportive but I don't know if it will get better. Part off my thinks I have lived too much life without it to adjust to this lifestyle now.